Toys at the bathhouse/fuck club

[NWUSHorny]

Pet peeve time again, I know I've posted at least one thread on toys at the bathhouse in the past. Guys bringing toys to the bathhouse and insisting on using them instead of a real human penis has long been a problem here in Portland. I've mostly been going to Steam for the last 2 or 3 years and Hawks has openly promoted that they are a toy friendly play space, including advertising that they have special toy washing facilities (scrub sink with Dawn dish soap in the dispenser), the dildo playdate guys have mostly disappeared from Steam. Last night at Hawks, there was a guy that brought his huge bag of toys and had them spread all over the large mattress upstairs and at times spilling over to the 2 adjacent slings that can be and sometimes actually is used for fucking with human penises, making it almost impossible for even a single couple to find a comfortable spot to play.

I was laying in one of the slings after getting bred when he packed up to go home, and noted that he had brought a duffle bag plus a giant beach/shopping bag full of toys and spread them out all over one of the more used group play spaces rendering it nearly useless for guys who actually did want to fuck.

Am I the only one that thinks this kind of behavior is rude at a fuck venue?

[PozToxVersPig]

@NWUSHorny - I want to comment on this and your other thread around spit and shove (link below) in one-fell-swoop...because they are, to me, related.  Beyond that, two separate friends had experiences related to these things within the last few months.

1. Use and type of lube is a personal preference and decision made in the moment.  I am generally fine with spit/shove unless it's the very start of things, but my friend "Eric" just told me about his recent experience.
   • Eric is a slut - on RentMen, takes and gives dick constantly.  He was at some party, and the guy who was starting to fuck him had a REALLY massive dick and so Eric asked, "hey can you use some lube" and the response Eric got was "no one else used any, why should I?" and then proceeded to fuck him.  Eric was PISSED because his plan had been to take many more loads, but what happened to him left him literally unable to take dick for over two weeks including that night.  This is the opposite of what you're saying, but I think it's confusing to hold the line at "artificial substance" when you're taking random anonymous DNA/loads/whatever.  Also, when topping, if you've never had a chaffed dick then you're a luckier person than me - that shit hurts and makes you walk strange for a few days at least.
      
2. TOYS - I have arrived with a buttplug in me and if at a bathhouse sometimes with dildos and toys.  The plug is good if there's a lull, the toys can be something a top might like in additional to fucking me.  I have heard NO ONE say that they prefer only one way and not the other.  If you state that you only wanna top with your dick, then it's not the right bottom for you - walk away.   Other guys may want to wreck that hole with toys before fucking.  I, personally, wouldn't INSIST on toys versus the opportunity to take your dick, but different strokes for different folks, I guess! 🙂  I don't think it's rude though.  What you're describing though is more about just being sloppy in the bathhouse, and I agree, if he was as messy as what you describe, bad behavior! 🙂

 

 

[NWUSHorny]

9 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

Use and type of lube is a personal preference and decision made in the moment.  I am generally fine with spit/shove unless it's the very start of things, but my friend "Eric" just told me about his recent experience.

• Eric is a slut - on RentMen, takes and gives dick constantly.  He was at some party, and the guy who was starting to fuck him had a REALLY massive dick and so Eric asked, "hey can you use some lube" and the response Eric got was "no one else used any, why should I?" and then proceeded to fuck him.  Eric was PISSED because his plan had been to take many more loads, but what happened to him left him literally unable to take dick for over two weeks including that night.  This is the opposite of what you're saying, but I think it's confusing to hold the line at "artificial substance" when you're taking random anonymous DNA/loads/whatever.  Also, when topping, if you've never had a chaffed dick then you're a luckier person than me - that shit hurts and makes you walk strange for a few days at least.

I have never had a fuck that put my hole out of commission for more than a few minutes, and I have taken some monsters with nothing but spit and my natural ass lube. My ass tends to produce so much natural lube even before I'm penetrated that I can't tell if it is ass mucus or cum after getting fucked by a huge dick.

I have definitely had chaffed dick, but I'm either an idiot or a glutton for punishment. It's not unusual for me to keep fucking with a red swollen dick as long as I can get it up. I'm pretty sure that's how I became POZ, I went to LA and Palm Springs over Labor Day weekend 2017 and stuck my dick in every willing hole, with or without cum in it for 4 solid days, I could barely walk for a week. I don't remember for sure, but since I came home to Portland it was probably several weeks before I put myself through the frustration of trying to find a fuck locally.

[PozToxVersPig]

9 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I have never had a fuck that put my hole out of commission for more than a few minutes,

Well, you're lucky....many have.  And congrats on that flex.  

[nonmononymous]

1 hour ago, NWUSHorny said:

Pet peeve time again, I know I've posted at least one thread on toys at the bathhouse in the past. Guys bringing toys to the bathhouse and insisting on using them instead of a real human penis has long been a problem here in Portland. I've mostly been going to Steam for the last 2 or 3 years and Hawks has openly promoted that they are a toy friendly play space, including advertising that they have special toy washing facilities (scrub sink with Dawn dish soap in the dispenser), the dildo playdate guys have mostly disappeared from Steam. Last night at Hawks, there was a guy that brought his huge bag of toys and had them spread all over the large mattress upstairs and at times spilling over to the 2 adjacent slings that can be and sometimes actually is used for fucking with human penises, making it almost impossible for even a single couple to find a comfortable spot to play.

I was laying in one of the slings after getting bred when he packed up to go home, and noted that he had brought a duffle bag plus a giant beach/shopping bag full of toys and spread them out all over one of the more used group play spaces rendering it nearly useless for guys who actually did want to fuck.

Am I the only one that thinks this kind of behavior is rude at a fuck venue?

This guy hates fun 👆

[NWUSHorny]

32 minutes ago, nonmononymous said:

This guy hates fun 👆

For the record, I had fun without using toys, and hope all of the guys I fucked with real live boy cocks and/or got fucked by my real live boy cock, enjoyed themselves as well. I guess I'm too vanilla, but I don't see the point in playing with sex toys when the real thing is available. My hole was full of cum and 2 guys wound up with my cum in them.

Edited Sunday at 11:55 PM by NWUSHorny

[nonmononymous]

6 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

For the record, I had fun without using toys, and hope all of the guys I fucked with real live boy cocks and/or got fucked by my real live boy cock, enjoyed themselves as well. I guess I'm too vanilla, but I don't see the point in playing with sex toys when the real thing is available. My hole was full of cum and 2 guys wound up with my cum in them.

A guy playing with his toys made you so jealous you had to whine about it online, and you want me to believe the sex you had during that was good? 🤡

[hntnhole]

20 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

Am I the only one that thinks this kind of behavior is rude at a fuck venue?

Hardly.  

From what you describe, it's completely selfish and nothing else.  If he keeps his stuff in his room, at least other guys don't have to be bothered with it.  But strewing the shit all over fuck gear intended for every guy to have access to is nothing but selfish.  

Maybe, when this (emotionally) 12-year-old actually grows up, he'll figure out that his peculiar affinity simply isn't shared by every other guy in the fuckjoint. 

Your post reminds me of my kid sister, playing with her dolls.  

[Alexpdx]

11 hours ago, nonmononymous said:

A guy playing with his toys made you so jealous you had to whine about it online, and you want me to believe the sex you had during that was good? 🤡

I frequent Hawks (the bathhouse in question). It’s not huge and the communal play space is limited.  If this guy was monopolizing the big orgy bed with his toys, that’s super rude.

I’m not sure why you’re characterizing this as jealousy - either you’re missing the OP’s point or you're the guy with the toys and you’re getting all defensive for being called out. 

[NWUSHorny]

12 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

Hardly.  

From what you describe, it's completely selfish and nothing else.  If he keeps his stuff in his room, at least other guys don't have to be bothered with it.  But strewing the shit all over fuck gear intended for every guy to have access to is nothing but selfish.  

Maybe, when this (emotionally) 12-year-old actually grows up, he'll figure out that his peculiar affinity simply isn't shared by every other guy in the fuckjoint. 

Your post reminds me of my kid sister, playing with her dolls.  

I'm guessing he is well into his 60's. He is mostly what locals consider a "top", he didn't on Saturday, but has offered to use his dildos in my hole in the past.

10 minutes ago, Alexpdx said:

I frequent Hawks (the bathhouse in question). It’s not huge and the communal play space is limited.  If this guy was monopolizing the big orgy bed with his toys, that’s super rude.

I’m not sure why you’re characterizing this as jealousy - either you’re missing the OP’s point or you're the guy with the toys and you’re getting all defensive for being called out. 

I've seen him carrying his bag of toys around before, but never spread out like this. When I 1st got there his stuff was spread out not only on the bed, but there was a toy in both of the adjacent slings, until a couple wanting to fuck asked him to move his toys so they could use the sling for it's intended purpose. 

I realize Hawks has heavily catered to fetishes, including toy play being mentioned prominently on their website, since they opened in the new location, but this behavior seemed ridiculous at a bear event. I'm not a regular anymore because they've leaned so far into the fetish thing, and apparently it is working at this location after they abandoned it at shortly after opening in the original location. 

[NWUSHorny]

12 hours ago, nonmononymous said:

A guy playing with his toys made you so jealous you had to whine about it online, and you want me to believe the sex you had during that was good? 🤡

I'm not jealous, just a little frustrated.

[Labtmguy]

I have visited a few in the LA area but have yet to see any or bring one with me. I know flex sells them but haven't seen them used. For me it would kinda defeat the purpose of being there, I go for real dick not rubber. If I want rubber I can save the money and hasel and stay home.  

[NWUSHorny]

2 hours ago, Labtmguy said:

I have visited a few in the LA area but have yet to see any or bring one with me. I know flex sells them but haven't seen them used. For me it would kinda defeat the purpose of being there, I go for real dick not rubber. If I want rubber I can save the money and hasel and stay home.  

Other than an occasional bottom that keeps himself plugged between fucks, I've never seen them at a bathhouse in LA. Bringing them and insisting on using them instead of fucking with real cock is unique to Portland, Seattle and Vancouver, in my experience.

Edited 2 hours ago by NWUSHorny