Becoming friends with your bottoms and cocksuckers.

[Eagerindayton]

So I have been visiting the same cocksucker now for over 30 years. Of course in addition to his services, I have used the services of many others like him and dedicated like him. I've been wondering recently what would have happened if maybe I had reached out to them to maybe become friends with benefits or just going out to eat or go out for drinks. So I'm curious, as anyone had this type of experience where they go in and start the relationship all about sex but then it turns into a friendship. Maybe the friendship could be with or without sex. I don't know I was just thinking about that and wondered if how it worked out for other people. Thanks for responding.

[Hungryforbbc]

I have generally preferred to enforce boundaries with my play buddies rather than complicate things by making it more than that. I did have a few guys who were friends first and then at some point I was able to get them to play with me but only on a limited basis rather than ongoing. 
 

the longest playmate was well over 20 years and he eventually wanted a serious relationship- this happened with a few guys- and I had to stop seeing them because of it. Shame too.

[sub4oralcum]

I have never sucked anyone that I already knew. I'm not interested in sucking anyone I know. I love sucking strangers. I have gotten to know several people that I've sucked and continued to suck them off for years.

I don't mind a friendly acquaintance with someone whose cock I suck, but I've never gone out to eat or done any other activity with anyone. With that being said, there is one regular feeder who visited me when I was in the hospital. I've been sucking his BBC for many years. 🤤

[BruxoCub]

I've had flirty flings with people for a long while that developed into hookups when a chance presented itself but I've been mostly a stranger / anon hookup type.

I really think I'd like to have regular play buddies, but it seems like everyones so caught up in the horny casino of apps and endless maybes that no one can say hey, you free friday night? let's bate.

[Yeasure]

13 hours ago, BruxoCub said:

I've had flirty flings with people for a long while that developed into hookups when a chance presented itself but I've been mostly a stranger / anon hookup type.

I really think I'd like to have regular play buddies, but it seems like everyones so caught up in the horny casino of apps and endless maybes that no one can say hey, you free friday night? let's bate.

I had a very long term fuck buddy situation for over 20 years with a biker guy, married with kids. He’s just oversexed and needs to fuck a lot. So when his wife wouldn’t or couldn’t, he came and used my ass. It was awesome.