Wtf, no more orgies!!

[muscmtl]

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

[norefusal]

this implies that you used to be able to freely join orgies w strangers, which to me is the real surprise 🤣

re: sniffies ive had guys try to partner w me to host such events but tbh i think its more wishful thinking than anything and really - who wants to open their home to unvetted randoms? 

i have hosted "orgies" which are part of meet up groups i belong to. this is perhaps old school but if it ain't broke don't fix it. you advertise a member based group for  some vague thing like "area gays", offer social hr w food and bev and just so happen to have a finished basement and/or playroom where group sex happens. these do lean more FWB than random anon but that's not a bad thing for some. 

i was recently told a story by a friend. his friend belongs to a private orgy group where he says he was fucked by 23 guys last time he went. supposidly it was not a parTy. 😮 our mutual friend then tried to join the group only to be told he didn't meet the high "hotness" standards for membership. everyone else was livid over the snub but i was like "grow up and smell the poppers! gays who exclude sex partners due to shallow beauty standards? shocking-not!" 😜but really all i wanted to discuss was "holy busted cunt batman! 23 guys! sober?! did he have to wear an adult diaper on the ride home?" 🤣careful what u wish for boys 

im also in a few local sex party membership based groups not on meet up including one for FF. they exist and im sure there are more that i dont know about because im not "cool" enough to be told 😜

Edited 13 hours ago by norefusal

[muscmtl]

47 minutes ago, norefusal said:

this implies that you used to be able to freely join orgies w strangers, which to me is the real surprise 🤣

re: sniffies ive had guys try to partner w me to host such events but tbh i think its more wishful thinking than anything and really - who wants to open their home to unvetted randoms? 

i have hosted "orgies" which are part of meet up groups i belong to. this is perhaps old school but if it ain't broke don't fix it. you advertise a member based group for  some vague thing like "area gays", offer social hr w food and bev and just so happen to have a finished basement and/or playroom where group sex happens. these do lean more FWB than random anon but that's not a bad thing for some. 

i was recently told a story by a friend. his friend belongs to a private orgy group where he says he was fucked by 23 guys last time he went. supposidly it was not a parTy. 😮 our mutual friend then tried to join the group only to be told he didn't meet the high "hotness" standards for membership. everyone else was livid over the snub but i was like "grow up and smell the poppers! gays who exclude sex partners due to shallow beauty standards? shocking-not!" 😜but really all i wanted to discuss was "holy busted cunt batman! 23 guys! sober?! did he have to wear an adult diaper on the ride home?" 🤣careful what u wish for boys 

im also in a few local sex party membership based groups not on meet up including one for FF. they exist and im sure there are more that i dont know about because im not "cool" enough to be told 😜

And of course the 23 guys is an absolute truth verified by video. ,,🤗 

[subyort]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

I've noticed about 75% of them in the Chicago area are like this and the others seem to be somewhat exclusionary for chubs like me. But we do have bathhouses and backrooms in the bars here which are more accommodating. However, I do seem to get better hookups on Sniffies than the other apps. BBRTS is kind of the same too.

[Njn0mc]

Hosting a group works..  that is how I found a few groups (orgy)

[BruxoCub]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

Yeah, I feel like everyones scatterbrained these days and can't just hang out and have fun anymore.

It's always some load collection situation or a content creation scene.

There used to be orgy groups in the hollywood hills that would randomly meet for a cover charge, I miss those, and the arcade and bathouse options in the area that all closed.

[NWUSHorny]

3 hours ago, muscmtl said:

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

I thought it was area specific, we don't even see the bottom taking loads postings here in Portland. We do see some regular orgies posted, but when you check the profiles attending you will be lucky to find 1 or 2 out of 50 that list fucking as one of the activities they are looking for. Everyone here is looking for a damned cuddle buddy, and "might do oral if everything feels right.," or anything and everything that doesn't require penetration.

I had no problem finding orgies in other places I've lived but I've lived here 19 years now, and even in the last year in my travels have managed to get invited to some small ones with a handful of horny fuckers in Honolulu (through Sniffies) and Palm Springs (hanging out at the fuck club).

[PervBugChaser]

coz most gays are selfish bottoms now. They don't wanna share their cocks, or share tops with other bottoms.

[socalbttm223]

It's funny I have a major preference for stocky/bigger guys so once I see their rules are exclusionary of those body types it's usually a pass for me 😆

[NJRawDaddy]

We have a nice orgy group out here in suburban NJ every month or so.  A couple of friends (and playmates) of mine run it.  They split the logistics -- one pays for the room while the other does the recruiting / messaging.

Their events are typically mid 30s through mid 60s, modestly fit to somewhat chubby.  They don't usually let in younger guys because experience has found that even though they say they're okay playing with older guys, the younger guys are typically uncomfortable and get clickish with each other.  They make for a bad vibe so they aren't allowed in.  (Although I suppose if one repeatedly said he very much wanted to play with older men that he could convince the host to give him a try.)

The vibe at the event is very hot and very relaxed.  The event runs about 3 hours, with about half of the guys departing by the 2 hour mark, and 90% departing by 3 hours.  A few of us usually stay a bit longer playing and talking in a more relaxed and intimate fashion.

It's definitely some work to throw such an event, especially since the guy who does the messaging goesn't get as much action at the event.  He has to enjoy watching and understand that a lot of his playing will come in bursts and later in the evening.

[Justaholeff]

 Me, my bro, and few of our fuck buds got invited to an orgy....we arrived and was met by the host...nice guy and we could see from the foyer that the action had started in the living room...we all said to each other, as we left a tip in the donate jar and started to get undress, that we could tell it was gonna be a good night of fucking,ff, and sucking...

.until the host and answered the door and loudly said to the guys at the door, " Nope...you two are fat and ugly, and certainly do not meet my standards!" I saw the guys...yeah, not drop dead gorgeous models or bodybuilders but,  decent guys...I immediately starting putting my clothes back on, as the host slammed the door on them! Told my bro and my buds that we are outta here!

The host came up to me as I was pulling my t shirt back over my head and started to rub my bare butt! I jerked away immediately and said loudly "don't even think about it!" He said what? 

I told him that he was an asshole because of the way he reacted to the guys and the door! I said even if they didn't meet his type..they could have been somebody else's type and handled that totally devoid of kindness and respect!

I quickly pulled up my shorts and put on flip flops, as the host got defensive and said my party and my rules!

As we walked out, my Bro responded  and said, Dude your party and your rules don't meet our fucking standards! I gave him a wicked smirk and our fuck buds flipped him off...he just stood at the door with slack jaw and dejected look...I turned around and said, " Dude, our world is judged by  homophobic assholes and we don't need our own throwing stone at our fellow brothers....empathy is a fucking hot turn on!

We proceeded to stop at a local gay bar to grab some beers and ran into the couple that the asshole had rejected...We immediately said to them that we told the host off and left his orgy...

One of the guys actually broke down crying saying that he had lost weight and really worked hard on his self esteem this past year and this orgy was gonna be a stepping stone for him with his new found confidence and reentry back into, his words, a cruel world of mean gays...

my bro hugged him hard and I told him that regardless of what happened tonight and that no matter how he looked he would always be a better man then that asshole at the door...

...we all sat for awhile and drank our beers and chatted..eventually getting him and his boyfriend laughing... after we all started feeling a buzz...I said "well guys, let's head back to my place and fuck!"

So we had our own orgy with a new friends the center of attention!...

As I was fucking my new friend, he whispered in my ear that that a guy like me with a firm ass was fucking him was only a fantasy to the version of him a few years ago....I told him the truth and whispered back that I've been with all types of guys and I can honestly say I probably fucked your earlier version too..cause I've learned that that the ones that might not be the same type as me or my typical type are usally really fun good fucks!

I then kissed him said it's the soul that counts ....if it's good and then guy with soul may be a really great fuck  but, if that soul is bad, like the asshole at the door...it ain't gonna happen! 

As we all ate breakfast that morning, our new friends said that they are so happy that they met us and felt good! 

My Bro said that they are now part of our pack and we all exchanged numbers...

I kissed my new friend goodbye and as they proceeded out the door..a good  gym friend of mine, who is hot as hell, was coming up the stairs to my door and started to laugh and said "I know what type of party I sadly missed seeing all these studs leaving "justaholeff's" apartment ! He then proceeded to slap my new friend on the ass and said,"next time?

"  I introduced them and said, in particular, my new friend, here, is beautiful inside and out and knows how to have a great fuck!

We all laughed and I winked at my new friend, that was blushing from the flirting from my friend of a gym greek gods body and my compliment...He responded as they went down the stairs with very confident "fucking right!"

Edited 2 hours ago by Justaholeff
Left out word

[xxbjn2]

22 minutes ago, Justaholeff said:

 Me, my bro, and few of our fuck buds got invited to an orgy....we arrived and was met by the host...nice guy and we could see from the foyer that the action had started in the living room...we all said to each other, as we left a tip in the donate jar and started to get undress, that we could tell it was gonna be a good night of fucking,ff, and sucking...

.until the host and answered the door and loudly said to the guys at the door, " Nope...you two are fat and ugly, and certainly do not meet my standards!" I saw the guys...yeah, not drop dead gorgeous models or bodybuilders but,  decent guys...I immediately starting putting my clothes back on, as the host slammed the door on them! Told my bro and my buds that we are outta here!

The host came up to me as I was pulling my t shirt back over my head and started to rub my bare butt! I jerked away immediately and said loudly "don't even think about it!" He said what? 

I told him that he was an asshole because of the way he reacted to the guys and the door! I said even if they didn't meet his type..they could have been somebody else's type and handled that totally devoid of kindness and respect!

I quickly pulled up my shorts and put on flip flops, as the host got defensive and said my party and my rules!

As we walked out, my Bro responded  and said, Dude your party and your rules don't meet our fucking standards! I gave him a wicked smirk and our fuck buds flipped him off...he just stood at the door with slack jaw and dejected look...I turned around and said, " Dude, our world is judged by  homophobic assholes and we don't need our own throwing stone at our fellow brothers....empathy is a fucking hot turn on!

We proceeded to stop at a local gay bar to grab some beers and ran into the couple that the asshole had rejected...We immediately said to them that we told the host off and left his orgy...

One of the guys actually broke down crying saying that he had lost weight and really worked hard on his self esteem this past year and this orgy was gonna be a stepping stone for him with his new found confidence and reentry back into, his words, a cruel world of mean gays...

my bro hugged him hard and I told him that regardless of what happened tonight and that no matter how he looked he would always be a better man then that asshole at the door...

...we all sat for awhile and drank our beers and chatted..eventually getting him and his boyfriend laughing... after we all started feeling a buzz...I said "well guys, let's head back to my place and fuck!"

So we had our own orgy with a new friends the center of attention!...

As I was fucking my new friend, he whispered in my ear that that a guy like me with a firm ass was fucking him was only a fantasy to the version of him a few years ago....I told him the truth and whispered back that I've been with all types of guys and I can honestly say I probably fucked your earlier version too..cause I've learned that that the ones that might not be the same type as me or my typical type are usally really fun good fucks!

I then kissed him said it's the soul that counts ....if it's good and then guy with soul may be a really great fuck  but, if that soul is bad, like the asshole at the door...it ain't gonna happen! 

As we all ate breakfast that morning, our new friends said that they are so happy that they met us and felt good! 

My Bro said that they are now part of our pack and we all exchanged numbers...

I kissed my new friend goodbye and as they proceeded out the door..a good  gym friend of mine, who is hot as hell, was coming up the stairs to my door and started to laugh and said "I know what type of party I sadly missed seeing all these studs leaving "justaholeff's" apartment ! He then proceeded to slap my new friend on the ass and said,"next time?

"  I introduced them and said, in particular, my new friend, here, is beautiful inside and out and knows how to have a great fuck!

We all laughed and I winked at my new friend, that was blushing from the flirting from my friend of a gym greek gods body and my compliment...He responded as they went down the stairs with very confident "fucking right!"

I knew there was a reason why I always found you to be a fucking hot stud!.  I fucking love your attitude, you're a star.

[Justaholeff]

9 minutes ago, xxbjn2 said:

I knew there was a reason why I always found you to be a fucking hot stud!.  I fucking love your attitude, you're a star.

Bro...now you're making me blush!