Rant: When will you come and visit me?

[HungLatinDom]

Sorry about this rant, but I had one too many messages on this subject on BBRT and other websites.

Every now and then a hot guy, or a guy who I have no interest in, it does not matter, sends me a message, telling me I have a nice dick or body. I reply, saying thanks, that should be the end of the story. But many times these fuckers want to talk and "get to know" me, and end up asking me when am I going to go to Fargo, North Dakota, Missoula, Montana, Canberra, Australia, or whatever.

Excuse me?

There he is, a guy on his fifties or forties, in a developed country, making 10 times what I make, asking me to go to their place? WTF? I think it is incredibly annoying and disrespectful to ask that stupid question. If I had any intention of going that way, I would have said so, and no matter how hot is a guy, I am not paying 2000 dollars to meet him. Hell, these days, even if they gave me a plane ticket (it has happened in the past, and I have fucked a lot to compensate the expense), I could not spare the time to go.

I find arrogant from a guy that _sends the first message_, and that I have expressed no interest at all in meeting to even think this kind of scenario. So, he lives in a developed country, with many times my disposable income and I should fucking go to him, even if he lives in the middle of nowhere? That's so much selfishness and being an asshole that I would not want to touch him even with my foreskin.

OTOH, bottoms that would travel down here would be (and have been) very welcome, and introduced to my local friends. Hell, they could even stay here and get fucked while I'm at work, I love cummy holes. An American came here and we did that several times, it worked well. I appreciate a lot that kind of willingness, I know bottoms can choose, my dick is not the biggest and I am not hot as in porn star hot, so I really feel humble about a guy wanting to give himself to me bad enough to travel such a long way, even if I love piggy subs, I would not be with my head so up my own ass to assume I can just tell them to come and they will.

Is anyone else bothered by this? I can understand a sub bottom being turned on by this attitude, however. (I had a guy drive from Venture county to SF just to pick me up and take me to his place).

[Bear4Breeding]

I can't say I've had this happen to me. I have gone places in the past to meet people but not in many years now though and I wouldn't do it either now.

There was this one guy go though in the last few years that kept sending me eamils from CL wanting to fuck me, but I had to go pick him up and bring him to my place and then take him back again. HA! I had to do that sort of thing years ago when I lived with my mom before I moved out on my own, now that i have have my own house and such, if you want to fuck me, you need to get to me yourself and leave yourself. Sometimes after a good fuck I don't want to have to drive after, it kind of destroys the mood after ya know.

[fargo_bare]

As probably the only guy from Fargo North Dakota on here--I know I haven't asked you to come here. But I would. (You are Hot) I have never really asked anyone to come up... other than time wasters. I've talked to so many of them that I don't go to them. Just because 90% never follow through. I figure if they want it bad enough they can come up here.

And no offense taken. Just had to point out that there is life in Fargo

Edited November 14, 2011 by Hotload84

[bbplayfulcat]

When I find a guy interesting and say they are willing to come here.I usually take a few months to really see if this is real or just some internet bs.It's easy to hide behind a screen.I've had a few that have shown up.My offer is always honesty and I will pay for their gas or hotel room and make sure they leave satisfied..Believe me I've had many real takers and formed some lasting friendships.Not everyone are phonies but it is better to stay local,lol

[seaguy]

I have always thought Chile was a developed country.

My similar rant would be guys who are in other states who message me when I have it listed I am seeking a hookup. I don't have a lear jet sitting on the tarmac waiting for my instructions and it while I like to meet new people when your looking for a hookup have people across the country messaging is just annoying.

[bttmboy4daddy]

I've had guys on hookup sites ask me to drive 2+ hours (each way) just to give them a blowjob (yeah, 4+ hour round trip when you won't last more than 10 minutes before cumming? not gonna happen). I've had guys ask me to drive 5+ hours each way and "spend the weekend" with them. I have traveled across the country for house-boy jobs, and LTRs, but there's no fucking way I'm spending that much time and gas-money on sex. I don't care how hot a guy is; if you really expect a guy to travel more than 30 minutes to get in your ass or on your cock, then you're in dire need of a reality check.

Edited November 14, 2011 by bttmboy4daddy