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escorts and harddon, how do they do it?


muscmtl

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Been asking myself this question for a long time. Personally, there is no way I'll get a harddon if the guy doesn't turn me on. And I bet the same goes for everyone. How the hell does an escort get a harddon (the ones saying that they are strict tops... as if) when dealing a repulsive client? Hardon has to do with turned-on; that's just basic nature.

And don't give me the Viagra crap You need to be arroused (that means in your brain) to get Viagra to work.

Like how do you get a harddon, or even keep it, if you're next to guys (like peepshows, backrooms) that make you want to you run like hell. I'm not interested in what defines a repulsive guy (to each is own) but how can you have sex, not because you want to, but because you have to, like escorts. Unlike girls, we cannot fake it.

Steve

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This is a question I have asked myself too... I have been with 2 escorts only in my entire life (just to say, "ok, I have done it"). To one of them I asked this question, and he replied me "this is my work. It's like stamping your time card when you go to work. You have to do it even if you are not in the mood". I do not know if this is a complete answer, but I found it funny. Personally I think there is more, cause like "musccmtl" I would not be able to get hard if I do not like the guy next to me

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There are also the injectables, like Caverject (alprostadil), bimix (papaverine plus phentolamine) and trimix (papaverine plus phentolamine plus alprostadil). My husband uses bimix, and gets a bionic boner that lasts for 2-3 hours. He can think about nuns, dead kittens, Michelle Bachman - and it still stays hard (which can be a lot of fun for me!). I'm seeing an urologist soon to see if I can get a prescription for one of the above, as I want to top more, but have problems staying hard long enough.

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Back when I was doing it, I didn't really have that much of a problem with getting a hardon. But I think that's mostly because I'm attracted to a very wide range of men. It was very rare for me to run into a client who had no redeeming qualities whatsoever. Perhaps part of it was because I also took the time to get to know many of my clients (a lot of them seemed to enjoy conversation before and after sex almost as much as the sex itself) and found them to be have interesting and attractive personalities. Most of them seemed to be hiring escorts because of circumstances in their life (lots of work, deep in the closet, etc.) rather than any inherent unattractiveness. For whatever reason they simply found themselves unable or unwilling to put too much effort into finding a partner.

Also because I kinda got off on the idea of being an escort too...that turned me on big time.

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