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Announcement: BBBH.com Purchased, Hookup Site Coming
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
It won't be integrated like Raunchy Fuckers, but I might do a one-time dump of guys with >100 posts who have been active in the past month. -
Announcement: BBBH.com Purchased, Hookup Site Coming
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Separate. Part of the same network of sites, but separate. #BBBH, as I understand it, isn't for a particular site. It signifies the group, not a site. -
Announcement: BBBH.com Purchased, Hookup Site Coming
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'll put a comment on this thread when it's ready for signups. It'll be a few days. It's currently at Moniker which is a rather difficult registrar to transfer away from. Will probably take 4 or 5 days to get it to eNom (my primary registrar). Then I have to get an SSL cert for it. That'll probably take another day to coordinate with my hosting provider. Then I need to install the software and do basic configuration - so that's another day or two. And in the middle of all that is Christmas Eve, Christmas, etc. But the real question is how long it takes Moniker to release the domain. Could be an hour or could be a week. #BBBH, of course. I know that's a little confusing. For more clarity I guess you just write out the URL, so TBD, I guess. -
Announcement: BBBH.com Purchased, Hookup Site Coming
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
There has never been a site on BBBH.com. Maybe you're thinking of BBBH.org. -
I've got rather big news… I've purchased BBBH.com. It wasn't cheap and it took me 4 months to make it happen, but it's done now. What this means is that The Bareback Brotherhood is getting a hookup site! And hopefully before too long there will be critical mass on BBBH.com and you guys will have another viable option to use when you wanna hookup with other barebackers. Admittedly things will be rough at first. I'm using some "dating" software as a starting point which I'll then need to modify rather heavily. That means some rather basic features will be missing initially – like Quick Connect / Hookup Now, and sex party listings. But I'll do what I can to get those features implemented as quickly as possible. Please be patient in the meantime. I've got a lot of plans for the site. If you have specific questions, just ask and I'll fill you in. But as general goals I want the site to be very mobile friendly and very social and community oriented. It won't be like that on day 1, but it'll get there. And a unified chat solution will be coming for both BBBH and Breeding Zone. I'm currently transferring the domain to my primary registrar. Hopefully I'll have the basics set up on the site before Christmas. There won't be much there initially, but you guys will want to sign up to reserve your desired screen name.
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I won't be at MAL this year. I'm locking this thread to avoid confusion.
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Any chance they ran through a cruisy park and your son took loads from more than his boyfriend?
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Barebacking: My Close Brush With Hiv Infection
rawTOP replied to VoiceOfReason's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
The moral of the story is don't be like VoR and his ex - get tested regularly for HIV - even if you think you don't have it. As the example of his ex demonstrates - bad things can happen when you go too long between tests. IMHO, you should get tested at least every year, if not more frequently. And never go more than two years between tests. Ever. HIV is a pain in the ass, but these days the problems VoR describes can largely be avoided by timely treatment. There's no reason for people to go through experiences like the one he describes. -
Five minutes can feel like a long time. I've had pump-n-dump hookups that were shorter. So I know what you mean.
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I just added it.
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List Your Site Suggestions Here...
rawTOP replied to Belfast-Bottom's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Other than themed galleries, I'm not really sure what you're asking for. -
GeoLocation WILL be coming to Breeding Zone
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
It's going to take a little longer, BUT I'll be making a pretty big announcement early next week that's related to this, and after that point the whole geolocation and hookup stuff will be my top priority (though I do have to finish off a couple of projects or two that are 90% done). I could make the announcement today, but don't want to jinx anything. -
Let's say you hookup with top. While it's great if his dick springs to life instantly with a huge boner, in most cases it takes some time. I've always been a little self-conscious when a bottom is giving me a blowjob trying to get me hard and I'm not responding quickly enough. Thing is, how long is too long? At what point does the fact that he's not completely hard become a turn off? What if it took the top 5 or 10 minutes?
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I've been wondering what is is that exactly defines the bareback brotherhood (#BBBH). Clearly bareback sex has to be involved, and I'd think that you could sum it up by saying it's a brotherhood based on the exchange of cum. But even that doesn't quite clarify things… Let's say a guy has an oral cum fetish. He's 90% oral – sometimes he may not even get fucked, but when he does get fucked it tends to be bareback. Would he be a BBBH member? What about a submissive bottom who lets the top call the shots on whether a condom is used. I'm assuming he'd be a BBBH member, but not his condom-using tops. Or what about tops who fuck bareback but pull out? Or the bottoms who ask tops to pull out? Because iBlastInside is so focused on stealthing unfortunately I think some people think #BBBH = Stealthing. I sorta reject that notion. It's a brotherhood - which to me means voluntary participation - people have to want to be involved. I mean stealthers like iBlastInside are part of the brotherhood, but stealthing isn't in any way fundamental to the brotherhood (IMHO). So lets discuss what #BBBH means.
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Next time you pick up your Viagra/Cialis/Levitra ask for the drug information sheet on the drug. It's all explained there. It really is incredibly dangerous. If you do poppers don't do pill form ED treatments (Caverject or TriMix + poppers should be fine).
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There's an option in settings where you can fill in your IM account names.
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how do I get back to the mobile site
rawTOP replied to jcklvrga's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Lower right corner there's a drop down. Choose one of the Metro Mobile interface options. -
Viagra/Cialis/Levitra + Poppers can lead to hypotension (low blood pressure), blackouts and even death. Google it.
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I did a little research and found Lambda Legal's run down of HIV criminalization laws by state… fs_hiv-criminalization.pdf It varies widely by state. Near me – NY & CT have no laws against it. But NJ does have laws against it. DC (where MAL is held) has no law against it, but Illinois (where IML is held) does, and so on. When I dug a little further there is a provision in NY law about exposing someone to a "mortal danger", but given that HIV poz guys live relatively normal lifespans these days I don't think that would hold up in court. But realize, disclosure may not be enough – in some states even with disclosure you're guilty.
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List Your Site Suggestions Here...
rawTOP replied to Belfast-Bottom's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
You can "subscribe" to a thread at the top of each tread page. When you subscribe you have the option to be alerted when there are updates to the thread. You can also rate the thread to alert other people that it's a good thread. But there's no list of threads you've rated, so I think subscription comes the closest to what you're looking for. -
GeoLocation WILL be coming to Breeding Zone
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
There's nothing for you to test right now. What ever you went to is not connected to this site or any of my other sites. But a question - do you use Grindr, or Scruff or A4A Radar, etc? If so, then you're sharing your location. The question is how is that data used? Until you know, you shouldn't be so hasty to say 'no'. Even putting your zip code into a hookup site is sharing location data… -
Encountering any problem? Post them here...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
The guy who works for me managing the site helped me understand the problem. I turned off autoplay and things fixed themselves. -
GeoLocation WILL be coming to Breeding Zone
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Short answer 'no' - I haven't had much time lately to devote to it. BUT, my fingers are crossed that I may have a rather major announcement in the next few days that's related to the hookup site idea. -
There's an interesting article in the NYC local news website… http://www.dnainfo.com/new-york/20131203/chelsea/aids-organizations-see-fundraising-plummet-as-donors-shift-other-causes HIV/AIDS charities are seeing their donations dry up while other gay causes like gay marriage are seeing increases. I know GMHC, once a leader in HIV/AIDS work has been going through a lot of problems the last few years and is now just a shadow of the organization it used to be. That's probably pretty typical. In contrast Callen-Lorde (a GLBT health center here in NYC) is talking about where they locate if they expand their operations. My first gut reaction is that this is a normal and natural progression. HIV isn't what it used to be. Yes, the numbers of people with HIV continues to climb, but I'd guess that the number of people with AIDS is going down since most people with HIV don't progress to AIDS - at least not in Western countries where ARVs are available. Since HIV has been tamed (to a degree) it makes sense that there just isn't the same level of need for HIV/AIDS organizations, right? Or the HIV/AIDS organizations are becoming more like businesses and less like charities – Callen-Lorde being a good example of that. What are your thoughts? Is less funding for HIV/AIDS organizations a bad thing? If so, why?
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Encountering any problem? Post them here...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
What OS? I need enough info to try to reproduce the problem.
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