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I just added it.

Other than themed galleries, I'm not really sure what you're asking for.

It's going to take a little longer, BUT I'll be making a pretty big announcement early next week that's related to this, and after that point the whole geolocation and hookup stuff will be my top priority (though I do have to finish off a couple of projects or two that are 90% done). I could make the announcement today, but don't want to jinx anything.

Let's say you hookup with top. While it's great if his dick springs to life instantly with a huge boner, in most cases it takes some time. I've always been a little self-conscious when a bottom is giving me a blowjob trying to get me hard and I'm not responding quickly enough. Thing is, how long is too long? At what point does the fact that he's not completely hard become a turn off? What if it took the top 5 or 10 minutes?

I've been wondering what is is that exactly defines the bareback brotherhood (#BBBH). Clearly bareback sex has to be involved, and I'd think that you could sum it up by saying it's a brotherhood based on the exchange of cum. But even that doesn't quite clarify things… Let's say a guy has an oral cum fetish. He's 90% oral – sometimes he may not even get fucked, but when he does get fucked it tends to be bareback. Would he be a BBBH member? What about a submissive bottom who lets the top call the shots on whether a condom is used. I'm assuming he'd be a BBBH member, but not his condom-using tops. Or what about tops who fuck bareback but pull out? Or the bottoms who ask tops to pull out? Because iBlastInside is so focused on stealthing unfortunately I think some people think #BBBH = Stealthing. I sorta reject that notion. It's a brotherhood - which to me means voluntary participation - people have to want to be involved. I mean stealthers like iBlastInside are part of the brotherhood, but stealthing isn't in any way fundamental to the brotherhood (IMHO). So lets discuss what #BBBH means.

Next time you pick up your Viagra/Cialis/Levitra ask for the drug information sheet on the drug. It's all explained there. It really is incredibly dangerous. If you do poppers don't do pill form ED treatments (Caverject or TriMix + poppers should be fine).

There's an option in settings where you can fill in your IM account names.

Lower right corner there's a drop down. Choose one of the Metro Mobile interface options.

Viagra/Cialis/Levitra + Poppers can lead to hypotension (low blood pressure), blackouts and even death. Google it.

I did a little research and found Lambda Legal's run down of HIV criminalization laws by state… fs_hiv-criminalization.pdf It varies widely by state. Near me – NY & CT have no laws against it. But NJ does have laws against it. DC (where MAL is held) has no law against it, but Illinois (where IML is held) does, and so on. When I dug a little further there is a provision in NY law about exposing someone to a "mortal danger", but given that HIV poz guys live relatively normal lifespans these days I don't think that would hold up in court. But realize, disclosure may not be enough – in some states even with disclosure you're guilty.

You can "subscribe" to a thread at the top of each tread page. When you subscribe you have the option to be alerted when there are updates to the thread. You can also rate the thread to alert other people that it's a good thread. But there's no list of threads you've rated, so I think subscription comes the closest to what you're looking for.

There's nothing for you to test right now. What ever you went to is not connected to this site or any of my other sites. But a question - do you use Grindr, or Scruff or A4A Radar, etc? If so, then you're sharing your location. The question is how is that data used? Until you know, you shouldn't be so hasty to say 'no'. Even putting your zip code into a hookup site is sharing location data…

The guy who works for me managing the site helped me understand the problem. I turned off autoplay and things fixed themselves.

Short answer 'no' - I haven't had much time lately to devote to it. BUT, my fingers are crossed that I may have a rather major announcement in the next few days that's related to the hookup site idea.

There's an interesting article in the NYC local news website… http://www.dnainfo.com/new-york/20131203/chelsea/aids-organizations-see-fundraising-plummet-as-donors-shift-other-causes HIV/AIDS charities are seeing their donations dry up while other gay causes like gay marriage are seeing increases. I know GMHC, once a leader in HIV/AIDS work has been going through a lot of problems the last few years and is now just a shadow of the organization it used to be. That's probably pretty typical. In contrast Callen-Lorde (a GLBT health center here in NYC) is talking about where they locate if they expand their operations. My first gut reaction is that this is a normal and natural progression. HIV isn't what it used to be. Yes, the numbers of people with HIV continues to climb, but I'd guess that the number of people with AIDS is going down since most people with HIV don't progress to AIDS - at least not in Western countries where ARVs are available. Since HIV has been tamed (to a degree) it makes sense that there just isn't the same level of need for HIV/AIDS organizations, right? Or the HIV/AIDS organizations are becoming more like businesses and less like charities – Callen-Lorde being a good example of that. What are your thoughts? Is less funding for HIV/AIDS organizations a bad thing? If so, why?

What OS? I need enough info to try to reproduce the problem.

You sound like a good bottom. And yes, I'll push it if I feel like it and the bottom isn't complaining. Whatever makes my dick feel good and gets me to cum…

What video section? There's no video section on this site. Have you restarted your browser? Tried a different browser? Restarted your computer? What browser and OS are you using? Basically there's no way to help you without a proper description of your issue. But please do basic stuff yourself (like restarting).

That is part of the issue - it's definitely a business decision - they think they can make more money if Breeding Zone is not a sponsor. They also got pushback about BBRT, but they defended BBRT a lot more than Breeding Zone because BBRT was one of the initial sponsors that started CumUnion. They spun it to the critics that BBRT promoted serosorting - which is a bit absurd. I've never seen BBRT promote serosorting and I've been on there for YEARS. Plus, 1/3rd of poz guys don't know they're poz - serosorting is a joke because it doesn't work. IMHO (and I'm admittedly biased), there's a lot more meaningful and productive sexual health discussion here on Breeding Zone than there is or ever will be on BBRT. But here we accept the fact guys have the right to become poz if they choose to pursue it. That is deeply disturbing to some people. They can't see the good Breeding Zone does when they see bug chasing given a fair hearing and discussion. Chuck Renfrow is the person you're talking about. Having talked to people close to IML board members – their decision to go anti-bareback was completely Chuck's idea. He is clearly hypocritical. Personally I don't think the label hypocritical fits for CumUnion. They're not speaking out against us. They just can't be seen with us – there's a big substantive difference. That is exactly the level of pressure that CumUnion has to deal with. And as they expand into semi-hostile environments they have to be more and more careful. Again, it's a business decision. Personally I'd just stay away from a city if I couldn't find a venue that was more libertine. Because bathhouses are a shrinking market (due to competition from websites and apps), the younger, more progressive guys haven't been starting up bathhouses. As a result they're pretty much all owned and operated by people who lived through the AIDS crisis. That cohort still doesn't think rationally about barebacking and HIV. In 10 years they'll probably all start retiring and things will change, but until then the situation is what it is.

If you haven't noticed I'm not PNP friendly. I'll probably be worse about it than BBRT. The reason why I want to start a completely new site rather than add hookup functionalities to this one is because this one has too much PNP and HIV fetish stuff on it and hence can't appeal to a wider audience. Though, I'm thinking what I may do is make people declare where they stand on drug use and then let people filter out people who are into drugs. So you'll be on the site, but not many people will see your profile. Seems fair. But the penalty for putting drug references in a profile that's not flagged properly on drug use will be rather draconian.

Yes, I'll have them ready by MAL - most definitely.

Just got word today that Breeding Zone is no longer a CumUnion sponsor. They were getting push back by some new venues they were going after about the bug chasing sections here – though the only bug chasing that's visible to non-members is fiction – but whatever. It's disappointing. I'm bummed and I wonder what that means about CumUnion, but it is what it is.

I would say porn is almost never a long-term career. In fact I'd go as far as saying it's only a full-time job for a very few people. Most guys in porn just do it on the side for some fun and a little extra money. Or full-time escorts do it as publicity. About the closest porn gets to be a long-term job is when when a porn star becomes a producer.

Go on PrEP. It'll make your heart, head and cock happy.

Well, all you guys who fantasized about fucking Tom Daley - you're fantasy is one step closer to reality - he came out as bisexual… He's in a relationship with a guy since the spring which "feels really right" but he "still fancies girls". Hey - no problem with the girls as long as he's getting his cute little ass fucked and taking loads