TallAussieBtm

Sydney Australia! Retired mid-22. Moved to Syd Nov-2022. Well, I guess coming from Canberra it was a no-brainer. Entertainment options. Vast social options. Sex options. Large gay community. No freezing winter weather! Hospitals and doctors readily accessible (including gay doctor options).

Yes that's me. But being a btm confuses things a bit. Definitely not submissive! And go my own way. Lead my own pack of one! 😉

Go for it. I'm unlikely to partake, personally, given I wanna be fucked and don't really enjoy fucking others; but happy to be watched and touched by anyone, trans or not, as I'm being fucked in a public space. I've never been fucked with a phaloplasty (is that usage correct?) But sure, happy to give it a go sometime! 😃

In my view, 'side' isn't actually a real thing. It's just an excuse to put them in control of how the event progresses. Gives them better leverage to reject you after you've invested time, effort and possibly expense getting to a certain level of arousal. They can swing either way - or not - at their choosing. You have no control.

I simply refuse to engage with someone who says they're a 'side'. "Sorry mate, that's not a thing!" 😃

Used to love transitioning from one to another when going to major all night dance parties. "Three kinds of out of it", I called it! Quick onset alcohol until edible THC kicked in. Then when that wore off an e to get deep into the groove through the night. Minimal poppers but definitely some for those peak moments. No particular interactions I can think of but each can be a bit overwhelming at times. Best enjoyed staggered IMHO, rather than all at once! Many years since I did this, though! 🕺😃

Not to that extent. I was about ready to come out just when AIDS became a thing in the early 80s. It certainly caused me to delay coming out for a few years until my mental health got so bad I felt I had nothing to lose and did a mass self-outing via 20 letters posted on New Year's Eve 1994! 📬

But it didn't stop me having sex in any way. Just stayed in the closet and used condoms for quite a few years until PrEP came along.

Life was instantly better after I came out. Didn't lose a single relationship and they were all actually better/deeper living honestly. 😃

I'm 95% bottom but have a good size dick 7.5, but I'm admittedly not that great at topping. And don't really get off on it. Mostly just in group situations where I feel I have to for the common enjoyment.

In my experience, though, just about everyone, supposedly total top or top vers or vers, ends up just begging me to fuck them. Even though I go into a hookup on the understanding I'm 100% bottom. I hate having that conversation over and over and over again. Secretly they all wanna be fucked up the arse. I don't think there are ANY truly total tops out there.

Which is fine, I guess. And why not! Being fucked in the arse is the greatest feeling in the world!

But it kinda undermines the cultural ideal we've bought about tops and bottoms. Bottoms, yeah, just wanna be total bottoms. Me included. But truth is there aren't enough tops in the world to satisfy us!!! 🤷‍♂️

Based on my about 45 years of experience, anyway! 😡

On 10/17/2023 at 6:26 AM, MrEugene said:

Whoa! Now that was one beeyootyful cock! RIP ⛈️🛻❤️

Or... Just go for it and let us know how it turns out! 😜 You never know how it may turn out!

(Well, as the others have stated, we probably do, but you can only learn by making your own mistakes! 🙏)

Generally no. Only if the person is out there hypocritically proselytizing against gay people. Then all bets are off. They have it cumming! 😃

Only once. In a sex-on-premises venue attached to a sex shop. In a tiny cubicle (phone booth size with a glory hole to the nextdoor booth). Totally dark. Being fucked by this strong hot wiry middle aged guy. Started asking all sorts of questions about did I like fucking young guys. Told me he was a recently released ex-prisoner. Had a son. Did I fantasize about fucking having sex with his son. I was pinned down on my back with my arse up as he was fucking me, totally immobilised, held down in the dark and heat. As his talk got more and more personal about his family I was really scared about how he might react no matter how I responded. Would he be offended if I implied fucking his son would be hot? Or if I indicated I didn't want his son? Would he hit me? Kill me? I literally couldn't move in the confined space to escape if I'd wanted to. I just wanted him to cum and be finished. It took a while but massaging his nuts helped get him over the edge. Then he zipped up and left. Scariest moment of my life, I reckon!

OMG is the Pope Catholic? Gingers are the *hottest*!!! My head or eyes turn unbidden at the slightest hint of red passing by or entering the bar. I'm obsessed! And yes the redhead rule is true - they all have big dicks! Or, at least, big for their size. The one or two I've met with smaller cocks just highlighted how high the proportion is with substantial wangs! 😜

Being held tight with my legs wrapped around the top's back as he repeatedly slams his cock into me balls deep, sweat dripping off his face and pooling between our sweat-slicked bodies in the heat of a summer afternoon. 🫂🥵💦 Ideally kissing as we go! 💋

On 7/31/2023 at 1:19 PM, onlyraw said:

(but the armpits are what really get me - partly as they can be shown off in non sexual situations- even in public)

Thickly furred pits look amazing, in a singlet, poking out from under a t-shirt sleeve. Always get my cock hard, especially on a late teens or early 20s guy. So fucking manly and sexy!

On 9/7/2023 at 6:27 AM, Webster9 said:

I think that women, from an early age are taught that sex is bad or wrong, and that they are perceived as being a slut if they give in to their sexual urges.

... because gay boys are given such different messages! 

😉

Love being spit roasted. And touched and played with by others at the same time. Also love sucking someone who's being fucked or spitted. The force of the jet of cum down your throat can be amazing! Love the feeling of *being* sucked while being spit roasted, but I might not last too long if you do it! 💦💦💦

I'm loving all these rules for tops.

Exactamento, I say! Revenge of the mouthy bottoms! 😜

I'm a bottom, not an object! 😃 

On 4/23/2023 at 4:31 AM, BradStevens said:

Please cum back and post about your experience at the Civic Center Inn. I've booked a room there Folsom Street Fair weekend and I'm curious to know how it is.

Civic Centre Motor Inn was fine. The location was perfect. The number of homeless people in the downtown area was confronting. As is the number of boarded up or empty businesses. But the homeless, drug dealers and mad folks generally keep to themselves and don't bother you. Locals are pretty sanguine about them. I think historically SF has pretty good welfare services compared to some other places, which tends to attract people from all over. Dore Alley was great. Wish I was going to Folsom also. Folsom Europe in Berlin was amazing too, though a bit tamer than SF on the street anyway. Bondage exhibition victims were naked in SF 😃, clothed in Berlin 🙁. But Berlin bars are waaay sexier than in SF. Rampant sex everywhere! 😜

Wanted to go as a bottom. But bottom tix were limited based on how many tops purchased. Not sure what ratio they applied. But even with two parties, no invite! 🙁🥹😢😭

Here's me!

I'll be at Folsom Europe in Berlin. I'm going to some of the official even. Parties, bus tour, etc. Hopefully meet and fuck with some locals and visitors! 😃 Lab.oratory and fickstutenmarkt are also potential goal s. Though the latter is actually on the main day. Not sure I want to miss the street action by going. Or how hard it is to get into. I couldn't get into either of the horse market parties at Dore Alley! 🙁

On 7/31/2023 at 10:46 PM, Aixactif said:

I have trouble with anything smaller than 40 mm. I think this improves if you manage to get some permanent stretch. 

I don't think there's such a thing as 'permanent stretch'. I've used ball stretchers "a lot" for 30-40 years because I love the feeling, like having a friendly hand gripped around your nuts! But the scrotum never got any longer. I used to stretch quite aggressively at times but one day felt a kind of 'ping' inside. Which turned out to be an inguinal hernia that needed to be repaired. I think ball stretching gave me a hernia! 😱 I just wear up to a one inch leather strap or plain steel tube now. No weights! 😃

Congratulations! I definitely think 2023 is the year of the PA! From April this year... 

On 6/6/2016 at 11:06 AM, bootmandc said:

 

I go through spells with the dreams - maybe for a week, then none for 2 weeks.  Been like that on/for now for almost a year since I started Prep.  I was always a dreamer somewhat, but now dreams are truly fantastic .. I can still describe some days or weeks later.  It's like a trip on LSD or something must have been.  Not terror filled, but long and detailed, and crazy.  Poz friends always say it's the truveda in the Prep.

Dreams were definitely strong and weird. But went away after a few months (not weeks). In fact they were a big part of why I opted for long-term daily dose instead of event-based dosing, which was my original plan (ie two weeks before, through two weeks after the event was the thinking back then). Doctor indicated that the side effects might reappear each time I restarted PrEP. Not sure how I would fare on the new 2-1-1 intermittent approach. I'll stick to daily, I think. Six years, so far and no problems. 😃

DoxyPEP is the new black! 67% reduction in infection rates. [think before following links] https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/nih-funded-study-finds-doxycycline-reduces-sexually-transmitted-infections-two-thirds