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Not pain, exactly, but my ring was on fire! In a good way! I was nearly 17. The older 35-ish guy I was playing with for the 3rd or 4th time was rimming me and I was laid back on the floor with my eyes closed and legs in the air, blissing out, when he just slipped his hard cock into me in one form push. My ring immediately exploded on fire and I was stunned and in heaven while he fucked me and blew his load in my arse. I've been on a lifetime mission to recreate that feeling ever since! Again, and again, ... and again... 😁 -
Exactly! Me too. I feel like Grindr is basically just a scam nowadays. It used to be the most reliable hookup site but no longer. 😕
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Three high powered surgeons/anaesthetists? Even in the short-to-medium term I suspect this situation is probably one of the least important you will all deal with. As fun and challenging as the sex/emotional issues may seem in the moment. You'll all get over it and move forward somehow. 😃 Not downplaying how meaningful the incident may seem soon after it occurred, but honestly I wouldn't worry about it too much. You'll all be fine! 💗☀️🌈
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Too right! Good on the bottom! 👏
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Thanks. So my 500+ ml syringe is about twice the size I should be using? Interesting!
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So what's the ideal and maximum volume of douche water t use for the perfect clean out?
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Fleet bottles are 133 ml? Is that enough? My douching syringe is 550 ml. I used to use smaller douching bulbs but found I was constantly trying to do multiple squirts and wanted to reduce the risk of scratches and bleeding. So I eventually started buying large reusable syringes. More often used in horticulture and suchlike, I think! 😱 Perhaps I'm delving too deeply, though. A great douche for me is two or three squirts, with the last flowing totally clean. But, as others say, it's totally diet dependant. A bad day can take 15-20 squirts and three hours. Which gets very boring. 3 hours is my limit, though. I abandon any plans at that point! 😥 I tend not to get on the apps until douched and ready to roll, though. So as not to be forced to disappoint a potential hookup. Does mean I douche more than needed, however. Oh, well!🤷♂️
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Many more. Probably more like 1500-ish. It's not that hard if you have an average of even one new fella a week for 20-40 years. Of course, some weeks were zero. But some individual party weekends have been easily 20 or more! And all casual. No real long term arrangements. Does that make me a slut? I don't feel slutty. Well, not most of the time! 😜
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I left Growlr mostly because of spam. Plus it seemed more focused on fat guys, rather than hairy guys in general. Nothing wrong with fat if that's what you're looking for. But 'bears' are a much broader group than just the larger gentlemen.
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I feel like there are different types of anonymity. Virtually all of my sex over 45 years has been casual and probably mostly without names. But I do like to see their eyes as they are fucking me. And to talk to each other about what's working or desired as you go along. I've often had anonymous sex with the same guy several times over extended periods. Whether at each other's home or at a sex venue, etc. But I can't/won't engage with the current 'anon' stereotype of waiting blindfolded for a quick 1 or 2 minutes of thrusting. Apart from anything, no hotel or apartment I've been in for the last 20 years has such lax security that you could even do that! And nothing I've seen on the internet (there's a million clips) suggests it is much fun for either participant. There has to be some sort of connection to make it fun. Even just catching his eyes as he shoots in your arse!
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"Lazy top" is definitely how I would describe them! 🤮 And yes I mean it negatively, sorry! 😃 Not that much fun when there's no mutual action. I used to see a guy occasionally that had a massively fat cock but not excessively long (6"?). He seemed to have had so much trouble getting it into guys, in the past, that his thing now was to work it in very slowly and then just stay unmoving with his cock inside you. "To let you get used to it", he'd say. And only after about 20-30-40 minutes of this, move it around for a minute or two - fairly hard in the end - before he came. Now, I didn't really have much difficulty taking the fatness of it tbh. But no amount of encouragement or cajoling could get him to move it around a bit more to give me some pleasure. Because it's the friction of the in and out that delivers the anal delight. I don't want my arse simply sitting dilated like with a fat butt plug! I gave up after about the seventh or eighth time with no progress. It was just boring. 🤷♂️
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Yes. At least Squirt is pretty vigilant and responsive to reports. I've also had a heap of 5 day membership extensions for reporting spam. Which mostly seems to come in the chat section these days, rather than email messages.
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You're entitled to your opinion - as am I. 😃 But I think you're missing my main point that all of this seems to have intensified in recent years. Cigar-related events and cigar smoking are now being promoted as central - indispensable even - to leather culture; when that hasn't been the case to the same extent before. At least in my experience. And I worry about the health impacts that will have on our community. Don't know if you've been to SF Eagle recently in summer but when the outdoor area is packed, that smoke doesn't really go anywhere. It just settles like a fog. And in places like New Action in Berlin, where there's a kind of indoor smoking stadium next to the bar, that smoke ain't going anywhere. You have to push through a wall of smoke to get to the backroom beyond. And I'm pretty sure German bars are officially supposed to be smoke free. So adherence to rules can go out the window in the name of a more assertive leather cigar culture. Anyway all good.
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Dore Alley July 2023. And yes it's outdoors. But when you've got maybe 15-20 guys puffing away at the SFEagle, packed shoulder to shoulder in the heat outside, there's no escape from it. And if nearly everyone is out the back, sticking inside isn't really an option. I did put up with it. But it wasn't that pleasant. Back alley at Powerhouse a bit too, but cigars weren't quite so much of an issue there. Cheers.
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Bias admission, I am an ex-smoker of cigarettes. But I'm very over the ever-expanding cigar fetish in the leather and wider gay community. It's even starting to make a mark here in Australia, which has been getting close to a non-smoking environment at least indoors and for cigarettes in most places. Vapes, have admittedly exploded for younger people, though. When I'm overseas, San Francisco, Berlin, the sheer volume of cigar smoking in leather bars is ridiculous. Hard to breathe sometimes. And the number of specifically 'cigar' events now is concerning. It isn't sexy to me in any way. It stinks and is unhealthy both to those smoking and innocent bystanders. What ever happened to harm reduction and the quit smoking message? I fear for a new wave of lung cancer in our community as a consequence.
