I'm just gonna say this. There's nothing wrong with being conservative and gay, bit you need to understand that the party has been radicalized and the loudest members are the ones who will preach without evidence that every member of the LGBTQ+ crowd are pedophiles and freaks. More fanatical groups want the group killed. Look at the Texas' Platform, Gay people are an abomination and the Log Cabins where banned from attending the convention. These groups go unopposed by even the "good Republicans", the equivalent to looking the other way. You can be conservative but that won't save you from their vitriol.
You dont need to be friends with Democrats, but Republicans will always be your enemy.
Remember, there was a "Jews for Hitler" during WW2.