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Mine is linked in my profile. Same handle on there as I have on here
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Those are still the guidelines as far as I know but my doctors (all seemingly straight, or at least married) understand that gay culture is less monogamous than straight. They've always tested me for full STD panels at each three months check in and remind me over and over that it only protects against HIV and not other infections. It's been a little bit of "this is for discordant couples, wink wink, be careful out there." -
HIV tests of any kind, including rapid / at home tests, run the risk of throwing a false negative. You can be recently POZ and not have produced enough antibodies to trip the test. And during this "window period," you can pass on the virus. It can take months in some cases for your body to produce enough antibodies to trip some tests. I'm not sure where you're located, but those PrEP rules are insane. Unless your physical safety is at risk by requesting PrEP, either from government agencies or your family, just sign the papers and get the pill. If the only risk is family judgment ... fuck 'em? Maybe it's just me but I never worried what my family thought of me or my lifestyle. Chosen family that loves and supports you unconditionally is more valuable than some people you share a blood relation to.
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I definitely have a type that always catches my attention. Older, some form of facial hair, husky / heavyset, black. But sex is too much fun to get hung up on only playing with certain types of guys. I've been bred by older guys, younger guys, guys of just about every race and body type. Pro tip: Guys who are in it to breed / get bred and are just looking for a willing partner have more fun than guys who are in it to only breed / great bred by a particular guy.
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Is the experience of taking a monster cock worth the pain?
BarebackedBear replied to luvblack77's topic in General Discussion
General wisdom around bottoming is "if it hurts, the top is doing it wrong." If you're inexperienced in taking a huge cock and the pain isn't part of the pleasure for you, he should be fucking you accordingly. Start slow, loosen you up with a tongue, some fingers, a toy, etc., lots of lube, find a position that helps you get and stay relaxed (for me, on my back and legs up with feet in stirrups does it as it takes the strain off those lower body muscles but everyone is different). If you've got a regular who's well endowed you can help keep yourself ready to take him by using toys on your own to train yourself to relax faster and easier. You need to learn how to read your body. Once you do that, "hole control" becomes second nature. That being said, back to your original question: yes it is, but also for some (myself included), the pain is part of the pleasure. I have two regulars who are what I'd consider well endowed, one about 6" but literally beer can fat, one about 9" and just a little under the first one's girth. Both of them are willing to indulge my pain / rape fetish: force themselves in me with minimal lube, jackhammer my hole right from the start, jerk their cocks out of me and slam them back in, etc., all while I grit my teeth and at times am in visible pain. Basically all the things a "good top" won't do. Not sure I've ever had a guy who would qualify as having a "monster cock" but I've never told a guy no because he was too big. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Broke a pretty long dry spell this weekend when a guy over 30 years my senior hit me up on Silver Daddies. Just because there's a little snow on the roof doesn't mean there isn't a fire in the hearth. Mid 70s, black, balding, what hair he had left was white & so was his mustache. About 5'10", stocky but you could tell he was fit in his younger days. Said he had been a top his whole life until he lost the ability to get completely hard a few years back but his doc had cleared him to get a prescription for that injectable ED treatment and was eager to get back into it. Started off sucking him and enjoying having my face in his crotch, he had a huge pair of balls and his musk was intoxicating. When he started to get hard he told me to get comfortable on the bed while he excused himself to the bathroom to get himself ready. A few minutes later he joined me in the bed, I kept sucking him as he got harder until he was at full attention. He fucked me on my back at first, then I got face down on the bed for a while. Then we changed positions again, standing next to the bed with me bent over and him behind me. That last position was when he finally finished and bred me. Said it was the first load he'd shot in years and I believed it. I tried to hold it in me but a lot leaked out on the way home. Hoping to see him again next weekend. -
Saw this on BlueSky, damn shame. My first "real" porn video I ever got was a TIM piece, it's still my favorite wank.
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What is your definition of a gay pig sex orgy?
BarebackedBear replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Doesn't have to be wild and full of hardcore kink. To me a pig party is four or more guys doing whatever the fuck feels right. No inhibition. Boundaries are respected, but guys feel free to push their own boundaries and explore new things in an open and judgement free zone. My first "pig party" experience was ages ago. I'd always had fantasies about being bred by multiple guys, rape fantasies, and had almost zero experience swallowing loads and wanted to explore that. A buddy arranged to get some guys together to play and invited me, I told him what had been on my mind. I had been pretty vanilla sexually most of my life to that point and was nervous as fuck. At one point during the party, where I'd been mainly an awkward observer, my buddy invited me to hop on the fuck bench setup in the playroom, said he'd breed me since we had played for years and I was more chill with him. Before I knew it I felt a cock slide in me, and it wasn't his. Took two loads up the ass and had one guy shoot a huge one in my mouth, didn't manage to swallow much but loved the experience. None of those loads were my buddy, he said he wanted to watch me get used. -
All peckers are good peckers. Huge peckers, average peckers, below average peckers. Fat and skinny peckers. Straight and curved peckers. White, black, Asian, whatever else you can imagine peckers. People who don't get hung up on things like color and size and just enjoy taking the ride have more fun than size queens. In my experience, it's been black guys who were more likely to pound hard. So it has nothing to do with the pecker itself, I just like getting it rough.
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I almost never top but I was horned up and sent this to a bud who convinced me to breed him, but only if he'd flip and return the favor. Must have been a good pic I guess. Topped for the first time in years today and realized how out of shape I am 🤪
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As a sub power bottom with a pain/discomfort fetish, there's no such thing as too long for me. I think my personal best was just shy of five hours straight taking multiple with not much more than a few minutes break here and there if I had to grab some water or take a piss, but it was ages ago and I remember the play but not how long. Just that it was a looooong afternoon. Told all my regular buddies for my birthday I wanted to be broken, fucked until I tapped out or die trying. Lined up a few of them for an afternoon play, all of them multiple round types. Bed, fuck bench, sling, it was top's choice as they took turns. In the end they ran out of steam before I did (but just barely) so I'm still trying to find my fuck til I break playdate.
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As a sub, I absolutely love it. Being in a sling means giving full control to a top. He can grab the chains and swing you forward and back, impaling you on his cock. Also as a sub, I enjoy some restraints / bondage in a sling more than any other bondage. In lieu of ankle loops / stirrups in mine, I wear padded leather ankle cuffs the top clips to the chains. Wrists get their own leather cuffs, usually clipped to leather straps with D-rings that Velcro around my thighs, or to my chest harness. Without going into an anatomy lesson, that position is also great for the bottom, especially if he's taking multiple cocks or being fisted, which is why you see it so often in videos. It takes a lot of pressure and strain off the pelvic muscles to be on your back, legs up and supported (the key is supported). It allows the bottom to open up easier.
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Who Prefers Only Spit As Lube
BarebackedBear replied to BlindRawFucker1's topic in General Discussion
🙋♂️ me, and one of my regulars likes it too because he likes the friction - he's uncut, lots of foreskin, so with just spit once he's in me he's basically sliding in and out of his own hood with all the friction on his head once he slides out of his hood and starts rubbing the inside of my guts. I like the friction, too 😏 -
remember the first time you took raw dick?
BarebackedBear replied to SweetPiss's topic in General Discussion
First cock I took was raw. I was very young, he was much older, and was my first experience with another man in every sense of the word. First few times we fooled around it was just oral, with him coaching me on what to do. I had said I want to try anal but he was hesitant (I was a virgin, he was very well endowed). We had a long discussion one night and he laid down some ground rules I'd have to agree to and follow if he was going to fuck me, which I agreed to. One of those was no condom, another was he would not pull out - my first time getting fucked was going to be a full breeding. Long story short, my first time was extremely memorable for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is the fact that he didn't even have to tell me he was cumming - I felt it flooding me. -
Has happened to me as both the bottom AND the top. When I was the bottom my buddy acted like it was no big deal. Cleaned up and got back to it. When I was the top I didn't know it was happening until I shot my load and pulled out. Oh well, I was going to shower before I left his house anyway since I had a place to be. Tops that freak out and embarrass a bottom when it happens need to be named and shamed. You're putting your cock up a dude's ass, you're gambling every time.
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Forcing a bottom to cum before fucking him
BarebackedBear replied to smallcocksissyboi's topic in General Discussion
This is the answer. As a sub, a huge part of sex is being in the right headspace. For me, the right headspace for sex I'm eager to engage in is when it's a total act of servitude to the top. If I'm horned up, I lose focus on serving the top, so shooting a load before we start removes that urge. Shooting a load makes my hole even tighter (or maybe more specifically, it's harder for me to relax the sphincter after I shoot) which the tops I play with appreciate. And with my prostate more sensitive from having just shot a load, stimulating it with a cock causes some involuntary muscle contractions ("milking") they have said they like. The pain of being penetrated with my hole clenched up after I shoot puts me in the "I'm here to serve his needs" headspace. Everyone's body is different though. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
The aftermath of another great breeding from a regular. I've mentioned this buddy before, known him for decades and he's a slow edge type, not a pounder. We had a casual two hour session (with him taking a few breaks to back off from shooting). We put some porn on the TV in the background, used enough lube to get in but not so much we lost that good friction. I was face down or on my side the whole time just making small talk while he gooned in my hole, using it like a Flelshlight. He wore a pair of Jockeys for a couple days in a row so I could sniff the pouch, better than poppers for me. He gave me a nice big load when he was done. My hole is swollen and raw, but some Vaseline around the rim after a shower is great aftercare from these slow edge sessions. And this is the hill I'll die on, regulars are always better than randoms.
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When I first wanted to start PrEP almost a decade ago I had to find an infectious disease doctor just to find one that even knew about it. The first doctor I went to basically tried to correct me that no such pill existed. Thankfully now pretty much every doctor has heard about it and unless I'm wrong I think every state nationally is under a federal mandate to provide this care. I know at least in my state there is. Currently my GP handles mine.
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100% agree with this. Power bottom here who's been 100% raw for over eight years now and I can completely feel a difference. For me it's not just the "connection" or thrill of being bred, tops just don't get and stay as hard with a rubber, and no amount of lube keeps a piece of rubber from eventually dragging my hole raw.
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Taking PrEP for ten years (or any length of time) doesn't make you "immune" to HIV. When actively taking the regimen it reduces the risk of transmission to essentially zero. As soon as you stop the regimen and it's out of your system, that's over. Get a more informed doctor, this one is putting you at risk.
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Was sexting with one of my regular buddies who likes to slow edge in my hole in this position, sent him this as a little tease. Last time we got together, he and his husband spent about an hour and a half taking turns using my furry dadbutt before both finished, my hole didn't get a single minute break the whole time. Figured I'd drop it here, too 😉
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I'm not a size queen. All peckers are good peckers, as long as they're bare. That being said, I prefer guys on the side of average or even a little below. I enjoy burying my nose in his pubes while I swallow his dick and that's a lot easier and more pleasurable for us both when he's about 5.5" or less. Biggest cock I ever had in my hole was probably a little over 9.5" and I rode him to the balls. Once we found a position to unkink my lower gut so he could slide past the bend I took him like a champ. But I've also had guys below average rock my world. It's the top that makes for a good ride, not just his equipment.
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143. Apparently I've lived a sheltered life. But tbh I could have scored higher because some of these questions were geared towards tops only and since I'm a bottom it was a matter of no I've never done it, but I've had it done to me. Also, I've done several men with a huge age gap, I feel like I need bonus points for that. Saw a few things on the list I'd still love to try sometime.
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Bottoms: Do you get fucked for the fucking or for the load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Depends on the guy. For some guys the ride is the thrill, some others it's the load. I've got a little black book of regulars I call, some of them only shoot a few drops or for medical reasons don't shoot a load at all, but they're great fucks. Thick cocks, long rides, some of them like to do long, slow edge sessions in my hole and a couple of them like to rape / rage fuck. Then at the other end of the spectrum I've got one bud with a below average endowment (maybe 5" on a good day, no girth) who shoots huge loads, and can go for 2-3 rounds. If he's been saving up for a few days before I come to play, that first load will feel like he's pissing in my hole when he shoots, but it's all cum. When we start round two my hole is sloppy with that first load getting fucked out of me. -
My favorite position is whatever position the top tells me to get in, because when I'm in his preferred position he performs better. Beyond that it depends on the guy. Love when a guy with a long cock wants me on my side or on my back legs up because it unkinks your lower colon so he can get past that second hole and in deep. When guys with shorter, fat cocks want me face down legs together or bent over the bed I'm in heaven because in that position my hole doesn't open up as easily so I get a good painful stretch from that girth.
