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  1. BarebackedBear
    Vaseline for the win for long breeding / gangbang sessions, but it works best when paired with other lubes. On its own there's a lot of friction, especially for uncut tops. And it's too much hassle in regards to clean up for everyday use. I've only been lucky enough to get a multiple round (4+) breeding a few times in my life. During the second one we tried a little experiment. We lubed my hole with a hefty amount of petroleum jelly. Worked some into my rectum as well, one buddy slid a couple fingers in to spread it around. All the tops lubed themselves up with the lube of their choice, all of it water based if I remember correctly. Drugstore stuff like Astroglide. The petroleum jelly in me created a barrier so their lube lasted longer without drying up. Only drawback was it took two showers with Dawn dish soap to get it fully washed out of my hairy bear crack. But I was taking cock literally for hours with no tearing.
  2. BarebackedBear
    Lack of respect. If I cleaned out my hole and you said you'd be here at 8, don't waste my time by trying to show up at 10 (or just no-showing). You get one chance to have something come up unexpectedly with me, but a no-show is an instant block. Lack of manners. Basically, don't be a douche. If you come across as arrogant, I'm out. Lack of hygiene. I definitely get turned on by a man's "showered this morning but now I'm hooking up in the afternoon" musk, but if you haven't showered all day (or for several days), that's a no-go for me. And please brush your goddamn teeth. Lack of education. If you ask me if I'm "clean" to get my HIV status, that's a block. PnP, lack of clear headedness. I don't do any drugs (I don't even drink). Guys who advertise they PnP or do heavy drugs are a deal breaker. PrEP only protects from HIV and being a needle user raises my risk for a whole host of other infections. I don't mind if a guy indulges in other soft vices in their own time, but showing up stoned and smelling of weed is a turnoff.
  3. BarebackedBear
    Plus one to choking being a huge turn on. I've only been with two guys who were into it but I loved it. Best experience I ever had with that was with a buddy who's very experienced in it. He's got gigantic hands, can wrap one around most of my neck. I'd always had a fantasy of being raped and being penetrated while passed out. First time we played I was in the sling, ankles in the stirrups, both of us were well lubed (but he wasn't in me yet), he put one hand around my neck and before I knew it, it was lights out. When I came to the first thing I felt was motion like I was on a boat rocking on the waves. Then I could feel my asshole was on fire, felt like someone had punched it. I realized the motion was me swinging in the sling as my buddy was fucking me. When I winked out he forced himself in me to the hilt.
  4. BarebackedBear
    Rough and raw is the best sex for sure. Beyond that, the more the merrier. To me the best sex is where my hole is left sore, raw, and gaped. The pain is part of the pleasure for me. That means threesomes or more usually. Occasionally I'm lucky to find a single guy who can go for multiple rounds, or a couple.
  5. BarebackedBear
    I'm amazed people are still this stupid. Or maybe the real problem is after decades of this disease becoming a chronic illness more manageable than diabetes rather than the death sentence it once was has led to a state of willful ignorance. Maybe people just need a fucking history lesson. I'm currently reading How to Survive a Plague and the reminder of people grasping at straws to find a cause for AIDS before discovery of the virus definitely puts Kennedy's asinine comments into a context many in the younger generation are missing. It wasn't poppers in 1981, it isn't poppers now. Kennedy is the reason we're going to have to bring back the SILENCE=DEATH messaging, because staying silent about his disinformation on any number of health issues rather than calling him out is our greatest public health crisis today.
  6. BarebackedBear
    Mine is linked in my profile. Same handle on there as I have on here
  7. BarebackedBear
    Those are still the guidelines as far as I know but my doctors (all seemingly straight, or at least married) understand that gay culture is less monogamous than straight. They've always tested me for full STD panels at each three months check in and remind me over and over that it only protects against HIV and not other infections. It's been a little bit of "this is for discordant couples, wink wink, be careful out there."
  8. BarebackedBear
    HIV tests of any kind, including rapid / at home tests, run the risk of throwing a false negative. You can be recently POZ and not have produced enough antibodies to trip the test. And during this "window period," you can pass on the virus. It can take months in some cases for your body to produce enough antibodies to trip some tests. I'm not sure where you're located, but those PrEP rules are insane. Unless your physical safety is at risk by requesting PrEP, either from government agencies or your family, just sign the papers and get the pill. If the only risk is family judgment ... fuck 'em? Maybe it's just me but I never worried what my family thought of me or my lifestyle. Chosen family that loves and supports you unconditionally is more valuable than some people you share a blood relation to.
  9. BarebackedBear
    I definitely have a type that always catches my attention. Older, some form of facial hair, husky / heavyset, black. But sex is too much fun to get hung up on only playing with certain types of guys. I've been bred by older guys, younger guys, guys of just about every race and body type. Pro tip: Guys who are in it to breed / get bred and are just looking for a willing partner have more fun than guys who are in it to only breed / great bred by a particular guy.
  10. BarebackedBear
    General wisdom around bottoming is "if it hurts, the top is doing it wrong." If you're inexperienced in taking a huge cock and the pain isn't part of the pleasure for you, he should be fucking you accordingly. Start slow, loosen you up with a tongue, some fingers, a toy, etc., lots of lube, find a position that helps you get and stay relaxed (for me, on my back and legs up with feet in stirrups does it as it takes the strain off those lower body muscles but everyone is different). If you've got a regular who's well endowed you can help keep yourself ready to take him by using toys on your own to train yourself to relax faster and easier. You need to learn how to read your body. Once you do that, "hole control" becomes second nature. That being said, back to your original question: yes it is, but also for some (myself included), the pain is part of the pleasure. I have two regulars who are what I'd consider well endowed, one about 6" but literally beer can fat, one about 9" and just a little under the first one's girth. Both of them are willing to indulge my pain / rape fetish: force themselves in me with minimal lube, jackhammer my hole right from the start, jerk their cocks out of me and slam them back in, etc., all while I grit my teeth and at times am in visible pain. Basically all the things a "good top" won't do. Not sure I've ever had a guy who would qualify as having a "monster cock" but I've never told a guy no because he was too big.
  11. BarebackedBear
    Broke a pretty long dry spell this weekend when a guy over 30 years my senior hit me up on Silver Daddies. Just because there's a little snow on the roof doesn't mean there isn't a fire in the hearth. Mid 70s, black, balding, what hair he had left was white & so was his mustache. About 5'10", stocky but you could tell he was fit in his younger days. Said he had been a top his whole life until he lost the ability to get completely hard a few years back but his doc had cleared him to get a prescription for that injectable ED treatment and was eager to get back into it. Started off sucking him and enjoying having my face in his crotch, he had a huge pair of balls and his musk was intoxicating. When he started to get hard he told me to get comfortable on the bed while he excused himself to the bathroom to get himself ready. A few minutes later he joined me in the bed, I kept sucking him as he got harder until he was at full attention. He fucked me on my back at first, then I got face down on the bed for a while. Then we changed positions again, standing next to the bed with me bent over and him behind me. That last position was when he finally finished and bred me. Said it was the first load he'd shot in years and I believed it. I tried to hold it in me but a lot leaked out on the way home. Hoping to see him again next weekend.
  12. BarebackedBear
    Saw this on BlueSky, damn shame. My first "real" porn video I ever got was a TIM piece, it's still my favorite wank.
  13. BarebackedBear
    Doesn't have to be wild and full of hardcore kink. To me a pig party is four or more guys doing whatever the fuck feels right. No inhibition. Boundaries are respected, but guys feel free to push their own boundaries and explore new things in an open and judgement free zone. My first "pig party" experience was ages ago. I'd always had fantasies about being bred by multiple guys, rape fantasies, and had almost zero experience swallowing loads and wanted to explore that. A buddy arranged to get some guys together to play and invited me, I told him what had been on my mind. I had been pretty vanilla sexually most of my life to that point and was nervous as fuck. At one point during the party, where I'd been mainly an awkward observer, my buddy invited me to hop on the fuck bench setup in the playroom, said he'd breed me since we had played for years and I was more chill with him. Before I knew it I felt a cock slide in me, and it wasn't his. Took two loads up the ass and had one guy shoot a huge one in my mouth, didn't manage to swallow much but loved the experience. None of those loads were my buddy, he said he wanted to watch me get used.
  14. BarebackedBear
    All peckers are good peckers. Huge peckers, average peckers, below average peckers. Fat and skinny peckers. Straight and curved peckers. White, black, Asian, whatever else you can imagine peckers. People who don't get hung up on things like color and size and just enjoy taking the ride have more fun than size queens. In my experience, it's been black guys who were more likely to pound hard. So it has nothing to do with the pecker itself, I just like getting it rough.
  15. BarebackedBear
    I almost never top but I was horned up and sent this to a bud who convinced me to breed him, but only if he'd flip and return the favor. Must have been a good pic I guess. Topped for the first time in years today and realized how out of shape I am 🤪
  16. BarebackedBear
    As a sub power bottom with a pain/discomfort fetish, there's no such thing as too long for me. I think my personal best was just shy of five hours straight taking multiple with not much more than a few minutes break here and there if I had to grab some water or take a piss, but it was ages ago and I remember the play but not how long. Just that it was a looooong afternoon. Told all my regular buddies for my birthday I wanted to be broken, fucked until I tapped out or die trying. Lined up a few of them for an afternoon play, all of them multiple round types. Bed, fuck bench, sling, it was top's choice as they took turns. In the end they ran out of steam before I did (but just barely) so I'm still trying to find my fuck til I break playdate.
  17. BarebackedBear
    As a sub, I absolutely love it. Being in a sling means giving full control to a top. He can grab the chains and swing you forward and back, impaling you on his cock. Also as a sub, I enjoy some restraints / bondage in a sling more than any other bondage. In lieu of ankle loops / stirrups in mine, I wear padded leather ankle cuffs the top clips to the chains. Wrists get their own leather cuffs, usually clipped to leather straps with D-rings that Velcro around my thighs, or to my chest harness. Without going into an anatomy lesson, that position is also great for the bottom, especially if he's taking multiple cocks or being fisted, which is why you see it so often in videos. It takes a lot of pressure and strain off the pelvic muscles to be on your back, legs up and supported (the key is supported). It allows the bottom to open up easier.
  18. BarebackedBear
    🙋‍♂️ me, and one of my regulars likes it too because he likes the friction - he's uncut, lots of foreskin, so with just spit once he's in me he's basically sliding in and out of his own hood with all the friction on his head once he slides out of his hood and starts rubbing the inside of my guts. I like the friction, too 😏
  19. BarebackedBear
    First cock I took was raw. I was very young, he was much older, and was my first experience with another man in every sense of the word. First few times we fooled around it was just oral, with him coaching me on what to do. I had said I want to try anal but he was hesitant (I was a virgin, he was very well endowed). We had a long discussion one night and he laid down some ground rules I'd have to agree to and follow if he was going to fuck me, which I agreed to. One of those was no condom, another was he would not pull out - my first time getting fucked was going to be a full breeding. Long story short, my first time was extremely memorable for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is the fact that he didn't even have to tell me he was cumming - I felt it flooding me.
  20. BarebackedBear
    Has happened to me as both the bottom AND the top. When I was the bottom my buddy acted like it was no big deal. Cleaned up and got back to it. When I was the top I didn't know it was happening until I shot my load and pulled out. Oh well, I was going to shower before I left his house anyway since I had a place to be. Tops that freak out and embarrass a bottom when it happens need to be named and shamed. You're putting your cock up a dude's ass, you're gambling every time.
  21. BarebackedBear
    This is the answer. As a sub, a huge part of sex is being in the right headspace. For me, the right headspace for sex I'm eager to engage in is when it's a total act of servitude to the top. If I'm horned up, I lose focus on serving the top, so shooting a load before we start removes that urge. Shooting a load makes my hole even tighter (or maybe more specifically, it's harder for me to relax the sphincter after I shoot) which the tops I play with appreciate. And with my prostate more sensitive from having just shot a load, stimulating it with a cock causes some involuntary muscle contractions ("milking") they have said they like. The pain of being penetrated with my hole clenched up after I shoot puts me in the "I'm here to serve his needs" headspace. Everyone's body is different though.
  22. BarebackedBear
    The aftermath of another great breeding from a regular. I've mentioned this buddy before, known him for decades and he's a slow edge type, not a pounder. We had a casual two hour session (with him taking a few breaks to back off from shooting). We put some porn on the TV in the background, used enough lube to get in but not so much we lost that good friction. I was face down or on my side the whole time just making small talk while he gooned in my hole, using it like a Flelshlight. He wore a pair of Jockeys for a couple days in a row so I could sniff the pouch, better than poppers for me. He gave me a nice big load when he was done. My hole is swollen and raw, but some Vaseline around the rim after a shower is great aftercare from these slow edge sessions. And this is the hill I'll die on, regulars are always better than randoms.
  23. BarebackedBear
    When I first wanted to start PrEP almost a decade ago I had to find an infectious disease doctor just to find one that even knew about it. The first doctor I went to basically tried to correct me that no such pill existed. Thankfully now pretty much every doctor has heard about it and unless I'm wrong I think every state nationally is under a federal mandate to provide this care. I know at least in my state there is. Currently my GP handles mine.
  24. BarebackedBear
    100% agree with this. Power bottom here who's been 100% raw for over eight years now and I can completely feel a difference. For me it's not just the "connection" or thrill of being bred, tops just don't get and stay as hard with a rubber, and no amount of lube keeps a piece of rubber from eventually dragging my hole raw.
  25. BarebackedBear
    Taking PrEP for ten years (or any length of time) doesn't make you "immune" to HIV. When actively taking the regimen it reduces the risk of transmission to essentially zero. As soon as you stop the regimen and it's out of your system, that's over. Get a more informed doctor, this one is putting you at risk.

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