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  1. BarebackedBear
    Has happened to me as both the bottom AND the top. When I was the bottom my buddy acted like it was no big deal. Cleaned up and got back to it. When I was the top I didn't know it was happening until I shot my load and pulled out. Oh well, I was going to shower before I left his house anyway since I had a place to be. Tops that freak out and embarrass a bottom when it happens need to be named and shamed. You're putting your cock up a dude's ass, you're gambling every time.
  2. BarebackedBear
    This is the answer. As a sub, a huge part of sex is being in the right headspace. For me, the right headspace for sex I'm eager to engage in is when it's a total act of servitude to the top. If I'm horned up, I lose focus on serving the top, so shooting a load before we start removes that urge. Shooting a load makes my hole even tighter (or maybe more specifically, it's harder for me to relax the sphincter after I shoot) which the tops I play with appreciate. And with my prostate more sensitive from having just shot a load, stimulating it with a cock causes some involuntary muscle contractions ("milking") they have said they like. The pain of being penetrated with my hole clenched up after I shoot puts me in the "I'm here to serve his needs" headspace. Everyone's body is different though.
  3. BarebackedBear
    The aftermath of another great breeding from a regular. I've mentioned this buddy before, known him for decades and he's a slow edge type, not a pounder. We had a casual two hour session (with him taking a few breaks to back off from shooting). We put some porn on the TV in the background, used enough lube to get in but not so much we lost that good friction. I was face down or on my side the whole time just making small talk while he gooned in my hole, using it like a Flelshlight. He wore a pair of Jockeys for a couple days in a row so I could sniff the pouch, better than poppers for me. He gave me a nice big load when he was done. My hole is swollen and raw, but some Vaseline around the rim after a shower is great aftercare from these slow edge sessions. And this is the hill I'll die on, regulars are always better than randoms.
  4. BarebackedBear
    When I first wanted to start PrEP almost a decade ago I had to find an infectious disease doctor just to find one that even knew about it. The first doctor I went to basically tried to correct me that no such pill existed. Thankfully now pretty much every doctor has heard about it and unless I'm wrong I think every state nationally is under a federal mandate to provide this care. I know at least in my state there is. Currently my GP handles mine.
  5. BarebackedBear
    100% agree with this. Power bottom here who's been 100% raw for over eight years now and I can completely feel a difference. For me it's not just the "connection" or thrill of being bred, tops just don't get and stay as hard with a rubber, and no amount of lube keeps a piece of rubber from eventually dragging my hole raw.
  6. BarebackedBear
    Taking PrEP for ten years (or any length of time) doesn't make you "immune" to HIV. When actively taking the regimen it reduces the risk of transmission to essentially zero. As soon as you stop the regimen and it's out of your system, that's over. Get a more informed doctor, this one is putting you at risk.
  7. BarebackedBear
    Was sexting with one of my regular buddies who likes to slow edge in my hole in this position, sent him this as a little tease. Last time we got together, he and his husband spent about an hour and a half taking turns using my furry dadbutt before both finished, my hole didn't get a single minute break the whole time. Figured I'd drop it here, too 😉
  8. BarebackedBear
    I'm not a size queen. All peckers are good peckers, as long as they're bare. That being said, I prefer guys on the side of average or even a little below. I enjoy burying my nose in his pubes while I swallow his dick and that's a lot easier and more pleasurable for us both when he's about 5.5" or less. Biggest cock I ever had in my hole was probably a little over 9.5" and I rode him to the balls. Once we found a position to unkink my lower gut so he could slide past the bend I took him like a champ. But I've also had guys below average rock my world. It's the top that makes for a good ride, not just his equipment.
  9. BarebackedBear
    143. Apparently I've lived a sheltered life. But tbh I could have scored higher because some of these questions were geared towards tops only and since I'm a bottom it was a matter of no I've never done it, but I've had it done to me. Also, I've done several men with a huge age gap, I feel like I need bonus points for that. Saw a few things on the list I'd still love to try sometime.
  10. BarebackedBear
    Depends on the guy. For some guys the ride is the thrill, some others it's the load. I've got a little black book of regulars I call, some of them only shoot a few drops or for medical reasons don't shoot a load at all, but they're great fucks. Thick cocks, long rides, some of them like to do long, slow edge sessions in my hole and a couple of them like to rape / rage fuck. Then at the other end of the spectrum I've got one bud with a below average endowment (maybe 5" on a good day, no girth) who shoots huge loads, and can go for 2-3 rounds. If he's been saving up for a few days before I come to play, that first load will feel like he's pissing in my hole when he shoots, but it's all cum. When we start round two my hole is sloppy with that first load getting fucked out of me.
  11. BarebackedBear
    My favorite position is whatever position the top tells me to get in, because when I'm in his preferred position he performs better. Beyond that it depends on the guy. Love when a guy with a long cock wants me on my side or on my back legs up because it unkinks your lower colon so he can get past that second hole and in deep. When guys with shorter, fat cocks want me face down legs together or bent over the bed I'm in heaven because in that position my hole doesn't open up as easily so I get a good painful stretch from that girth.
  12. BarebackedBear
    Very much into this as a bottom. I've only been lucky enough to find four tops in my entire life who were willing to indulge me. My favorite regular is a dad type, mid 60s, who will go at me hard and dry and not stop no matter how much noise I make. Love it when I'm bent over the bed being abused and I hear him say "Shhh, just breathe."
  13. BarebackedBear
    Maybe more piggy than slutty. Probably the first time I was able to indulge my sub side and fulfil a CNC / rape fantasy. At the time I was seriously dating a guy and was afraid to admit to him I had a freak side, he was a lot more "boy next door" type. For as long as I could remember I'd had fantasies of being raped by a stranger, or having a partner that would force me / rape me. Turned out he wasn't freaked out hearing that and thought it was hot. After we talked about it and he said he would be into it, nothing "different" happened for a few days. Then one morning I was ups early, in the kitchen. He came up behind me and before I could turn around he had pinned me against the counter. Didn't say a word, just hiked my tighty whities down in the back, found my hole with his cock, and forced it. Felt like he at least put some spit on it before he came up behind me but I still felt every inch. After he finished and pulled out I had to lean on the counter for a minute before my legs were steady again. That was the first of several times while we were together.
  14. BarebackedBear
    Add me to your starter pack thing ... thebackwoodsfag.bsky.social
  15. BarebackedBear
    Seems like it's impossible to get a party organized these days. It feels like it happened after the pandemic. I may sound cynical, but I think a lot of guys just got used to spending their free time sitting around the house in sweatpants. The hookup apps are mainly flakes and no-shows out where I live. Plus, rural area with low population density. There was a couple I knew "in the before times" that would host parties at their house. Usually about ten guys or so, wasn't out of the question to get fucked by four or five guys on a good afternoon, sometimes more. Would love to see this start coming back but out where I live it seems like that ship has sailed.
  16. BarebackedBear
    I've always heard bottoming is good for it 🤷‍♂️ Immediately after a heavy fuck session, either multiple tops, one top who can go for multiple rounds, or rough / rage fucking, my prostate is definitely tender and it can be hard to take a leak until things "calm down" in there. But after a run of the mill butt fucking with just one casual bud, never had a problem. My doctor knows I'm gay and a bottom, and as I've reached middle age has had the prostate health talk with me. Mainly just recommending I shoot at least four or five loads a week, more is better. I am curious what he says about bottoming and prostate health, I may ask next checkup.
  17. BarebackedBear
    I just joined the other day. I'm leaving a message up on my old Twitter for a couple weeks so the people who follow me can decide if they want to move with me or not but that account has gone dark. [think before following links] [think before following links] https://bsky.app/profile/thebackwoodsfag.bsky.social
  18. BarebackedBear
    Honestly, it doesn't have much flavor at all. Tastes like lube, is about all I can say. If you were thinking it would taste like a Pina Colada, I'm sorry to burst your bubble. It's not intended to be flavored. Normally after my buddies are done using me, I like to suck their dick, limp or not, while I rub one out to finish myself off. It doesn't have anywhere near the strong soap taste that I get from silicone lube.
  19. BarebackedBear
    Good lube and practice, learning to relax your hole. I like rough fucking, one of my regulars calls it "consensual rape." He introduced me to Boy Butter lube. It's coconut oil based so not safe for latex toys or condoms (lol what's a condom?), but it's not greasy at all, washes up with soap and water, won't stain sheets, stays slick for hours, smells like sun lotion. Recently used it for the first time with another buddy of mine who doesn't rough fuck but has a beer can fat cock and can go for 3-4 rounds in an afternoon. When he was done for the day my hole was bruised and gaped. But no tears. You can also get disposable "lube injectors" to shoot some up into your rectum which can help if you've got some well endowed buddies. They're also great to slick up your guts before a gangbang scene. Keeping your rectum slick will helping prevent the pulling that can become problems. Check sites that sell hardcore toys or cater to the fisting crowd. Beyond that, the more often you bottom the more "hole control" you develop. And after a long fuck session or with multiple tops, self care is essential. A after a shower I'll apply a little Vaseline and work it into my hole with a finger if they really roughed me up, just to keep everything lubricated to prevent chafing while I walk.
  20. BarebackedBear
    I also work in tech, and that's another fear that I have. Especially with the distrust of legacy news outlets and the rise of sites like Twitter becoming the primary news source for a lot of people, and how these media empires are owned by individuals who are a little bit too cozy with the administration. This isn't anything we haven't seen before, though. I think if you're of a certain generation you must have learned in school about the Hearst media empire. I doubt anyone reading this is old enough to actually remember that first hand. But then again now we've come full circle to my last reply talking about the lack of education in this country in the area of civics being the root cause of a lot of what we've seen lately. Hearst also used the "America First" branding on his media and in praise of fascism's rise in Germany after his shift to the right. Every old concern and fear is new again.
  21. BarebackedBear
    I've been saying for years, but especially since Trump entered the political scene, this country has a serious problem with education, specifically around government and civics. It's not a blue collar versus white collar thing. No sane person can look at what the Republican party has served up for nearly a decade now, both at the national and local level, and feel that this is really a long-term solution to real problems that real Americans face. Both sides are guilty of engaging in partisan identity politics, but in the Trump era that's the only thing the GOP can offer.
  22. BarebackedBear
    This is what I'm primarily afraid of. I'm coming from a place of privilege. I'm a white male, age 18 to 49 as The Simpsons joke goes, meaning I'm basically the demographic with power in this nation. I'm even straight passing, even though I hate that phrase. But I'm still a fag. And I'm concerned that groups that hate now have their mouthpiece and figurehead back in the White House. I remember what it was like last time. I live not far from Charlottesville, VA. I remember the neo-Nazis with tiki torches. The administration is going to have a lot of power, at least until the next midterm when we have an opportunity to take back the Senate. I hope we don't lose any Supreme Court justices between now and then. But I'm mainly concerned about what this is going to mean in the neighborhoods. In the communities. In the streets where people are emboldened to act on their hate once again.
  23. BarebackedBear
    Preface: I firmly believe that in addition to being a rapist, a misogynist, and just overall a disgusting excuse for a human being, Trump's rhetoric and his focus on grievances and his strong man attitude towards ruling rather than governing puts him squarely in the category of fascist. I'm also well aware that he's going into his second presidency immensely better prepared than he was for the first, after years of being groomed for this by a cabal of conservative interests with their own agenda. That being said, I feel like there's a little bit of catastrophizing on the left in light of the news. I think in the short term his economic policy is going to be a cheap sugar rush for the economy which is definitely going to have long-term knock-on effects. With a power shift in the Senate, any nomination he wants to make will get pushed through. Yes, it's bad. But until he starts to make good on these threats I'm stopping short of calling this an existential threat to democracy. He not only won, it looks like he actually crushed the popular vote unlike the last time he managed to game the electoral college. I still think we have enough rational, sane people in this country to hopefully keep the worst of the damage in check over the next four years. I have to believe that at this point.
  24. BarebackedBear
    As a bear type I'm loving that body hair is coming back. Men should be comfortable to be themselves and the push for hair removal always seemed weird. For my own preference, I am attracted to all types of men, hairy or not. But furballs always get my dick twitching. I once - once - shaved for a guy who wanted to see me "smooth." I'm pretty damn furry. Within about ten, twelve hours I had "stubble" head to toe. It was horrible and lasted for days until my "body beard" started to grow out. Never again. If you're not into fur, I'm not the guy to take home.
  25. BarebackedBear
    "Dadbod" seems to be the flavor of the week with The Gays these days, and tbh I'm here for it. I've always been a big, beefy bear type. Hairy all over with a tummy, thicc ass, solid thighs, bearded. For ages I was invisible while twinks and gym rats were what the porn industry told guys they should want. We're heat in the winter and shade in the summer, and a thicc ass makes a great slapping noise when you're clapping cheeks. Don't sleep on the bear types. I've even had a few guys tell me when I get really worked up in the moment, I growl 🐻

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