Fickloch

True. Also I find a lot that the whole sub/dom dynamic doesn't actually need to depend on the role. For example, I'm a pretty weedy hairless guy but I've fucked a lot of power-bottoms and they get off to me saying shit like "do you like that Daddy?" "Am I fucking you OK daddy?" etc. The notion of the dom as the top is just a stereotype, I think.

Totally understandable, and I admire your resolution, even if I don't understand it. I'm intrigued, do you jerk off? Do you need ass-play to cum? What is the role of your cock in your sex life?

Flip fucking is the best kind of sex. It's liike an all-you-can-eat buffet where you stuff your self silly.

. That's exactly how I approach it. It's all about the nakedness, fucking, sex---the role is a secondary factor. Wish more people felt this way.

Sounds like a job for an android developer, or a iphone developer. Have you tried squirt? Until this place has its own app.

I'm interested in versatility, because I feel very on my own as a versatile guy. Most people I find are either a top as a bottom, and really dedicated to that role. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, I'm just interested in the way other people think. To me, it makes sense to be versatile---you get the best of both worlds. There's never a situation where you cannot adapt and you're never out of fun. Naturally, i'm aware that there's more asses than cocks, and sometimes if I really want to bottom its gets crowded. That's ok though, because I have regular tops who are always only a phone call away. I probably spend 60% of my time topping, but that's ok, I still get my ass fucked plenty enough. I just don't understand why many bottoms act like they don't have a cock --again, not that there's anything wrong with that. So I'm gonna make this a poll, and see if I can get a sense of what the ratio is. I'm sure it's already been done. I'd also be interested in people saying what they are, and if/how they they can/could see them self in the other role.

I don't know. I haven't thought that far ahead yet.

Honestly I'm not into all the fetishization of HIV, either. I'm just anti-latex.

Im starting a political movement called "microbiotical libertarianism". ha

It has to just be a fantasy, maybe there are a few nutjobs that actually go throuogh with it, but mostly a fantasy I would say. I could have a bit of fun with it as a role play, but the reality of it is pretty far beyond anything I can Imagine.

heres a podcast oh some dude reading posts from vorphiles, might yield an insight.

I dont really want it. I just don't care if i get it.

no im not into it, i find it interesting though. the insanity of human fetishes never fails to amaze me.

Me too. Shot many infected needles and still dont have Hep C either. Weird world.

lofllofllofllofl that's brilliant

i dont really like it, i think its a pretty stupid, but its no big deal to me, i just carry on. i get it, i mean its about stroking the tops ego, making him feel like youre his bitch, some people get off on that kinda play, its all good.

I can't imagine why anyone wouldn't love churning the butter.

ok so this happened to me today. he wasn't exactly pissed, more like unimpressed, but this is honestly the first time this has ever happened to me. i was just on one of my usual load collecting adventures at huntington park, got two loads over about two hours (lucky for my ipad to keep me company ) and the third guy who fucked my ass said "whats this nasty shit?" when he saw my cumsloppy hole---he was eating it at the time. i thought it was sex talk at first, but he was actually pissed. youd think if you step up to fuck an ass in a park that youd be comfortable with a preloaded hole? he DID elect to use a condom, but nevertheless, you have to have some inclination about the sort of person who bottoms in parks. any similar experiences ?

It's all good. I like hole. I'm more about the masculine dudes though. But you wont have ANY trouble getting your cunt fucked, trust me lol.

WTF. I was at concert the other night, an outdoor one, and this guy started giving shit to my mate. So I was all tryina work it out and me like "it's cool man, he doesn't want to start shit with you". He seemed to accept that and crossed the river (oh yeah, I was swimming in the river at the time, and he was wadiing through with his cask of wine). So anyway, he started giving shit to my mate, who was on the other shore, watching me swim. My mate said "yo, i'll meet you over the bridge". All he meant by that was, I'll give you a cigarettre over the bridge. My mate is not really a fighter, and either am I TBH, but still I am not about to be pushed around. So I just swam over my side of the shore, and then like half hour later these fuckers came back accross the river. They walked up to my mate and were like "give us a cig". "Then they said, "cool, give us another", and that's when I went ape shit. I started pushing the tough guy around saying whats your fucking problem. He started playing dumb like "I'm just asking", Wierd. They were drunk I think. Only difference between them and us was I don't act like a tool when I'm drunk. Anyway, ya I started pushing him around. My mate had this stick thing that we bought from the fair. It was like one of those things that says "piss off im busy" that you put above your door. I dont know what happened, but I looked at these fuckers and they had the stick in their hand. It turned out later, as my mate said, that he gave them the stick, cause they were being smartasses and he was like "yeah have the stick then". So anyway I saw the big guy with the stick and went mental. I had nothing and he had a stick. So I launched at him and wrestled him to the ground and after a tussle I got mthe stick off him. Then they both started both going mental, looking around for sticks lol. I just held firm the stick I got off him. And then what? They were looking for sticks or something to hit me with and the cops and a big crowd came over, so I just played it cool, dropped the stick. Then what? These dickheads kept swinging their sticks and going mental with the crowd and cops there! They even swang it at the cops when they tried to break up the fight lol. So both of them got arrested, and we walked off. They were both black, and we were both white, so I think there might have been a bit of racism involved here on the cops part, coz when the cops came they both were very quick to arrest them and very sympathetic to us. That is probably how it should have been, given the circumstances, but I still had this feeling like they they were way to quick to jump all over these guys (not that I feel any sympathy for these idiots; they started it ). Anyway, my adrenalin is all running, and I don't know how to feel. Guess I'll go take out my aggression on my mates hole

I'm the only one I know that is like this---I am all about the ass, not the cock. I'm not a big fan of sucking cock, or looking at them, or anything other than having them rammed up my ass. I'm versatile too, and my only interest in the top role is in the bottoms yummy ass. I like to eat it for a good while before I fuck it. I more or less couldn't care less if a partner didn't have a cock at all. I do enjoy a blowjob but I'm quickly eager to get my dick into the other hole. I'm all about the ass. I feel pretty unusual in this regard. Is anyone like me, or have you encountered anyone like me?

I've head about this kind of thing---men having anal orgasms that produce "ass cum"--- but I just can't imagine it; It seems physiologically impossible to me. Having said that, I don't disbelieve the stories---because I've head them repeatedly.

Hells yeah, love to have a guy fart cum in my mouth so I can spit it in my hand and then rub in on his hole before I fuck him.

if so, how much? if you're poz, do your med sideffects give you any problems that might stop you excercising?

Anonymous hardcore lust has been my attraction to bareback gay sex from the beginning. That's why I love being a poof. Holding hands and shit bores me senseless.