Yea. I had this happen a short while ago. Met this guy on Growlr. Said he was a Top. I'm in Reno, he was up at Lake Tahoe. I agreed to take the drive 'cause I thought I was going to get a nice fuck. We met, had dinner, went back to his place and started to play. We got into a 69. He started out hard, then went soft. He kept going hard and soft for about 10 min. Then when I tried to sit on him he went totally soft. Finally, I just sucked him off. He mentioned I hadn't cum, I told him I was fine. ASAP I left and I have not, and will not, hook up with his again. That's the 2nd time I've met a "Top" on Growlr who wasn't what he advertised.