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Sounds like an amazing sex-cation! Bravo!!Sounds like an amazing sex-cation! Bravo!!

definitely a mix -- I'd say 80% of my playmates love or prefer (or even command) a pre-lubed to sloppy hole, but the other 20% are very strict about either being 'first' or having the hole perfectly fresh and unused. 

Awesome as always -- happy to see you writing again!

Mid 50s here -- on TRT and daily Cialis -- I want sex daily, crave it -- as much as always, but assume that will fall off in the next decade. My bf and hubby are thrilled with sex once a week, and I have friends that say they only breed a couple of times a year after 50. Sad, but we shall see!

I’m constantly hit up by “sides” on Sniffies — I’m cool if people just want to cuddle, but they don’t belong on hookup sites — that is for SEX. I expect they’d do better on dating apps? I’m personally here to breed!

I can get my husband off in about 3-5 minutes, but with most bottoms he lasts an hour or more — my favorite is under half an hour generally speaking, unless its a group or tag or DP situation — in those it can be hot to keep the momentum going — when I top, I’d say 10 minutes is my average. 

In my experience it just takes time and honest communication about what you want... After 25 years, I'm still completely in love with my husband and we have an awesome live-in boyfriend that we share. Plus, we are fully open to have sex with anyone else we want -- but we started out Monogamous the first 8 years, then started having 3-ways and small groups, and some cheating on the side. But, we chatted about the jealousy, saw a counselor a couple of times too and worked it out so that we have security, support and emotional side together and are free to play otherwise. Men are hunters, I don't know a straight or gay pal that hasn't had sex on the side after 8-10 years in a mono-relationship. As gay men we get to define our lives, relationships and sex a bit more openly perhaps? Maybe start with fantasy talk -- when your guy is super horny and had a drink or two, watch a video where two tops share a bottom and get him thinking about how fun/hot that would be to share you... evaluate the outcome and try again 😈 No pushing or rushing -- Best o Luck and have fun!!

Isn't great when hard cock and cum loads arrive without sitting on apps all day?!! Love these hot natural scenes.

Such a great question! I have several top pals that tell me they cum a minimum of 2x every day no matter what, then one of my BFF's (vers/top) tells me he only has orgasm when he is fucking -- which is often once a week or less and he edges the rest of the time. I love to cum daily, but as I age notice my loads are not as big unless I hold off for a couple of days. I guess its an individual thing that changes over time -- but definitely am willing to edge more if I can breed w/ bigger loads!

On 8/4/2023 at 10:27 AM, ellentonboy said:

I know I jokingly posted regarding this topic earlier but I thought I would be serious for a second.  I'v lived in both Tampa and Saint Petersburg, and about 45 minutes south of here, for over twenty years.  I assure you that there are enough tops to go around, for everyone.  

I see BBRT is mentioned, and I just happened to sign in and look at the "local parties" listed in the Tampa area.  There was a guy who already had like 17 people attending his "get together" so to speak, almost all those on the list are either top or top/vers.  Now, are these guys online at the moment?  No, because it's 10 am and more than likely they are at work.  They won't be online at 6pm or 7pm because they might be at the gym, or going out to dinner or meeting up with non-sexual friends.  It's the beginning of the weekend, people are deciding who and what they are going to do.

In my opinion, it's all about timing.  The guys logged onto various sites at the moment will more than likely not be online at midnight.  Why?  They're in bed!  I am a firm believer some guys remain signed in yet they may check their messages when they are making a decision as to who they will hook up with.  It's not difficult to find a desirable top, you just need to know when to find them.

Timing guys, timing! 

Great info man -- I've had the best luck on BBRT and Sniffies in major cities around the world, but in SP and TPA it is rare to see even a dozen tops whether its 10 AM, 5 PM, 10 PM or midnight -- I think the dynamics of online have changed, but with so many adult options closed its become hooking up at bars or word of mouth parties again.

I agree that sucking/oral is just foreplay or the precursor to real breeding/sex... but seems a lot of men are just looking for blow jobs, especially on Sniffies type platforms. Maybe that's a way for str8 and bi-men to test the waters? But I am definitely not fully satisfied with blow jobs - -giving or receiving. I think satisfaction wise for me its something like:

• Masturbation = 70% satisfying
• Mutual Masturbation, Oral Sex = 75% satisfying
• Penetration = 95% satisfying
• Penetration with breeding/DNA exchange = 100% satisfying 

Swapped oral with older male cousin when I was 5, put my dick in a female neighbor at 7, swapped anal loads around 9, craved his dick and cum regularly by 12 -- sex has always been my favorite playtime and hobby.

These days 85% of the tops I connect with want multiple loads before they put their dick in my hole, but 15% want to be the first and won't touch it with another dude's load on/inside. I  get preferences -- but in a sauna you have to go with the flow and bottoms and most tops don't want the bottom to flush out between every fuck -- savor the DNA men or is that just me? I guess their  loss! Fucking a loaded hole feels amazing to me.

6 for sure!  In my limited experience, the tops who want LP: Extra LONG Play come in 3 primary categories 1) men who don't cum easily due to medications or physical conditions but are determined to get off  -- and it takes ages to do so! -- these are not always the most fun sex partners and I rarely invite the back unless its to a group where their extreme endurance might be a perk; 2) men who are lonely and really seek more romantic intimacy during sex --eye contact, making out, holding, etc.... these can be fun if boundaries are clear; 3) men who are more there for drugs than sex. Personally, I enjoy playful fun and hot sex, 1:1, groups, whatever -- a little drunken, poppered up, 420'd, can make the adventure even hotter and amped up, but I'm not there for drama, healing, forever sex or to play husband in the long term -- just fun, hot, sport sex among mutually appreciative men -- damn, I'm old and boring!! Cheers men -- happy fucking!

Excellent story!!

10 hours ago, tighthole64 said:

May not be exciting for you full time Pigs here, but I'm partially piggy, and still love my intimate times.  I visited St Pete today as I won 2 free tix to the Evolution of Drag show.  Yes I do enjoy Drag, and ever since the P House in Orlando closed a few years ago, missing shows there. Anywho....

In the VIP section, I couldn't help but notice a guy I thought was extremely attractive.  At intermission I followed him into the restroom.  Granted there was no doubt he was a big Ole queen bottom!  In the line for the restroom I started a discussion on how much he seemed to get into drag and how I missed it in Orlando.   Once in the restroom, he invited me to join him in a stall.  We started sucking face as I rubbed my hands through his thick curly hair.  He led my hand to his crotch, and OMG hung like a horse!  

He invited me to a bar to see yet another drag show.  Afterwards he invited me to spend the night!  More to follow tomorrow morning!

Bravo!! Gotta love those XL Horse Hung Hard men!!

44 minutes ago, tighthole64 said:

MUCH easier to find a top in st. pete/Tampa area than Orlando.   My ass has never left Tampa unhappy!

That’s great man — are you going to Tampa Men’s Club or where are you finding them?

For a good long or rough ride or one with multiple partners (a la orgy or gangbang) my experience is that bottoms need a little more glide than spit allows to protect the tissue against tearing and discomfort and hemorrhoids — that can be my own nut that I’ve saved and frozen from jacking off over time or a CBD suppository or organic coconut oil/cream. Once a few loads are inside, just the rim gets dry and a little spit is perfect. A BIG thank you for those like @Ieatcumholes who really get into sex and enjoy eating their man pussy holes — that takes it to the next level of pleasure for most of us.

WOW — signed on to BBRT to find 4 local TOPS in St Pete, about the same on Sniffies, Grindr, etc. About double that in Tampa proper — is Tampa filled w/ bots? Or where do are the top men online or otherwise?

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Just a follow up post of appreciation. Looks like you haven't been active in a long while, so hope all is well. Seems that a lot of the awesome authors and storytellers have moved off the platform, but this is truly one of the hottest tales I've read anywhere. I read it every year and shoot a few loads along the way. Hope you're putting your talent to good use somewhere stud! Cheers and thanks for the inspiration. 

Check out every man's bulge -- I know it sounds simple, but look at their dick,  look away and look again -- then if you feel brave look into their eyes, then look away like your shy -- I've had a number of men in restaurants,  at  the gym, the beach and such follow me into the WC for a quick session. [If someone makes an issue of it, just say you were deep in thought and apologize] 

11 hours ago, fucknfeedme said:

Been staying at Red Roof mostly when I visit.  Cheshire had a cop out front last time I stayed there which really fucked with my plans

I live nearby -- cops are always there keeping an eye out for trouble, but they don't bother you unless you look suspicious or they think you are selling/buying drugs, I think. 

I have an open relationship w/ my husband of 27 years and our boyfriend of 10 — but cheating is the HOTTEST. Even within the open parameters, I find that cheating or having secret rendezvous can really be delicious — the risk, the pushing limits and having something that no one else knows about is so sexy and hot — even if we eventually share.

21 for me too -- given 3 loads, taken 18 --hope to exponentially increase that number as it warms up! 

Same thing happened to me earlier this year and when I emailed to inquire "why" -- it did not make sense as I'd posted nothing that I hadn't 100 other times -- the administrator was a jerk. I guess they are unpaid and doing their best, but try not to take it personally.