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One of the surprising things about anon blindfolded fucks is how hot the guys are. Part of the turn on is that it could be anyone - but in my experience it's invariably some hot guy who wants to be discreet or is just turned on by it. It's never the minger who wouldn't get any but for the blindfold - or at least not yet it hasnt

I'd start thinking open relationship. I didn't get the impression you weren't interested - nor does this site seem obvious reading for the monogamous.  The way I usually broach the subject is by being caught but I suspect there are better ways.  I'm not saying that men can't be monogamous, nor gay men, nor men on this site - but it seems the more difficult of the two options.

And I wouldn't say "never".  That making your partner's decisions for him. They aren't always what you might think. 

I'm bottom. My cock's small and I like being fucked.  Easy decision.  The problem comes when one of my fb's decides he wants a 3sum as he does from time to time  Funnily enough its always bottom guys who end up coming over.   He then gets pissed off because I fuck them.  I keep telling him that there's a very obvious answer to that one - but listening's not one of his strengths.
And while I don't admit it to him,  saying "make sure you don't fuck this guy who is coming around" doesn't really work  either.   
If what he said was  "I expect you to do your share of the topping when this guy comes over"  he would see an almost magical softening of my cock.

Thanks to RawTOP for that - interesting and helpful.  

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Even when you shoot a video in your bedroom with a fuck buddy the legality of uploading that to a site is a bit complicated. You should have proof of his age.

I get the expectation of privacy point.  I'd be surprised though if anyone had too many age worries about me or 49 year old Thai friend (alas).

Interesting.

I got a similar message from Xtube when I enquired. My vids haven't been taken down, but one is "corrupt" - and not in an interesting way.  It seems I can't even upload to put it right.

And while I feel sorry for legal porn producers in the face of this crusade, the problem for me is I don't really like professional porn (too perfect, too well lit, compulsory beards etc).

Any views on an alternative for amateur vids? ThisVid?

I've mentioned this one before but it was so outrageous, it's worth another mention.
I put a post on CL to be fucked anon (and BB).
This guy replies using my name (which obviously wasn't in the CL post)- and says he knows me.
"Do you still want to then? and btw who are you"
He says who he is and the answer is "yes".
So he does.  He comes to my hotel room and fucks me blindfolded and anon. BB and cums inside.
He then starts lecturing me saying I  shouldn't be doing this sort of thing because of the STDs I might catch.

I just pretended to agree.  I didn't change my behaviour and I'd be amazed if he did his.

I only discovered today that Xtube won't let you upload vids unless you ask people to pay.  So where else? ThisVid?

Don't know if this counts:-
I agreed to meet a guy in a public toilet nearby.  It was below street level and just as I was walking in I noticed there was guy - not the one I was meeting - following behind me.  I had my doubts about the it anyway - and this just confirmed them.   I saw the guy I was meeting back up at street level and said I thought the public toilet was too risky.  He said he had a storeroom nearby and we could go there - so we did. It was run-down and a complete mess but the building had a doorcode so we couldn't be followed.  
We played for something like two hours - he fucked me bb - and cf - and then I left.  Only as I left the building, I felt a hand on my shoulder and was shown a warrant card.  It was the guy who had followed me at the beginning - along with another guy I had noticed on the street at that time.
- "which unit were you in in the building?" he asked
-  "I can't remember" said I, not very convincingly
- if you don't we can arrest you,
- I'm sorry I just don't remember...
 - we can take you down to the station...
And so it went on for over ten minutes.  Them repeating over and over again variants of the same threat and me repeating over and over again  my improbable memory loss.
Eventually, the other policeman - not the one who had followed me  into the toilet -  who was trying to be the nice side of their double act suddenly asks me
- Are you married?
- Yes, I said
- Well then go back home.  

Which, obviously, I did.

6 hours ago, subBottomKink said:

1) Teenagers like to rebel and go against the flow. If society is pro-LGBT, if kids are being preached a message of tolerance and acceptance, to me, it stands to reason that some will go against that for a while, just for the sake of going against it. That’s what teenagers do.

That would be my bet - just trying to be annoying.  I don't think they actually are.

Only been there twice.  Both times more to have a look than anything (7am on a Sunday) 4pm weekday with friends when we didn't have much time.  Neither, as it turned out was a problem.  
I'm not sure it was Boris who's done for the clubs either - unless he owns Grindr. Need to go there when I'm back next. Maybe when its dark even...

I sometimes wish I had more imagination.  My only regret now is that I didn't make more of it At the time I was worried guys would think I wasn't experienced enough, or didn't like the limited hours I could meet.

Funnily enough, it was just me who thought that.  None of them ever said "No, I don't usually like fucking married guys in their lunch-break".

I agree with Bootman.  I spent some time today dictating my old diary from 1985 (when I was 15).  I was amazed at how childlike a lot of it is. I wouldn't have seen myself that way at the time.  I mean, I had a chequebook - and had been served in pubs. The other thing we forget is how anyone of that sort of age wants to seem older than they really are. It doesn't mean they are. I agree.  I'd say 18.  

That said, the only time I did have worries and asked a guy how old he was (in Hong Kong) he turned out to be 26. Old enough for it to be crass. Not old enough for him to be quite pleased.

For me it was Trump's personal qualities (if that's the right word).  Apparently I would be a republican in US terms - I just couldn't stand the contempt he had for everyone around him, his not being arsed to find out anything about anyone else (at home or abroad) and the general whipping up of ill-will. I could just about deal with the invented facts and Thigh-land, but accusing everyone around him of being crooks, child-mos, cowards if it was a general etc is the behaviour of a w@nker.  I'm astonished at the number of people who think it's fine because he's on their "side".  I'm not sure he's on anyone's other than his  own - life's a power and personal wealth race and unless you've been President and own more golf courses, he's still winning that one.

My Chinese friend Sam will be sad though.  He loved Trump and was hoping he would lead the US into an abyss from which it would never recover, hastening China's lordship and superiority over everyone (as they are with the COVID - despite  the US starting and deviously planting in China in case you were wondering).

 If the proverbial martian were to land, totalitarianism, I could see Sam winning (except on COVID).  Xi Jinping at least knows how to behave, they all love him, they love each other too and they've seen their living standards rise by more any other regime in history - and who gives a stuff about democracy as long as China's No 1? Plus the Chinese cities all flash at night in this impressive if slightly strange and pointless way. 

Particularly pointless if you've come for a fuck and would rather look at the porn.

Right now my problem's the opposite.  I'd be a bit embarrassed to admit how little I was getting.

I can't even leave the flat - only faint hope is if anyone's up for fun on the roof...

This probably doesn't count but I met my wife's worst enemy from work in a sauna once.  He was more than a little surprised to see me.  Unfortunately, this made him want to chat not fuck.

Approx 230.

I feel like a beginner.

Luv it - one to remember.  You'd be mighty pissed off if they chickened out at the last minute because of the COVID.

I once got the lecture from a guy who had just fucked me when his cum was still fresh in my hole.

Very dangerous apparently to post on Craigslist for anon blindfold fucks.  No probs at all for the top, apparently.

I just tried to look serious (according to one fb I only smile when I've cum inside).

I'd got what I'd wanted and suspected he'd be ignoring his own advice again soon enough too.

11 hours ago, Brianbttm said:

Forgot my blindfold so used the hotel hand towel for a blindfold. 

I've tied my (longish black) socks together when I've forgotten mine. And I never ask for pics - reach a wider audience that way. Nothing better than anon blindfolded fucks...

First raw fuck, easy.  My bf.  Sad thing is he still doesn't believe it.  He says I was way to slutty for that to be true - which is a sort of compliment in a way.

First fuck?  Er... a little more hazy on that one - which i can see might seem to support his point of view.

Sorry if I'm offending anyone, but Trump's made me realise how good most politicians are and how decent.  

And good luck with the courts.  As Michael Foot said "If the freedom of the people in this country had been left to the good sense and fair-mindedness of the judges, we would have had few freedoms in this country at all."

Hope I'm wrong

According to online tests, I'm Conservative in UK, Republican in US (some non-Trump group apparently.  Trump's appeal is beyond me - Jean-Claude Juncker, Nigel Farage and Alex Salmond all have more appeal) and the Communist Party in China (not quite sure if it tells everyone that).

....I also apparently I

(a)  have "a slight automatic preference for Black people over White people" (over the white guy in the test definitely - creepier than Jimmy Savile, or maybe not brain thinking...)

(b)  associate women with work  (men with fun, maybe...) and

(c)  a slight preference for works of art that depict subjects stereotypically of interest to females women in dresses (news to me, men wearing nothing, is what seems to take up my time..)

Makes me sound like a complete fruitcake. 

Or I suppose I might just like wasting time on stupid online tests which tell me nothing...

Point of detail.  Tell them that the texts are going to stop when the blindfold goes on.  I thought was obvious.  Apparently not.

Only problem with filming is if it gets in the way of fucking.  Unless its set up before and ignored it can be one or the other.  Guys who are good at filming get it - guys who take out their phone half way through usually don't.   A guy the other night asked for some electrical tape and scissors... not a good sign...

And no, not worried.  If I'm seen by anyone I know - no problems only opportunities as they say..

Isn't everyone who stands fpr high office in the US a rapist or as good as?  It's compulsory for judges as far as I can tell.

Trump or Biden?  I really don't envy you that one.  Maybe write in Xi Jinping instead?