DivertirMe
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Yes, I've had sexual experiences with several "men of the cloth"... one is a priest in the Anglican Church (CofE/ Episcopal Church), another was ordained but don't recall what denomination. A friend (and theologian who may will be ordained in the near future) and I had sex once... do I get to count him too? On a side note, my 4th boyfriend/ lover was the son of a Anglican priest/ bishop, and the 3rd bf was the son of a former Roman Catholic priest.
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It seems situational and maybe also depends on how "sloppy" the hole is. I had one fuck buddy a few months ago ask me to give him a fresh hole when I come over. He's not a prude and has been to sex parties. I asked him about it and it was more the fact of not knowing whose jizz was in me that was the issue. Which I understood and respect. I feel similarly if I meet a bottom who's been whoring around. If I know the guy or guys who fucked and bred him I'm way more into joining the cum fest and likely to eat his hole. If its an anon situation I don't mind breeding a used hole-jizz is awesome lube-but I will limit what I will do with a bottom in that case. Definitely won't eat his hole if its been used by strangers who I don't know and that might not be on meds and getting checked regularly for STIs. The other thought I had is that it also depends on how messy or sloppy the hole is. Several times last spring and fall I would make the rounds to some buddies, often having 2-3 trysts with different men during the evening. I would shower and freshen up between each man, but kept every load inside me to mix together. I think no one made it an issue because it wasn't obvious that I'd taken dick earlier from another man. I smelled fresh and when they went down on me they couldn't smell or taste another man's jizz. If they can't smell it, see it, or taste it, the jizz from the other man or two in my hole is just awesome lube for a smooth, wet ride for he next guy to enjoy. None of those guys-one of whom was the same guy from the prior paragraph-ever asked or made an issue about having sloppy second (or thirds). That one time when my friend made that comment was when I'd come to his place straight from a sex party... we fucked, but I would have smelled like lube, poppers, and the 5 or 7 guys who had a piece of my ass.
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I'm toned, tall and well-proportioned, decently groomed, big-ish cock, so for more or less conventional tastes I'd say I'm 7.5-8. Most of the guys I know and play with are similar, though not by any means all of one "type." Again, conventional taste wise I'd say most of them range from 6-9. But as with anything, if a man can convey the sense that he knows how to fuck and is into me I'll give him a taste... at the end of the day I most appreciate a man who eats my hole, gets it wet, and then leaves me wetter still with his jizz.
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Bottoms, how often do you clean your hole out? (And why)
DivertirMe replied to dckdan's topic in General Discussion
I typically have to set aside playtime, so I only clean out when I've got a hook up planned or there's a strong possibility of one. On the rare occasion I have a block of time available to look for dick I will clean out in advance of making plans to meet anyone just in case I come across a guy who's wanting to go ASAP. -
Love your response! I enjoy looking at, fucking, and getting fucked by a conventionally hot guy, ie. muscular, well-groomed, classically proportioned body and face. BUT, a decent to handsome guy (say a 5-7.5 on the scale) with an air of self-confidence, good manners, and a virile persona gets me hot and in the mood to be mounted very consistently.
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I'm very much in the 20-30min and 30min+ grouping... I love to feel a cock slide in my hole and it generally takes a while for me to reach the point of satiation. As long as my hole is kept wet I can take it for an hour pretty easily... I will of course take it longer if the man topping me likes a long fuck. The longest I've done was an over-nighter where the top fucked me for 2-2.5 hours before we both went to sleep, then fucked me another 45 min to an hour in the morning before he came... so it was like a 3 hour fuck to get his load. At the other end I had one fella I saw pretty regularly, we usually played for 45min to an hour, and the time was almost evenly split between me sucking his cock, him eating my hole, and him fucking my hole. So it was a shorter fuck time, 15-20 minutes, but with 10-25 min of him eating my hole so I was always very wet and "ready" when he wanted to enter me. With fuckbuds I'm way more flexible... I'll spend the time prepping my hole for a 5-min quickie to get a friend off, because its kinda like fuck banking. If he knows there's a good hole when he needs to get off then he's more likely to give me some long fuck time when he's not in a rush.
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An intensely emotional connection is not needed for me to fuck (bb or safe), but I've found I feel less fulfilled when there is no sense of trust or camaraderie between me and the other person or people having sex. My anon experiences have been few and far in between, the vast majority have been boyfriends or guys with whom there's been varying levels of regularity in our get togethers. I kinda prefer to more commonly used term in Europe of "sex friends," because the relationship is between acquaintances but it is initially and primarily sexual, with some occasions of hanging out for social reasons.
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I would add also that I think it's become fetishized as a direct negation of the moralizing, and often puritanical, insistence upon condom use as a societal good. Heterosexuals in loving relationships are assumed to bareback once their relationship reaches a certain point of commitment and intimacy, but for gays since the late 80s and 90s sex the "old-fashioned way" has been denigrated as degenerate in our zeal to curtail HIV transmission.
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I started to have bare sex regularly when I was in a relationship with my first boyfriend, so for me it's primarily an expression of desire and intimacy. I do sometimes just crave the physical sensation of cum in my hole. And there is a very carnal pleasure from being very loaded and feeling different sizes and shapes of cock inside me, so I also certainly get how it can be seen as "sleazy/ dirty" when the focus is exclusively the accumulation of cock and cum from strangers and it is not an intimate sensual experience between lovers or friends.
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calling a bottom's hole a boipussy or pussy or cunt?
DivertirMe replied to yunghungtop's topic in General Discussion
I'm of a similar mind. A great session to me is a celebration of life and creation. Every person, regardless of their physical sex or gender identity is a combination of varied "gender identified qualities," some that are more strongly associated with one gender more than the other. When I bottom and take another man's load/cum/ essence inside my body I feel more attuned and receptive when a top uses the word "pussy." I do not feel that way so much if a top says "cunt" because the connotations of the word are primarily negative. Pussy on the other hand does not have so many negative associations. -
I can't say that the person I'm thinking of is looking for Mr. Right-as in someone to live with in a long term relationship, but I met and had lunch with (and once got fucked bare by) a guy who is the foster/ adoptive parent for 2 or 3 kids.
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I've always found men in their 30s, 40s, and early 50s the hottest. Even as a kid and before losing my virginity that was the age range I found myself most attracted to. For most of my life then the guys I have liked have been older than me, now that I'm in my mid-30s, they're mostly my age or a few years older.
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I couldn't agree more... I enjoy sex more and more readily submit to a top's desires if I know and like him. Of course I enjoy meeting new men, but I am willing to be much piggier with a man (or group of guys) I know, and show him how deeply I want to please him and receive his cum.
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Can you feel it when a guy comes in your ass?
DivertirMe replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
I am always aware of a top cumming-there is a certain focus and change of tempo most men get when they're close that clues me in... most guys pump harder as they near climax, but a few guys will slow and lengthen their stroke. I can sometimes feel the load itself, but that's usually only if the top shoots a very large load and then I can feel the additional mass of stuff in my hole. An average size load I will often feel because of the additional wetness, and cum just makes for a noticeably smoother ride than spit or lube. -
Can you feel it when a guy comes in your ass?
DivertirMe replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
"a cruel, heavy cummer..." hmm, you sound like the kinda jizz blower I adore. I like dick. But I LOVE a cummy dick in my hole.