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I know what you are asking. This is best answer I can post here. I posted a party on BBRT for NYE weekend at InnLeather Dungeon 37 dudes were approved, I declined nobody. No one showed.
This month I posted the BBRT party on a Friday, by Monday I had zero responses. I changed HIV to "Undetectable" and approved 7 men, declining zero. No one showed. One guy did want to hook up, but he had no pictures. I can't get a gangbang together no matter what I say. I am leaving the BBRT as "Undetectable"
This fantasy of finding other toxic men, even in FTL FL, supposedly the largest gay community in the country, just doesn't work out for me. I have been lucky and found a few toxic in the last ten years, butt only at bathhouses and just because of my look.
Fort Lauderdale is a BBlast everyday.