Once upon a time, when I first came out, I fell prey to the then (and, I'd argue, still) hegemonic "gay," or, perhaps more accurate, "faggot" discourse, I'd have answered this question with the exact opposite to that which I am about to give.
What kind of men do I like to fuck or get fucked by? Easy. I like to fuck and be fucked by, er, um, men. Real men. Maculine, if not hypermasculine, men. Indeed, masculinist men. And when I do fuck or get fucked by men, we insert our cocks in our respective assholes, which is the common, albeit not the scientific, name for that particular. Men do NOT have "boi pussies" or "man cunts." Period! Correction: No period. Were I ever again for some unfathomable reason want to venture near or into a pussy or cunt, well, I'd choose the original models. But trust me: that will never happen. (And frankly, I wish it never had.)