I am neg. I have managed to bareback for the last 30 years, taken and given hundreds of loads, been to bath houses, and I am still negative. I know I have gotten a few STDs (ones I tested positive for and ones I just take antibiotics because it was obvious) but I got through those and now show negative for everything. My bigger problem is having a heart attack or a brain hemorrhage (in my genes). I know the risks involved in bb and don't want to become poz, but I also want to enjoy the sex. Yes, negative guys go to bath houses but there is no way to tell what you will get when you meet a guy in the dark. But, there are ways to reduce the risk and I don't believe the crap about eventually getting poz. Still the only real way to be 100% safe is to not have sex with anyone and what the hell good is that? Listen, if you are neg, and there is no reason you should not get tested every so often, and you want to continue to bareback, do all the things you know to reduce the risks, including PrEP or PEP, good hygiene, choosing wisely, getting a partner (or partners) who is doing the same things and then just go have some fucking fun.