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In the universe. No I doubt you are the only one.

No, but their tricks tell them they are better in bed to keep the cash cow going.

Money has nothing to do with sex unless you have to sell it or buy it.

One person does not make gays more racist. That's like saying watch the Sopranos to prove that straight people are more racist. I don't watch the show, and I've heard of him, but he's not out as a gay person, he has the gay voice and some gay affectations.

I know when I was in my early 20s I could get away with a fleet enema and refilling it with water a few times. 20 years later your system changes and I feel more comfortable doing a long deep clean and skipping dinner. In a pinch I could probably do a quick clean an be fine, but I prefer to be thorough.

Class isn't really discussed much in the US. We have the poor, lower middle class, middle class, upper middle class, the rich and the ultra wealthy. I don't think I'm any better or worse than any other class.

I hear you, it's easier to make friends when you are younger. In your 40's when you have more to offer as a friend people will be your friend until a better deal comes along. What I hope it to find a friend that is as considerate as I try to be. I thought I had a friend when I moved to Florida. Turns out he had a lot of friends and wants people to be his friend and take him out, but he doesn't make an effort to be yours. I also have a good friend who is pulling away from me and doesn't want to hang out as much, I'm gonna have to ask him why. He is a really good guy, but I see his bad parts too. even after he got a boyfriend he made time for me, but now I'm lucky if I see him twice a month. But it's not gonna sour me, I'm gonna go out there are look for other friends. I did the whole introvert thing in my 30s, that's why I'm in south Florida now where I can meet other gay friends.

Which are?

Upper class people often have a lot of disdain for the poor and minorities in general. Most are smart enough to keep their mouths shut about it. If you live in most large cities in the US you will be exposed to minorities via work or in daily interactions. Middle class are working class. I never thought of members of this place as being upper or lower class. I don't think we have much royalty amongst us here. Honestly if I were to guess, I hate to be honest, but I feel a lower class vibe here, not that there's anything wrong with that. Some people like to think they are better than others. I knew a guy and his friend who liked to talk about "breeding" in terms of people and thinking it was class. They are both lower class alcoholics. So breeding must mean that your parents work hard of come into money and then you sit home and drink yourself into a stupor.

He sounds like a miserable jerk. One of those people who are just angry at the world and has racial hatred plus general hatred.

I don't see many gay Asian guys in porn. Unless you count Japanese porn which is unwatchable because everything is blurred out.

I'm shy to approach people but if they speak to me first I'm happy to talk to them and not shy once the ice is broken. I"m shy about public speaking and speaking in groups with everyone looking at me. I have a standard conversation starter in Florida, which is to ask where people are from originally, most of them, especially the gay guys are from some other state. That's why I like to play in dark rooms, mostly bent over waiting for guys, you don't have to talk to them. I'm shy to approach people too. I tried to meet someone online just as friends to go out to a bar, but he flaked out on me 2 hours before we were supposed to meet, so fuck him. Two weeks ago I did talk to someone at a bar, I wasn't looking to hook up, but he was cute and I heard some other guy talk to him and he was from Long Island and I was from the northeast. Then I saw he didn't like his blue LI Iced tea, and he ordered a different one, so I asked him if he didn't like it and he said it was too sweet. We spoke a little but either he was shy or dopey. After an awkward silence he says to me "people watching is fun" so I said, yeah, then I was done with my drink, said nice meeting you and left. There was another guy at Slammers that I met through the bartender. He was a little weird but nice, I think we spoke for an hour or more. He kept saying...can I tell you something that might upset you...then he said I was too hard on myself and that I should have a man. I think he was a little drunk too, but he was sweet and nice to talk to. I have a good friend and I don't know what his deal is or if it's only with me, but he's very quiet and we have some long silences at times. He went to the boat show and all he said was it was good, so I asked a few more questions about it, but he doesn't really talk that much, On the phone he's horrible, so I just chat real quick and move on when I call him. I was very shy as a kid, but as I got older I grew out of it.

I know one guy who doesn't like any porn with black guys in it. I think he's a little racist.

So he's racist because he's white and won't date white guys?

then keep fucking with the guys who do a off one with a bottle of Fleet enema. Actually my doctor told me that I was exposed to Hep C, but my body fought it off and now I am immune to it.

Nope, the place is overflowing with those.

and some white guys only will date white guys, some black guys will only date black guys. I don't see a problem with that. I remember seeing a black girl online say that she didn't like white men's dicks because it reminded her of uncooked meat. ...to each their own. Sometimes people feel more comfortable within their own culture for dating purposes. To me racism is more about disrespect for other ethnicityies than who you choose to date. I don't discriminate as to who I fall in love with.

A racist has hatred and disdain for other races and won't associate with them. I spoke to a gay guy once thru work situations that had racist views, he hated mostly everyone. He even mentioned my ethnic background because he obviously didn't know, one of those "I hate those people" kind of bigots. When I told my mother about him sitting there badmouthing our heritage without knowing she thought it was very funny. I don't call people like that out, because they are stupid and not worth the effort. I remember one Halloween I told my parents the the same little black kids keep coming back for candy. My parents told me they were just kids. We had a black neighbor move in next to my parents. My parents and I welcomed her, she was a nice lady, a nurse, had a gay son too. She was the best neighbor to live in that house, but I don't think the other neighbors welcomed her. I find a lot less racism in the gay community, but it depends on how you were brought up. Having a preference for one race dating wise doesn't make you a racist. We all have preferences otherwise old and fat guys would be appreciated and wanted in our community. It depends where you grew up too, in the northeast it wasn't a big deal to associate with people of other races. I have an acquaintance that I knew form online and was a friend of someone I know down here and he is in a gay interracial relationship and lives in Maryland. I have a friend who grew up in Canada and he wasn't exposed to many black people. I found it odd that he fooled around in sex clubs and never had sex with a black guy. Now he's dating a Puerto Rican guy, and he's a good person so I know he's not racist. Trust me that there is a lot more racism in the straight community. You won't see it because in front of you they won't say it, but there is. There is just more vapidness in the gay community.

That's the thing some tops just want you to be a hole they don't want to work together, they want all the power. Some of those can still be good fucks. I see some bottoms just bent over taking it, not doing any moving or participating. I like to move around, I like to change positions, I like to have sex when I fuck, not just be a hole. and the lousiest tops are the ones that can't get hard or can't stick it in.

Me too, I clean out well and am always down for a little ass to mouth.

Gays are less racist because we know what discrimination is. Just because people have a racial preference doesn't make them racist.

One of my favorite things to do with long dick guys is that they keep their dick there and let my gyrate on it.

On the other hand if I found a great guy, who is great in bed and he didn't want me to fool around with others, I would accept being monogamous.

Delay. If you love the person and the lifestyle they help you maintain don't fuck it up for some strange.

I thought this was about being open later. I'm not too jealous, and I would like an open relationship where I can go out and fuck with other guys. The thing I wouldn't like is if my partner was looking for people on Grindr or online sex sites, those tend to be more intimate. I'd rather he go to a sex club or bath and just fuck and go.