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20 hours ago, Zeke17043 said:

nothing has happened so far.

Can you elaborate a bit on this?

There's been no action because (1) there's hardly anyone there, or  (2) There are too many bottoms looking to get bred

On 5/14/2022 at 10:09 AM, DirtyIndyDad40 said:

when I’m in a chair at a gloryhole and guys step up who don’t interest me, what is glory hole etiquette?

The only thing a cocksucker at a gloryhole should be concerned with is the cock that appears on the hole. If the cock is too small or there is something you don't like about the cock, you stop sucking so eventually the cock will move away so another cock pops through.

If you have to like the guy of the cock you wanna suck and hopefully swallow the load, as someone already said, don't bother with a gloryhole.

40 minutes ago, Dextro95 said:

I am definately a bottom that does not stop in the middle!

Once at a sauna a guy fucked me for about 30 minutes non-stop before he shot his load. My hole was fine but my legs were a bit sore.

I know that bottoms must drink lots of water, consume fiber and avoid some foods the day and hours before getting fucked. And that makes sense. but do any bottoms have a specific diet the day before and hours before a fuckfest? A diet that avoids gas and makes it easy to clean your hole.

By specific I mean, specific menu and foods.

On 3/5/2021 at 11:35 AM, LarsBlonde19 said:

I want to explain that I do not have any problem  giving myself to sex with "ugly" old men and enjoying it in an incredible way.

When I was in my 20's at the sauna I used to love hooking up with old and unattractive men. I was in great shape and I found it thrilling how much these guys would enjoy fucking me while they touched my body.

15 hours ago, Oralguya1 said:

Do tops like well fucked asses that are dripping with the cum of other guys that have already fucked it?

Not only tops. A sloppy hole is the one thing that makes some total bottoms want to fuck and breed it.

8 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Kink is subjective, you say? Thanks for the news flash.

All I was saying is that as I was watching the woman describe her horrible experience, I was getting turned-on by the kinky idea of being at a sauna on a public sling in a similar situation. By "kink" I mean a self-centered sexual encounter with anonymous people so that fetishes can be realized more freely.

I think that the biggest differences are between how men and women relate to "kink" and this poses a problem for "straight" men who do not get the good quality kink that only men know how to provide.

I have been advertising my private gloryhole in Doublelist and I like a type of guys that respond to my ad, many of them in relationships with women. They tell me that the anonymity turned them on and wanted to try a gloryhole. I avoid asking personal questions and the only thing I want to know is what their cock is like. 

So far I like Doublelist because I think they've become tough on their censorship. I've been very explicit in my latest ads and they have been approved. What I like the most is that many of the men who respond to my ad love the idea of totally anonymous action, but they would never go to a sauna or an ABS. Instead, they feel comfortable walking into an apartment and there's a gloryhole waiting for them.

I think that many men like having sex with men not because they like "men" but because they like "the way men have sex".

I watched a crime story of young woman who while in university had been raped by a Frat Boy. She only remembered one guy raping her but she was later told that there had been two other guys who had previously raped her. She also learned that someone took pictures. The woman was crying and feeling awful about those pictures circulating.

I say to myself, wait a minute. I'm sure many guys who were to remember that at a Frat-house party they last remember being pounded and bred on a sling by some Frat boy and they then learned that this will be the third load, they would probably hope that someone took a video of the breedings.

The same situation, different perspective.

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I could never define what having sex with men is like because for me there are two kinds of sex between men: (1) Anonymous sex, NSA, etc and (2) the rest of the sexual interactions, which will vary depending on the men involved. When it comes to sex role the type of sex is for me relevant.

For instance, a total bottom may occasionally top and breed a hole but only at a sauna or darkroom.  The same bottom would never, ever top in the context of a relationship. His description would be something like "total bottom but sometimes anonymously versatile".

A guy I know was on PrEP for a couple of years but, because he's now in a relationship, he doesn't get too many opportunities for anon sex and didn't make sense for him to take a daily pill. Also the Pandemic.

He sometimes goes on business trips for weeks at a time and he wants to have some anon sex while he's away. His doctor suggested he start taking PrEP a week before the first sexual encounter and take daily PrEP until, 30 days for bottoms, and 7 days for tops after the last sexual contact.

I have never heard of bottoms having to continue on PrEP longer than tops. Can anybody shed some light on this?

1 hour ago, Beardybarrowboy said:

 I’ve noticed when I was young accidents were rare if I hadn’t  douched but now I’m 48 I take no chances.

This has also been true for me in terms of cleaning before sex. When I was a younger BB bottom, when someone wanted to drop by, I was ready with a clean and lubed hole in 30 minutes.  I find that as I age cleaning my hole is taking me more time.

13 hours ago, NLbear said:

Whimpering screaming bottoms. You're a man, take it like a man!

There are other things that piss me off in porn but, a whimpering screaming bottom is one of those turn-offs that usually make me stop watching.

I want to hear the top or, some sort of kinky sex talk between the top and the bottom. Otherwise, especially as the top is getting ready to unload, I want to hear the top's breathing, grunting, moaning, or words he utters as he pumps his load in the bottom's hole.  In porn, I want the bottom to shut up because at this moment, a whimpering screaming bottom is just annoying background noise that's is interfering  with the top's hot audio.

4 hours ago, Lorenzo said:

I have been a bottom for as long as I can remember. ...

Is this an age thing? I’m confused.

Wanting to bottom or top is not in your DNA so it's normal to switch. I don't see anything confusing about getting horny with some young bottom that you want to fuck, even if you haven't fucked that much.

On 3/11/2022 at 8:24 AM, hntnhole said:

It seems most - or almost all - guys love anon sex the most. 

This is what I like best about men's attitude towards sex and the reason I like sex with men.

In my ads for my gloryhole I stress anonymity and expect no chit-chat, hellos or goodbyes, and the guys love it. Nobody accuses me of me "dehumanizing" them or treating them as "objects", as many women would.

A guy just left. Wow, so hot sucking his cock, licking his balls. He was very horny but really resisting shooting his load, so he would keep pulling out not to cum. When guys contact me I ask them if they also want to plow a hole or just oral. This guy wrote: "Never had ass sex and not too sure if I’m there yet.  Finishing with your mouth would be just fine 🙂 ".

I had told him that this is about my mouth taking care or your cock, so there was no need for hellos, chit-chat or thank yous. He came in and without saying a word, he approached the gloryhole where I took over.

He was very horny and his cock was very hard, almost ready to explode but he kept pulling out trying to avoid shooting his load. After several very enjoyable minutes I did swallow his load, he quietly zipped up, and left without saying a word, as we had agreed. I just got an email from him "Thx", so I guess I will have him back.

1 hour ago, Japbtm said:

I like fucking sloppy holes. If I say I’m versatile bottom I get so many bottoms trying to get me to top. I just say I’m a bottom to get away from all that from other bottoms.  

Many total bottoms turn into tops having the opportunity of fucking a sloppy hole.  These bottoms, who many times describe themselves as versatile-bottom, could say in their profile "I only breed sloppy holes at saunas and parties", explaining the "versatile" part. Otherwise say "Bottom"

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14 hours ago, Queenzlander59 said:

What feels better...cumming in a bottoms hole or being fucked? 

I'm a bottom and have rarely topped, but I would say that cumming in a bottoms hole is way more pleasurable because of the orgasm. I love getting fucked and taking loads but the pleasure is "mental".

Here is a comment that backs this up:

9 hours ago, Searchingforit said:

I thought bottom was the way to go for me but having topped lately I'm changing my view. Nothing like a tight arse gripping your cock as it ravages a willing bottom

Sure, getting fucked and taking a loads is super exciting but nothing beats the physical pleasure of a top cumming inside a moist and warm manhole. 

When I was young and had a sexy masculine body, I sometimes responded to audio-ads from guys looking for a top and who were not super hot, maybe a bit chubby or older. Once at their place I would prolong the necking part waiting for the bottom to get horny enough just by touching my body until they found themselves fucking me and cuming inside.

If I were communitycumdump and someone assumes he enjoys topping, he's young and hot so he can play my game. Get them horny enough with your body until they are horny enough that the'll want to top tou.

On 4/7/2022 at 12:36 PM, NWUSHorny said:

Doesn't versatile bottom imply that they are more bottom than top?

Yes, But most versatile-bottom profiles describe in detail how much they enjoy bottoming and rarely describe in which situation they like topping and breeding holes. I've seen some say "I rarely top but I sometimes get in the mood with a loaded hole". O some say that in a group situation.

18 hours ago, hairyone said:

Unfortunately, fetishizing "BBC" can be considered a form of racism.

But not when it comes to sex, especially in a site like this where guys are looking for fetish sex.

18 hours ago, hairyone said:

Black men who happen to have big penises are not fetishes.  They are human beings. 

When I'm at a bathhouse or at a gloryhole, I'm not looking for a "deep emotional connection" with another human being. For that I meet for a nice dinner or a coffee.

18 hours ago, hairyone said:

Some black men may not care.  But, many do.

Those black men who care about being treated like a piece of meat should not care because that's what we all want

18 hours ago, hairyone said:

You don't have to understand the harm in those words, you just have to accept and grow as a person.

People have different ways of "growing as a person". I think that the best way to grow as a person is to learn how to stop being offended by things other people say, simply because one cannot control that. One can only control our reaction and feelings to what people say. Will Smith, for instance, is in my opinion someone who need to grow as a person.

20 hours ago, communitycumdump said:

with the unhealthy obsessions of bottoms (mainly white) reducing them to BBC and all the other racial stereotypes coded in a language that shows 'inclusion'.

Why is it unhealthy to want to get fucked and bred BBC? It's a just a fetish like so many others.

The Internet made popular the concepts of bareback and the top and bottom roles. Before AIDS guys just had sex and nobody asked for condoms because there was no fear of pregnancy. Guys fucked or got fucked and I liked getting fucked and having guys cuming inside but I never spoke of myself as a bottom.

In the early 80's I was at a sauna in Toronto and for the first time a guy wanted to put on a condom to fuck me. I said "What the fuck!" and didn't have sex but he told me about a disease spreading in gay men. As everyone else I had to stop fucking, or wear condoms as I did for a few years. When I went to parks my fetish then was to hang the condoms with loads near me, so I managed to accept condoms, but not for long.

My best time as a bottom  was in the early 90's when I decided to ditch condoms forever, at a time when there were no good treatments for HIV and of course no PrEP.

At the saunas, guys were willing to fuck without a condom but only a few were willing to get fucked bareback, and less bred by anonymous cum. For barebacking, most guys relied on relationships and sex at the bathhouses was supposed to always be with condoms. 

I remember that in the early 90's, when I was getting fucked bareback at the sauna, most guys would say "I'm getting ready to cum. Do you want me to pull out?", something I haven't heard in years. After I said something like "No! Cum deep inside me!" they would go crazy because holes wanting their cum were hard to find.

It was fun because sometimes when I arrived at the sauna and some guy who had already bred me was there, I knew he would eventually breed me again that night. Later, with Meds and then PrEP bareback bottoms began to appear creating too much competition.

10 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

So I don't see much to call out here.

You are right, and of course, versatile-bottoms are not as passionate for topping as they are for bottoming.

I guess my comment was that many times I read a profile of someone that seems like a bottom, but then they are versatile-bottom or bottom but they give loads, but they rarely explain in which situations they would cream a hole.