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On 11/15/2025 at 8:58 AM, PozPigCumDump said:

...[PrEP and new gay culture] it's a good thing... I think! 

Yeah, PrEP has brought piece of mind and although it doesn't protect against other infections, guys on PrEP are usually tested frequently. Now at the sauna you have poz guys on Meds and guys on PrEP, so even HIV-neg guys who are not on PrEP have reduced changes of pozing. 

I started taking loads in my early 20's when condoms were never mentioned, when the "bottom identity" did not exist, and when "bareback sex" was just called "sex". Actually, admitting to enjoying getting fucked was not something to be proud of, like it is today "being a bottom". I was lucky to have a very good friend, a few years older, who was very open about his adventures in saunas getting fucked and he would describe to me, in a veiled manner, the experience of "taking a load". He would tell me that he enjoyed going to Puerto Rico and would tell me that these Latinos would start screaming "Papito, Papito.." while they were cumming inside him. That really turned me on, and I also didn't feel bad about wanting to get fucked myself.

Suddenly one day at the YMCA in Toronto a guy walked into my room and pulled a condom. I said, WTF! He mentioned that because of the "gay cancer" he had started wearing condoms. I didn't have sex with him, but not long after that, the panic set and guys stopped having sex. 

Which bring me to:

On 11/15/2025 at 8:58 AM, PozPigCumDump said:

... I think! 

Maybe not, because for me the best sex in terms of quality and quantity about a decade before Meds and later PrEP became widely available. 

Those were my best years as a bottom, because too many guys still afraid of HIV would sometimes fuck bareback but never take anon loads. So it was a lot of fun to be openly a bareback bottom. I would arrive at the sauna and while I was still undressing in my room some guys would stop by to ask me until what time I was staying, and I knew that I would eventually take their load that evening. 

I kind of liked "that culture", when a guy left my room at the sauna an although I had decided to risk it, I would always wonder if his is the load that will poz me.

On 10/25/2025 at 9:02 AM, muscmtl said:

But to me, they're not. Am I the only one?

It depends. I once went to a sauna where one of the dark rooms had a dimmed down screen with porn, guys fucking. It was fun to watch porn while getting fucked. This same sauna had a public sling at the end of a very dark room, where I wore my black shorts with a green glowing circle. I took many loads that time, many from guys that I didn't even see. 

I think that saunas should provide good dark spaces. Many public slings have too much light. 

On 8/20/2018 at 4:58 AM, CumBustion said:

...a lot of Tops love a "looser" hole so that they don't spend a lot of time trying to get in me.

Some guys don't get a full hard-on until they are inside the hole, so tight holes are no good. 

I make sure to have a loose hole, but once the cock is in I can also tighten my hole up if a guy likes it. Or some bottoms can't tighten their hole?

On 10/29/2025 at 1:59 AM, Leo177 said:

As a top, i have stealthed...

Stealthing doesn't have the same power it had in the 1990's, early 2000's, when anon loads were considered dangerous. Every time a dude left my room at the sauna I wondered if that cum I felt in my hole was the one that would poz me. 

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It's funny how the Asian top is horny and wants to get going but the bottom keeps making small talk. By minute 0:25 the serious pounding starts. By minute 0:42 the tops goes over the edge and prepares to cum. At 0:52 is the explosion, and when the bottom falls in love.

This is a 5 month video but I thought it was hot to see a daddy breed the twink, deep inside, moaning and kissing him while he breeds his hole. Starting at minute 25:00 the hot daddy is starting to get very turned on fucking the boy's pussy. Heavy pounding by minute 27:00, by 28:00 his balls must be blue from how horny the daddy is and he's feeling his load ready to explode. At 29:11 comes the hot question "Do you want it?" 

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I miss the times when at the sauna most guys played safe, but a few would secretly top bareback. I loved it when the guy fucking me would ask "Can I come inside?" and he would go crazy when I said "Go deep when you shoot". Once the guy was gone all I had was his load, wondering if it was poz. In those days guys truly appreciated a clean hole where they could unload. 

On 9/1/2025 at 12:09 PM, Iker80 said:

One guy I meet with likes to fist bump after we've blown each other and tell me it's been fun. I feel confused if a guy switches around to be more fem. I know I just grew up in a very gender focused world. Lots of brothers, lots of sports, 100% expectations to be that type of guy.

I don't think anyone needs to apologize for wanting and expecting masculine behaviour in guys. 

In terms of bottoming, since my 20's when I started bottoming, it helped being masculine and having a nice body, which I used for my fetishes. I took "bottom" lessons from a bottom who was quite effeminate.

Because I knew guys liked my body and attitude, I enjoyed the challenge of convincing another bottom to breed me, somewhere I used to do when horny for that scene. I would first get the guy really horny by letting him touch my body and kissing passionately. It was a matter of keeping the guy horny and finding the way of his hard-on into my hole.

My hole was usually lubed so if his hard-on happen to venture into the opening, after they found my moist hole I knew that load was mine. Other times I would convince them to fuck me because they were so horny.  I remember once leaving a guy's place with his load in my hole and he said "You tricked me".

All this to say that I think masculinity is very compatible with bottoming. 

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Sometimes I think about trying, but I don't know if I'll regret it,

You won't regret it. On the contrary, as a 23-yr old you'll really enjoy the attention of guys at a park or sauna. I started getting bred in my early 20's, when it was very easy to get guys to fuck me and want to breed me. Take advantage of it now.

But make sure your hole is clean so you can enjoy the fucking.

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

I don't think I'll do it.

If you don't do it now, you will be sorry because it will be fun to start taking loads now that you are young. 

I know nothing about where you live, small or large city. But I would recommend you travel outside your area to a large city that has a nice sauna, like Steamworks in Toronto. I took my first loads at the YMCA in New York, spent 4 days, I hardly slept because the action was 24 hours a day. Guys would follow me, got fucked in the showers, and of course in my room. I knew all about sex at the YMCA from a friend of mine who was a bottom and taught me the ropes.

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Just to know, how is it to be bred? 

It's the most exciting experience that I can have as a bottom, and I never get tired of it. A few months ago I spent some time at Steamworks Toronto, took many loads, two from the same top.

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Would I feel the cum fill my ass? Or just him stop fucking and pulsating? How is it afterward?

For me getting bred is more than just feeling the cum inside my hole. Sometimes I feel it, when the guy cums a lot, but my enjoyment of the breeding is about hearing the breathing rhythm of the top change, or his moans and groans as he unloads. For me the audio is very important so I usually engage in some verbal interaction while the guy unloads. 

While the guy is unloading I would recommend you relax your hole because many guys get too sensitive right after cumming, so by relaxing I avoid the guy pulling out before letting the entire load drip inside.

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Also, does it feel good to get fucked?

I don't like huge cocks because I'm afraid of getting hurt.

On 10/3/2025 at 11:30 AM, anon11 said:

Did you feel weird if you did it the first time with someone older on Grindr?

My first load was with an out of shape older guy in his 50's, in the shower area. He was very horny with a young guy interested in him and he followed me into the showers. He left the showers right away after shooting, but he later came into my room and gave me another load that night. 

On 9/27/2025 at 5:27 PM, Marlin said:

It's certainly not an issue with me. The vast majority of guys today routinely play raw and quite frankly the few guys that do insist on condoms are not my type anyways.

Right on. The story was different decades ago when guys were terrified of anon cum. I find that guys no longer ask.

On 9/24/2025 at 2:42 AM, Baralvr26 said:

About a year ago I did try to bring up inviting others or going to sexual places like a bathhouse or event but he ended up saying an awkward maybe to the idea. He does view sex as love and can only see himself having sex with only those he cares more on an emotional level while I view sex as just a fun activity.

Some guys can love each other but also enjoy some kinky action together, like going to a sauna or orgies together. But other guys like their "romantic" relationship separate from the anon kinky action. 

On 9/19/2025 at 12:27 PM, rawinme said:

I doesn't seem that long ago where I believe that most guys preferred or even demanded safe condom fucking.  

Until somewhere in the 1990's.

On 9/19/2025 at 12:27 PM, rawinme said:

Bareback fuckers were a minority.

Guys who even suggested having sex without a condom were shunned. 

On 9/19/2025 at 12:27 PM, rawinme said:

Maybe it's a change in culture,...

Before the AIDS crisis guys fucked without condoms mainly because condoms were to avoid pregnancy. I took loads in saunas, YMCA, and dark rooms, but not because of culture. It wasn't even known as bareback. It was called getting fucked. 

I remember the first time a guy at the YMCA in Toronto pulled a condom to fuck me. I found it outrageous that he would do such thing.

Suddenly, everyone stopped fucking for a little while or got into relationships.  But then, in the 1990's barebacking started to appear again

On 9/19/2025 at 12:27 PM, rawinme said:

...maybe it's the map type instant hookup sites.  Or maybe it's because of prep.

The drug cocktails started to appear in the 1990's and it was then when I went back to barebacking and taking anon loads But it wasn't because of culture, but now risk of HIV infection had been reduced because many guys were now Undetectable. 

On 9/16/2025 at 7:07 AM, profwhtforhung said:

a hot man in a restroom hard and ready to be sucked.  hard to let him know i wanted to swallow his cum,...

So? What did you do?

On 9/16/2025 at 7:07 AM, profwhtforhung said:

any tips out there?

How about getting on your knees in front to him? 

11 hours ago, Baralvr26 said:

Im 25 and been dating this guy for 4 years and...

How old is he? 

11 hours ago, Baralvr26 said:

I personally feel board with only one dick and miss the rush of going to a bathhouse or video porn theater getting loads from other men. 

Most men have tons of fantasies and fetishes which cannot be fulfilled by just one man. So it's impossible for two guys who are in a relationship to depend only on each other for sexual gratification. Especially because it's many times more fulfilling that a sexual adventure be anonymous than with someone you know.

If two guys like each other, enjoy each other's company, I recommend they first focus on the sex, but when emotional intimacy becomes a possibility, ignore the sex with each other because it's meant to die off, and focus on each other in every other aspect of life.

I know a couple of guys who met at a sauna. They first had sex in the dark room, a totally anon encounter, and they have been married for many years. Their relationship reminds me of the British TV program "Naked Attraction".

I think that every guy should care of their own "sex department" and can of course meet if the they want. Just focus on all aspects of the relationship. 

When I was in my early 20's I had a very good friend who was gay and he was very open about his sexual conquests. He was in his early 30's and although I liked him very much, I wasn't interested in him sexually. 

He would tell me about his visits to the sauna and sex clubs in New York. In those days guys who liked getting fucked would not call themselves a bottom, like they do now. He would tell me about getting fucked by a Porto Rican and how they yelled "Papito, papito..." while shooting inside his ass. Listening to his sex stories would turn me on. 

So when I went to the YMCA specifically to have sex with anon guys, I knew what I wanted and what turned me on. I spent 4 days at the YMCA and from my friend I knew the drill: when he went to the sauna he would lie in his bed on his stomach leaving the door ajar. 

So, in today's language, I learned how hot it was to be a bottom from my bottom friend, so I was a bottom the first time I had sex with a guy.

Getting fucked and taking loads became addictive. I was then young, in very good shape and I looked very masculine, so I got lots of attention because in those days guys who would be open about enjoying getting fucked were usually more effeminate. Some masculine guys would enjoy getting fucked but were more like closet bottoms. But I was open about enjoying getting fucked. 

The fun ended with the AIDS crisis. I still remember being at the sauna in Toronto and a guy pulled out a condom, something that had never happened to me before. 

Then in the 1990's I came back to getting fucked without a condom, but I was now a Bareback Bottom. I made the decision to again take anon loads when some guys would scold barebackers at the sauna. But for many years I had a lot of fun because the world was not full of bottoms like it is today. 

In the 1970's guys were embarrassed to admit taking the woman's role, as it was considered, as now guys are proud to be a bottom 

In my case the "feeling old" started when I tuned 70.

In my 60's I was keeping in good shape, riding my bicycle everywhere. In my 60's I remember meeting a young guy on a city bus, just though eye contact. We ended up in my bed fucking and the event finished with him breeding me. We met several times.

I restarted taking loads in the 90's, when most bottoms were were still afraid of anon loads and demanded condoms. I had taken loads in my 20's, when nobody even mentioned condoms.

I knew how a raw cock felt and how nice it felt to have a load planted in my hole, so I started posting profiles referring to bareback.

I had a profile in Gay.com under the handle "BarebackBtm" that got me a lot of action, as well as a phone service, and of course saunas.

I remember a big guy contacted me. I was then in very good shape and the idea of this unattractive guy fucking me an d breeding me, was a turn on. He came over several times and every time he fucked me he would comment on how warm my hole felt, and how nice it was to cum inside. He was comparing it with fucking with a condom on, and missing all this.

11 hours ago, anonCUMtainer said:

I would be curious to delve into what motivates a man ...to choose which hole he wants to breed.

I don't think it's easy to know exactly the reason a guy would choose one hole over another to breed.

1) Many guys get really turned on by a loaded hole. That's certainly happened to me, when I've been bred at the sauna, some guy who's been watching has jumped right after the other guy has pulled out, and added his load to the mix. 

2) A young bottom hole gets a lot of attention and many guys who normally don't top, would for a nice young hole.

3) How a bottom manages his hole: while a guy is fucking me I play close attention to what the top needs and I vary the pressure my hole puts on the cock depending on the guy's reaction. 

On 7/24/2025 at 7:28 AM, Bokkierob said:

I spend at least a couple of hours fucking ass before I cum.

This is what makes you be able to perform as a top, being horny for a long time, with an erection, but without having to cum. 

Do you sometimes pull out of an ass because you are getting too close? 

On 7/24/2025 at 7:28 AM, Bokkierob said:

After I’ve shot my first load I’ll look for a cocksucker to clean me off and suck a second load out my balls.

Do you ever keep fucking a second round of holes instead of getting sucked?

On 8/16/2025 at 8:32 PM, Bibttmmiami said:

On the rare occasion that I’m topping, I like to go balls deep and hold it there until I cum.

This is why at this time I always open up my hole because I know it's best for the top to decide how much friction he wants on his cock right after cumming. So maybe I can get a second load.

On 8/16/2025 at 8:32 PM, Bibttmmiami said:

If I’m really turned on I’ll start stroking some more until I give him a second load. 

This second load is really hot, and it doesn't happen to often. Most times the top is gone right after he shoots, which I kind of like too. 

I started getting fucked and taking loads in my early 20's, and it was very easy for me to get loads not only because I was young and in good shape, but because I was also very masculine.  In those days bottoming was seen as something for the effeminate guys, while the masculine guys were supposed to be the tops. 

I would usually walk around the place, sauna or YMCA, and guys would notice me, and follow me into my room. In those days top and bottom wasn't a thing, maybe active/passive, so once inside my room I would get them horny by letting them touch my muscles and my masculine demeanour. 

I used to feel very masculine while presenting myself as a bottom, and felt proud about it because it helped me get loads. There's something very sexy about a young masculine bottom.

This has a hot ending...after a few minutes of fucking end with cum dripping out of the bottom's hole as the top pulls out. That's when another cock should go in.

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"Pregnant by a Married Man:

This video is a bit different... a video of a guy fucking another guy in a cruising park. 

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Not sure exactly when the top unloads. At 7:12 he spits on the hole to lubricate it, and I think it's now time to unload.  At 7:20 the top proudly smiles to the crowd, but at 7:26 his smile turns to anguish as he deposits his load, without a grunt or groan. 

Before the AIDS Crisis I never heard about a condom, neither about the top and bottom identities. It was assumed that a more feminine guy would be interested in getting fucked, more that a masculine looking man. But nobody called themselves top or bottom, at least not the same extent as it is today. 

I used to go to the YMCA in New York and stay for a few days. The place was bad but the action was incredible. I had a good friend, a few years older than me, who was very open about liking to get fucked and enjoy cum. 

At the Y, there was sex 24 hours a day, and with guys from all over the US and the world. I would use all the skills that my friend had told me about getting fucked, cleaning hole, and about taking loads. 

I felt like a cumdump before I took the first load. 

2 hours ago, BarebackedBear said:

I must be in the minority. All I got from poppers was a headache.

I've never liked the smell of poppers so I've never used them, although I've heard that many bottoms use them.

But I started buying them when several times at the sauna, a guy with whom I was fooling around would ask me for poppers and would leave saying that he would be back. They would never be back!

I started buying poppers that I keep with me when I go to a park or a sauna. I never use them but when a guy asks, I have them which improves my chances of getting his load.