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I would assume that if it takes a long time for someone to shoot his load, most likely he'll be a top or at least versatile-top. Because I know that guys who cum quickly tend not to fuck for fear of cumming too quickly.

Anyone here who takes a long time to cum but who never tops?

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Do tops like sloppy well used cum dripping assholes?

I don't think that only tops like a cum-dripping hole because I know of many total-bottoms who make an exception for a freshly bred hole, especially if they'd witnessed the breeding and watched the top moan, groan, and talk dirty as he unloads in the bottom's hole.

It's live bareback porn, likely to turn guys on, including bottoms who for this one time become a top. It's happened to me many times.

12 hours ago, Cuteguy69 said:

Me my wife knew about the bathhouse and quick hook up

i end up with syphilis and hiv 

and still love me

Not all relationships are like yours and one of the reasons is that have trouble understanding the need that so many men have for anonymous sex instead of loving-sex.

Many women also want to start a family and the idea that their husband is running around having anonymous sex with strangers scares them.

I've come home from the sauna after an all nighter, sucking dozens of cocks in the gloryhole area and getting fucked and bred by several cocks. I can't imagine myself having a woman at home wanting to talk to me about "our relationship" and that the time I spend away is affecting it.

On 2/25/2022 at 4:01 AM, negcumdump88 said:

I have a girlfriend but love being a nasty cumdump & taking cocks raw. What do you guys think I should do?

I had a fuck buddy who was married to a woman and it was a huge drama when his wife knew he had Syphilis and she had to be treated too. He was on PrEP, which only protects against HIV.

If at all possible, because of STDs, to truly enjoy gay sex, it's best for men to give up sex with women. That way, one is responsible only for oneself.

4 hours ago, nastysubbbbottom said:

if it is totally anon and the bottom is aware he will take poz loads by being an "open to all" hole then the possibility is an unspoken agreement. but if the bottom is trying to show at least some hint of caution the partner is obliged to state the truth.

I have a problem with censoring any kind of fetish in anonymous sex environments because anonymous sexual environments are for experiencing fetishes that otherwise cannot be experienced.

I've read many accounts of bottoms being excited about the risks of bareback sex and the fear and the possibility of infection is part of the excitement. The risk comes from the possibility of the bottom taking poz cum from either someone who doesn't know or from someone who knows but is horny and decides to hide the truth about his status.

Before the AIDS crisis I was bottoming the way every bottom did, bareback and condoms were not even talked about. I stopped barebacking like everyone else and then once a guy I had just met in a phone-line came over, started fucking me with a condom, but without me noticing he took it off and kept fucking until he blew his load. The fuck had felt different and when the guy is about to leave, he whispers in my ear "I left a present for you". I touched my hole and it was leaking his cum and the condom lying on the floor empty.

I think it's impractical to expect guys who stealth in anonymous sex places to stop doing it because it will never change. Plus now with Meds and PrEP stealthing is not what it used to be.

If guys who are not on PrEP want to avoid HIV infection the best is to always have sex with known guys and never, ever, bareback bottom at a sauna.

I find that most public slings in saunas are not dark enough as to encourage shy horny guys to fuck the hole on the sling. I once went to a sauna that had the public sling in a really dark room and that sling was busy m.

At the sauna I prefer to rent a room with a sling so that if the guy wants he can close the door of the room and have some privacy. Otherwise he can leave it open and it becomes a public sling. 

I like to bottom but mostly with anonymous cocks and then taking anon loads. 

I enjoy feeling a cock in my hole going in and out but what drives me crazy, and is my main reason for bottoming, is to hear the guy fucking me as he reaches orgasm and dumps his load in my hole. Love hearing him moan and grunt as he unloads while I open up my hole to receive the load.

I feel a high that is emotionally equivalent to me blowing a load, but without loosing my hornyness and ready for the next anon cock and load. That’s why I bottom!

On 4/27/2022 at 2:20 PM, downtownswallow said:

Any Top that stealths a Bottom is despicable...poz or not.

I’ve said this before, but I have no objection to ANON-Stealthing because I see it at just another fetish totally OK at a sauna or sex club.  

Laws regarding stealthing are meant to protect women and guys who have sex with known partners and do not apply to ANON-Stetealthing. I doubt someone can legally claim having been stealthed at a sauna or darkroom. How do you tell the judge who stealthed you?

On 1/5/2019 at 11:38 PM, Ocelot2000 said:

The problem is gonna be getting tops I think, lol

Yes!

20 hours ago, Zeke17043 said:

nothing has happened so far.

Can you elaborate a bit on this?

There's been no action because (1) there's hardly anyone there, or  (2) There are too many bottoms looking to get bred

On 5/14/2022 at 10:09 AM, DirtyIndyDad40 said:

when I’m in a chair at a gloryhole and guys step up who don’t interest me, what is glory hole etiquette?

The only thing a cocksucker at a gloryhole should be concerned with is the cock that appears on the hole. If the cock is too small or there is something you don't like about the cock, you stop sucking so eventually the cock will move away so another cock pops through.

If you have to like the guy of the cock you wanna suck and hopefully swallow the load, as someone already said, don't bother with a gloryhole.

40 minutes ago, Dextro95 said:

I am definately a bottom that does not stop in the middle!

Once at a sauna a guy fucked me for about 30 minutes non-stop before he shot his load. My hole was fine but my legs were a bit sore.

I know that bottoms must drink lots of water, consume fiber and avoid some foods the day and hours before getting fucked. And that makes sense. but do any bottoms have a specific diet the day before and hours before a fuckfest? A diet that avoids gas and makes it easy to clean your hole.

By specific I mean, specific menu and foods.

On 3/5/2021 at 11:35 AM, LarsBlonde19 said:

I want to explain that I do not have any problem  giving myself to sex with "ugly" old men and enjoying it in an incredible way.

When I was in my 20's at the sauna I used to love hooking up with old and unattractive men. I was in great shape and I found it thrilling how much these guys would enjoy fucking me while they touched my body.

15 hours ago, Oralguya1 said:

Do tops like well fucked asses that are dripping with the cum of other guys that have already fucked it?

Not only tops. A sloppy hole is the one thing that makes some total bottoms want to fuck and breed it.

8 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Kink is subjective, you say? Thanks for the news flash.

All I was saying is that as I was watching the woman describe her horrible experience, I was getting turned-on by the kinky idea of being at a sauna on a public sling in a similar situation. By "kink" I mean a self-centered sexual encounter with anonymous people so that fetishes can be realized more freely.

I think that the biggest differences are between how men and women relate to "kink" and this poses a problem for "straight" men who do not get the good quality kink that only men know how to provide.

I have been advertising my private gloryhole in Doublelist and I like a type of guys that respond to my ad, many of them in relationships with women. They tell me that the anonymity turned them on and wanted to try a gloryhole. I avoid asking personal questions and the only thing I want to know is what their cock is like. 

So far I like Doublelist because I think they've become tough on their censorship. I've been very explicit in my latest ads and they have been approved. What I like the most is that many of the men who respond to my ad love the idea of totally anonymous action, but they would never go to a sauna or an ABS. Instead, they feel comfortable walking into an apartment and there's a gloryhole waiting for them.

I think that many men like having sex with men not because they like "men" but because they like "the way men have sex".

I watched a crime story of young woman who while in university had been raped by a Frat Boy. She only remembered one guy raping her but she was later told that there had been two other guys who had previously raped her. She also learned that someone took pictures. The woman was crying and feeling awful about those pictures circulating.

I say to myself, wait a minute. I'm sure many guys who were to remember that at a Frat-house party they last remember being pounded and bred on a sling by some Frat boy and they then learned that this will be the third load, they would probably hope that someone took a video of the breedings.

The same situation, different perspective.

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I could never define what having sex with men is like because for me there are two kinds of sex between men: (1) Anonymous sex, NSA, etc and (2) the rest of the sexual interactions, which will vary depending on the men involved. When it comes to sex role the type of sex is for me relevant.

For instance, a total bottom may occasionally top and breed a hole but only at a sauna or darkroom.  The same bottom would never, ever top in the context of a relationship. His description would be something like "total bottom but sometimes anonymously versatile".

A guy I know was on PrEP for a couple of years but, because he's now in a relationship, he doesn't get too many opportunities for anon sex and didn't make sense for him to take a daily pill. Also the Pandemic.

He sometimes goes on business trips for weeks at a time and he wants to have some anon sex while he's away. His doctor suggested he start taking PrEP a week before the first sexual encounter and take daily PrEP until, 30 days for bottoms, and 7 days for tops after the last sexual contact.

I have never heard of bottoms having to continue on PrEP longer than tops. Can anybody shed some light on this?

1 hour ago, Beardybarrowboy said:

 I’ve noticed when I was young accidents were rare if I hadn’t  douched but now I’m 48 I take no chances.

This has also been true for me in terms of cleaning before sex. When I was a younger BB bottom, when someone wanted to drop by, I was ready with a clean and lubed hole in 30 minutes.  I find that as I age cleaning my hole is taking me more time.

13 hours ago, NLbear said:

Whimpering screaming bottoms. You're a man, take it like a man!

There are other things that piss me off in porn but, a whimpering screaming bottom is one of those turn-offs that usually make me stop watching.

I want to hear the top or, some sort of kinky sex talk between the top and the bottom. Otherwise, especially as the top is getting ready to unload, I want to hear the top's breathing, grunting, moaning, or words he utters as he pumps his load in the bottom's hole.  In porn, I want the bottom to shut up because at this moment, a whimpering screaming bottom is just annoying background noise that's is interfering  with the top's hot audio.

4 hours ago, Lorenzo said:

I have been a bottom for as long as I can remember. ...

Is this an age thing? I’m confused.

Wanting to bottom or top is not in your DNA so it's normal to switch. I don't see anything confusing about getting horny with some young bottom that you want to fuck, even if you haven't fucked that much.

On 3/11/2022 at 8:24 AM, hntnhole said:

It seems most - or almost all - guys love anon sex the most. 

This is what I like best about men's attitude towards sex and the reason I like sex with men.

In my ads for my gloryhole I stress anonymity and expect no chit-chat, hellos or goodbyes, and the guys love it. Nobody accuses me of me "dehumanizing" them or treating them as "objects", as many women would.

A guy just left. Wow, so hot sucking his cock, licking his balls. He was very horny but really resisting shooting his load, so he would keep pulling out not to cum. When guys contact me I ask them if they also want to plow a hole or just oral. This guy wrote: "Never had ass sex and not too sure if I’m there yet.  Finishing with your mouth would be just fine 🙂 ".

I had told him that this is about my mouth taking care or your cock, so there was no need for hellos, chit-chat or thank yous. He came in and without saying a word, he approached the gloryhole where I took over.

He was very horny and his cock was very hard, almost ready to explode but he kept pulling out trying to avoid shooting his load. After several very enjoyable minutes I did swallow his load, he quietly zipped up, and left without saying a word, as we had agreed. I just got an email from him "Thx", so I guess I will have him back.