AirmaxUK
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Granted that's not a great experience - maybe things are different in the US, but is it not the ATM provider that imposes and profits from those fees, not the venue where it is located? Venue owners might not even realise the charges programmed into the machine as they wouldn't use it themselves. Apple Watch is my favourite tool for paying for drinks in these kinds of places - no need to carry cash in pockets that might go missing in the darker corners. I can leave my phone in a locker where it is safe and not a distraction. Many places in Europe you use your cloakroom ticket number as a tab and pay when leaving (electronic or cash).
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In the early days the apps started out being used by motivated early adopters who were into meeting. Then they became mainstream - there was suddenly a ton more choice - and people started to chase the perfect guy - and it's incredibly rare that if A thinks B is a hot ten, that B also thinks the same of A. It's a bit like when saunas get busy everyone walks around and around. Now they are really a form of soft porn. People go on them to get off on the idea of meeting, not to actually meet. Hence why people disappear suddenly or ghost once the've shot their nut. I think if you want to meet people, then go out to cruise, saunas, bars, clubs, etc.. Support the businesses or we'll lose them. Can the apps be fixed? Probably not, but a lot could be done to improve them. Some kind of uber like reward/scoring/rating system - maybe gated by having to have your smartphones in close proximity to perform the rating to prevent abuse.
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I think it is important to recognise that people on this site who are interested in VPNs are likely the use case that they are in a place that has been blocked by BreedingZone, so the aim here is to try and appear to be located somewhere different than the zones being blocked. What's important here is the exit node and where it appears to be, and if it is on any blacklists. Testing a VPN on a trip to a zone where the zone itself blocks traffic is a different use-case: you're trying to circumvent a firewall or block in the zone where you are located. What's important here is the entry node being accessible in the zone where you are located. A VPN that's good in one scenario may not be good in the other. The suggestion from @Incognito91 to have a computer at home with TeamViewer running is a good one. When I travel for work, that is my backup plan and also works if you get your stuff stolen - you can get up and running again with almost any computer.
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I see that thisvid.com have now blocked the UK too. NordVPN to the rescue!
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Add to that the video cabin cruise clubs, like Connection Shop in Fuggerstrasse - can be interesting early evening as there's an 'after work' crowd when guys go home. I've not done Jaxx - although I have tried - they said I was too old (42 at the time). Bull is always good on any day of the week (as it is open 24/7) and best after midnight. Ajpnia do a Wednesday evening - and if you're kink/fetish oriented then Bose Buben have events most days of the week with different themes. Would avoid cruising in the parks - there has been a lot of trouble lately and I can speak from personal experience of being attacked/beaten by three guys in Tiergarten on a Tuesday night. My go-to for planning is Siegessaeule Magazine - they have an English page with events that goes quite far into the future: [think before following links] https://www.siegessaeule.de/en/events/
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YMMV but I find big party weekends are full of tourist bottoms and the Berliners tend to stay away. I've had much better quality fun on non-event weekends as the ratio and odds are much more in my favour. If I am in town during a big event, then I'll go to backwater places not in the main drag. Often the end of the night is the best time to get a load. On busier weekends I've even had an early night, slept and got up early at 4am to go out and catch guys at The Bull. You do have to deal with guys who're a bit of a mess and finding guys who can still get hard is a challenge.
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So far so good with NordVPN set up with a server in Berlin, Germany. I use a Unifi router and I set up a routing policy to send all breeding.zone traffic via the berlin VPN. Everything is handled automagically and it's like nothing changed.
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Darn. That's me out then. 😆
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Funny, I was only thinking yesterday it's been a while since I saw him online, and today I saw this thread. I am glad he's okay and understand sometimes it's needed to take a break and reset. He had great taste in EDM, so I am glad his DJing is continuing. I miss his posts but I am happy if he's thriving.
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I've always had an okay time at Bunker but if you've seen an ad for a 'specialist' theme or party, be aware that they often have two or three overlapping things advertised. For instance Roadworks (worker hivis gear) overlaps with Skinheads and Smart business suits. Apart from advertising, they don't do anything much to make the events different or stand out. The videos they show in the play areas are random. This means that events are somewhat diluted. For me, its location and event timing means an overnight stay in a local hotel. This cost is hard to justify with a 'diluted' event. I would go more often if the trains home ran past midnight.
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One of the problems of dual citizenship is Tax. As I understand it from friends in this situation, if you come to the UK and get dual citizenship you'd be liable to pay *both* the IRS and HMRC tax on your income unless you relinquish US citizenship. Take advice from a professional before making a decision. The other phrase that comes to mind is 'out of the frying pan and into the fire'. Speaking as a brit, things aren't great here either. The only thing keeping me here is looking after an elderly parent. My plan for the future isn't to stay here - I'll move for sure.
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How to prepare for a cumunion party
AirmaxUK replied to bibottomforcock's topic in General Discussion
Almost everyone wants to be the cumdump that gets all the loads - it's ultra competitive - so what's your USP? Think what you can do differently that will draw men in and choose your ass over others when it's time to nut. Don't be picky and hold out for that *one* guy - odds are likely unfavourable. Be open, friendly and engage with everyone. If someone is being a nuisance, be discrete, polite and firm. Shows of prissy/queeny behaviour really turns guys off. If you can get in the headspace, try to be versatile - be willing to give some to get some. I find that goes a long way and it means there is more to go around. -
Longtime NordVPN user here and very happy. DM me for a referral code for 1-3 Months free depending on the package. Also this makes interesting reading: [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VPN_service#comparison
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I use NordVPN - it's good value for money and you can set your egress point to be in most cities in the world. I used the guide to VPN's that's in Wikipedia and rates them for privacy - Nord were pretty well rated and had a good offer if you bought 2 years up front, so I chose them, and have been using them for years. They also have specialist egress points for peer-to-peer torrent based file sharing apps as well as TOR. If anyone wants a referral code, send me a DM. As noted, when travelling abroad, BBC/ITV/etc sometimes won't work on one egress point, but Nord have loads in the UK, so pick another and I usually find one that works.
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This "survey" on NKP sums up online hookups these days:
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Twisted Fetish: Tricking bottoms into topping
AirmaxUK replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Speaking as someone who identifies as a "vers/btm" I will say that my default position is btm - but as the years go by competition is more and more intense. The vers bit is that I'd totally flip for the right guy - It's not an optimal outcome, but I'd rather that than go home unfulfilled. When guys make an effort to get you to flip - that's nice as it shows desire. What isn't a turn on is when bottoms are indifferent to the guys they want to be topped by. That seems to come with the "cumdump culture". -
I'm gonna hold you to it - you've been saying that for *ages* lol
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Twisted Fetish: Tricking bottoms into topping
AirmaxUK replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Many years ago when we had sex-ed (1980's) I remember being told that unprotected sex was like having sex with everyone that person had ever had sex with. Sadly for the teachers, that thought stuck in the wrong place of my mind.... When I go out to parties and events there always seems to be a couple of bottoms who "dominate" the scene and get all the action. My success rate is low, but I do enjoy waiting until the night is almost over and getting their load at the end of the night. That thought echoes that I'm getting a tiny peice of everyone else they fucked that night too... These days these kinds of guys are often on drugs and can't perform, so as I say success rate is low. A new strategy i'm experimenting with is using dildos and plugs with another bottom and sharing toys - I had an experience a few weeks back where a guy 'stored' the plug that was in my ass in his own ass while he bred me in the sling. He'd gotten fucked by many guys that night so it was a massive turn on when he popped it out and put it back in my ass after he'd done. -
SOP is my Sunday Afternoon/Evening pleasure. It's sleazy enough that it doesn't attract the puppy-hood and harness hoardes.
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That's pretty good going in reality
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South Buckinghamshire / Chilterns close to M40/M25, Berkshire and Oxfordshire borders.
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It's probably down to the local authority issuing the license, how closely they monitor things, and how often the venue pops up on their radar with incidents like ambulance callouts, complaints from locals, etc.
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I am aware of bar and door staff that were fired after fraternising with customers during their shift at venues in London. One venue I know has a policy of barring for life staff that are fired for misconduct. I imagine it is a legal thing where a venue with an adult encounter license might be accused of breaking the terms of the license and even running a brothel if they charge an entry fee and then allow staff 'engage' with customers. When you think about it, as an employer it'd be a legal minefield to permit staff to engage with customers in that way - liability, insurance, safeguarding, all sorts of things come to mind.
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Oh he was probably jealous
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Totally agree. Great advice. There was a big thing about consent in kink on Instagram a while ago. Lots of younger guys pointing the finger at older guys for their behaviour in darkrooms. Thing is that older guys were brought up in a world where the cruising protocol was different to how it is now. Both sides need to understand that... and there's no excuse for being rude or disrespectful as a result. That includes being a persistent pest who won't take no as an answer as well as being overtly rude to a genuine show of interest.
