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HereInLondon

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  1. That's BBC the television network, not, yknow, the other kind... http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-28264436
  2. Is this the article you're referring to? - http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4059553/ I found the jargon of the article a bit difficult to understand, but the third last and second last paragraphs of the Discussion section talk about the occurrence of high blood concentrations and reported daily adherence and looking at possible explanations for seroconversion in those instances. And overall the article is very positive about PrEP (tho the study seems to have been about heterosexual men and women).
  3. I've been using powerpoppers.com for about five years now - http://powerpoppers.com/ And my popper of choice is the label-less brown bottle, which is also their cheapest - http://powerpoppers.com/brown_bottle_poppers.shtml
  4. I saw Stranger By The Lake a few months ago, thought it captured gay cruising really well (sleazy, horny, funny, awkward, bit embarrassing, horny again), but I wasn't that keen on the rest of the film, a lot of it (especially some of the dialogue) felt quite clunky and dated (and **SPOILER** turns into Friday the 13th at the end). The two guys are lovely tho, especially the bloke with the mustache, a sort of unhinged/sexy Tom Selleck/ David Wilkie. The mate that recommended the film was telling me that the explicit shots between the two main guys were done with body doubles, and the director had originally wanted to show the two characters fucking bareback, but the body doubles refused on grounds of safety (in the workplace?), so the barebacking had to be implied thru the absence of condoms.
  5. Sanex shower gel; aqueous cream; a soak and some light fingering in a salt water bath; give your arse a bit of an airing (which is a good excuse to hang around the house naked after having a wash).
  6. I think you've answered your own query with the first line of your post; you're "exploring", you're still finding out what and who really gets you going. Regardless of what your cock was doing, did you actually enjoy the meet? And as for only getting hard when he had his cock inside you, maybe that's the thing (or one of the things) that really gets you going. Only further exploration will tell...
  7. I started PrEP last month and I'm in the similar state of mind as the original poster was (maybe still is?), trying to figure out the who and whens. When I'm fucking using condoms, I never ask about HIV status (and don't like being asked myself). I think I want the equivalent of that for when I choose to bareback whilst on PrEP. It's not that I think those discussions beforehand are useless (like it was said by Wood, those discussions can help you see clearer what someone's attitude is); it's that I'm so used to not trusting or not needing to trust what a guy says. I've got my safe sex practice and regardless of what they say, I'm sticking to that. I fuck a lot of guys, one offs and regulars, using condoms, and with the overwhelming majority of them, I'll keep on using condoms, I don't want to change the sexual dynamic with them (condoms and PrEP - the safer sex equivalent of being laminated). There's a couple of guys, however, that I think, god yeah, I'd love to fuck about bare with you (although I've yet to broach the matter with any of them). And there's a few situations I can think of (fueled by my own imagination and by the fiction sections of this site) that I'd love to explore. Feels like it's all about re-negotiating that balance between pleasure and risk and finding what suits. Maybe my practice and rules will have to be a bit more fluid (pun intended). I've probably gone a little off-topic, but this is my first post since registering and I've got a fair amount bouncing round my head (I doubt I've managed to catch it all). It's helped a lot to actually type this post and put it out there (even and especially to be questioned and challenged). This site has been incredibly helpful, thanks.
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