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I've always held that there is a massive difference between two people who are in a loving relationship together, and two people who are simply stuffing body parts into one another. You have your relationship and your love, and that isn't going away - but can enjoy the random, meaningless sex too.... Great! I'd guess that after fucking a FB for so long, you're starting to feel a little off-put by it's regularity. Perhaps it almost feels like you're blurring the FB/relationship distinction if it goes on too long. I don't think that this is weird at all. You're just keeping the random, meaningless fucks... well, random and meaningless!!
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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
Btm! replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
ha ha - you dirty bottoms! I think the original poster was talking about the guys who ask not to have spunk shot in their arses, and want guys to pull out to cum! Seems like an unheard-of concept for most of the guys here! Example - if you were fucking me, and I said raw was OK but please just pull out when you cum... who would pull out, and who would just spunk me anyway? -
So if you know that you're not ready but cannot stop thinking about it, then why not just enjoy the fantasy without the consequence. There must be plenty of neg guys who would love to fuck you senseless - and raw - while in your head you can imagine any scenario you like. I know that isn't every going to be 100% safe, but you can at least remain somewhat sensible and have fun too, without doing something you're not sure of. Far too many guys (it seems to me) try to push themselves further than they're ready to go and end up either backing out and messing people about, or living with consequences and becoming ill and massively regretting it. You're still very young - just enjoy the fantasy and have fun while you figure out how far you really genuienly are willing to take things.. Enjoy!
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So don't do it. Stick to what is purely fun for you - there is plenty of fun to be had without compromising yourself and what you really want!
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Talk to your GP, explain briefly that there's a slight chance you may have been exposed. He will know what to do - if anything - to help minimize the already minimal risk you've exposed yourself to. Then get tested, chalk it up to experience and realise that you need to either acknowledge your personal responsibilites and accept the risk you took by barebacking, or (and this is probably the better option for you) just play safe in future! Don't fret, don't blame - just be pro-active and talk to a doctor... Good luck!
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what an evil, depraved story!
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Wanting to bareback, but afraid of the consequences.
Btm! replied to a topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Such a common problem. There's a desire, but then the very real consequenses. Maybe random hook-ups and being fucked unsafe by a bunch of random guys isn't for you. Maybe this is something you need to enjoy in a relationship instead. Sex should be fun and satisfaction - good sex has nothing to do with fear, panic, regret and unwanted consequences. My advice is to just enjoy it as a fantasy - watch the bareback porn, read the stories, masterbate.. have safe sex but imagine you're being bred - until you can find a relationship where you can both be raw cum lovers in a safe environment. -
Very nice! Big thick head!
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Seems a bit odd, but - just a suggestion - could it be a poz/neg thing? Maybe he was only hoping to play bare with lads who are the same status as him?
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does breed always mean poz load or just dump a load
Btm! replied to barefootbob's topic in General Discussion
Mean "cum inside", but I know some guys do use it to mean "poz up" - so don't take anything for granted. Guys use it in both contexts... But you're right, it doesn't necessarily mean poz. -
I've had a broken condom where I've kind of rushed to put it on, & I guess air has become trapped in the tip. I've also heard - but not experienced - that using vaseline as lube is not a good thing for condoms (personally my favourite is (9X6 lube - no stains on fabrics, no smell & very slick). I also like your attitude. It can be fun to hear about barebackers'/breeders etc and share their experiences, but you also need the sense to know what's right for you. Fantasy doesn't necessarily have to become a reality.
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Then don't do it. Cum drinking is for cum whores, not horny bottom lads who are trying to force themselves to like it. Try and encourage your partners to spunk elsewhere
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I did this myself in Berlin a couple of weeks ago. Intense isn't the word. You're SO disorientated and I ended up centre of a bit of a free-for-all which got kind of aggressive. I loved it all, but it sure does take it out of you! Oh, and the staff are great!
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Anybody going this year (10 year anniversary)? Or been before? If you've already been, I'd like to hear your experiences...
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partners in crime aimed at expanding limits
Btm! replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
You need a pimp! Give him your driving license or something commital when you're really horny, with the binding agreement that you can only get it back when you've done whatever task he sets for you. Let yourself be owned until you're uninhibited enough to really go for what you want yourself regardless. Don't let yourself back out - make sure you're gonna do whatever you've agreed to, so you don't succumb to last minute doubts or whatever. -
How many tops have fucked without even seeing the bottoms dick?
Btm! replied to bnabottom's topic in General Discussion
There are some hot attitudes on here, lads. I love tops like this. That's the very definition of "using" a bottom! -
Are there other bottoms that like bare but not wanting pozzed?
Btm! replied to Dex's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Of course! There must be millions! Raw sex with always feel more sensitive, intimate and better!! However - I'm not making any kind of judgement here - actually *wanting* HIV is still a pretty extreme niché. If there was a way to play raw with no risk, then EVERYBODY would, right!? -
i've had a condom accidently break inside me (genuinely wasn't on purpose though), and in the midst of some frantic hard fucking - it is very difficult to tell a slight subtle difference in texture from the inside! I wasn't even sure that there was any cum in me until much, much later. If it's deep enough, you don't always feel anything straight away
