KindaBasic

On 5/1/2022 at 5:10 PM, Karl8181 said:

There seems to be a lot of confusion on dating apps who  is top and who is versatile (top/bttm) and expectations in the sack.. 

 

Just out of curiosity are there ‘invisible rules of which nationality or type of person  in your opinion do you accept to be versatile and which type of person and nationality you accept or expect to be top? 

 

Have fun with this one 

 

Karl 😀

It’s funny that you bring this up. One-on-one I am pretty much bottom. But in a bath house or similar situation I usually go into hyper top mode. That said, whatever the scenario, I tend to turn into a complete bottom around sexy Latinos 

Yes 

Fuck’n hot ass there

On 4/21/2022 at 1:58 PM, HAIRYCUM31 said:

yeah - dm me before you cum I'll give you more details

Is jockstrap night always the first Wednesday? I’ve only been to there once and that was before Covid shutdowns.  
 

Never heard of it before. 

What turns you on turns you on. 

On 12/23/2021 at 10:11 AM, Bruce999 said:

The Scum parties are still on. They have Saturday & Monday parties on West 47st or in Brooklyn 

Not familiar with this. 

Sounds hot. 

On 10/3/2021 at 1:33 PM, jackanape1970 said:

The dark room was closed when I was there a couple weeks ago. I hope it has been reopened.

The big balcony is wide open, like me ☺️

I’ve never heard of it. Where is it?

On 10/3/2021 at 4:13 PM, Ftmcumdump said:

Heyo🙋🏻‍♂️

Yum

That ass! Would happily drop a load there. 
 

Sweet post

On 9/6/2021 at 6:59 PM, Goldneye007 said:

ESC can be a fun place.

Usually weekends are the best, probably from midnight to about 6-7 AM and crowd will be a bit younger then.  During the week is hit or miss, but from about 4 to 8 PM gets the most, with an older and after work, crowd.

I’ve been there a couple of times on Friday after 3-4 p.m. and found it a mixed crew. 

Yum!

On 8/31/2021 at 1:36 PM, Negbtm4toplondon said:

muscleseancabana I'm in London but I love your pics and you are handsome. Neg hole here

Sweet pic

Sounds like a lot of fun. 

Will be in NYC Friday (9/19/2021). Always up for fun. Usually get to the city a couple times a months. 

Very sexy

On 7/10/2020 at 3:15 PM, LongIslandRawBttm said:

Married, DL, dirty. Looking for someone to use me. Pound me. Fill me. 

 

Can play today, select other afternoons/evenings/mornings. 

Nice! Where you by?

Dang! I had no idea we were supposed to keep track. 

“It’s complicated” or “I’m in an open relationship, but my partner doesn’t know” 

On 2/26/2019 at 8:13 AM, coastalbender said:

Has anyone else come across tops (including versatiles) on hookup sites with profiles that say "condom" or "condom only", but when you offer them the chance of taking your ass bare, are extremely eager--then follow through by seeding a load into you?

It seems to be very common.

You have basically described 2/3 or more of the “straight” married guys on A4A and MH. 

On 3/10/2019 at 8:34 PM, ErosWired said:

Wait a sec before you answer - I know there will be plenty of responses along the lines of “I’m a filthy sex pig and love it” or “The piggier the better” or even just “OINK!”, but take a moment to reflect on the question.

I’m a cumdump, and I actually believe, for better or worse, that if a Man says he wants to fuck my ass, that he is entitled to do so. I have experienced a lot - a lot - of depraved, debauched, demeaning, debasing sex at the hands of some very twisted men. But I do not think of myself as a pig, and I never will.

”Pig” connotes something dirty (see also: Pigs and Mud), something unthinking, something less than human, something dishonorable. Yet in the context of male-male sex, it is adopted by some to mean a type of masculine play that revels in extremity, and some even wear it asva badge of honor.

What say you? If you fly the Pig flag, why do you do so when “pig” can suggest so much more than bacon?

mmmm... bacon.

I am never quite sure what people mean when they are a pig or ask me if I am. Honestly, I really have no idea what people mean when they ask if I’m into pig sex. I don’t think most people have a clue either. It seems everyone has their own idea of what it is. 

Depends more on the guy. One of my regular tops is in his early 50s and tends to shoot 2-3 huge loads. He’s got a sizable piece too, and leaves me sore, gaping, dripping, as well as extremely spent and satisfied. Unfortunately he’s always on the road for work and has a wife. 

On 7/4/2021 at 8:59 AM, BBOTTOMNASH said:

Craigslist

Me too.