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  1. On 10/19/2020 at 2:34 PM, LetsPOZBreed said:

    I'll echo @BootmanLA here.  It's not submission in this case.  If you didn't think this is a problem, you wouldn't be posing the question here.  Couple of thoughts from me:

    If this isn't really a problem, then you should have enough of a dialogue with your master for him to know that you're actually okay with him coming over with a freshly fucked dick.  If you're actually turned on by this practice, I would think your master would be absolutely aching to tell you about him just having fucked another bottom right before you. 

    There is a clear distinction between true submission and being outright used.   Being a true submissive to your master requires an open dialogue at the beginning over limits, both yours and his.  None of us is truly ever "no limits", but the best D/s relationships have a clear understanding of just how far each other can go with one another.  By not being honest about his fucking a sub before you, it takes away your ability to give informed consent to being put into that situation.  

    The best Dom/sub (or Master/slave) relationships are built on the foundation of mutual respect.  Your willingness to be a submissive should not override your ability to know your limits and insist on them.  The best Doms and Masters know this, and are much more open to having this dialogue than one might suspect.

    I know this sounds easier said than done, but I'm speaking as a voice of experience.  The fact that he's your first makes this a difficult thought process, and I fully recognise that.  You just need to also fully recognise and grow into your own sexual being.  If that's being a total sub, it's knowing how to do that on your terms - which I know sounds counterintuitive.  Hopefully you can find the best way forward and everything works out, but you can't stay in a situation that makes you unhappy.

    Thank you for your Advice. I'm very ok with sucking him after he fucked.    We talked about it and he made me understand that it makes him happy ànd I want to keep him happy

  2. On 10/16/2020 at 10:17 PM, BootmanLA said:

    What that tells me is that you're not naturally submissive; you're naturally anti-confrontational.

    A truly submissive person knows he has a choice, and chooses to submit.

    Someone non-confrontational pretends he has no choice so that he avoids confrontation.

    Id like to think I'm naturally submissive to him

  3. On 10/17/2020 at 12:13 AM, BootmanLA said:

    You may want to think long and hard about that.

    Right now, supposedly, he's undetectable. You can't be 100% certain that he'd tell you if that changed. I'm not suggesting he's not trustworthy; I'm saying that ANY man might turn out to be not trustworthy, and right now, if you're having unprotected sex with him, it's only safe as long as he stays in that condition.

    What if he decides it would be hot to see you become poz, and he stops taking his meds for six months, but keeps breeding you?

    What if he develops a resistance to the meds he's on, and doesn't find out about it until months later, when he goes in for a check up and he learns he's now very much detectable?

    I do agree that keeping you off PrEP is his way of controlling you. But I don't think that's a particularly healthy way to do it. You're the one bearing 100% of the risk if he decides to become detectable, if he becomes detectable without his awareness, if you slip up and succumb to temptation, or whatever. And he's restricting you from doing the ONE thing that could protect YOUR health. If I were in your shoes, that would be a dealbreaker for me.

    Wow that's awesome advise.     It's a lot to think about.   He fucks a lot of boy's and always raw.  .. if I get on prep will be be able to notice

  4. On 10/14/2020 at 10:35 PM, BootmanLA said:

    "normal" is the most useless word I can think of to describe human behavior in cases like this.

    You have choices:

    1. Ask him to shower/clean up after sex with others so that your time with him is free of reminders of other men. If you don't, you can

    2. Accept that this is how he treats his partners, and cope with it, or

    3. Break up with him.

    Wondering if it's "normal" is a stupid, pointless waste of time. It doesn't matter if that's what 99.99% of other couples do, or if he's the only one. It's what you two do, and what you accept from each other, that matters. Period.

    Thanks for your advice.   Alpha Daddy men are just too dominant naturally it's hard to tell him to stop lol.  I'm just naturally submissive to him.   I guess I have no choice if I love him

  5. 17 hours ago, drscorpio said:

    Why are you talking to us about it? Talk to your daddy.

    I am sure he knows other men will want you. Tell him you are being pursued, and ask him what he expects of you. If you haven't done anything yet that he has told you not to do, then he has no reason to be upset with you. If you cannot talk to him honestly about things, there are problems with your relationship. 

    I suspect from the way you talked about not being on PrEP that you are worried that he will tell you to put out for this other top. I think you (and @Doccer19677) are probably right to think he might. Lots of dom guys want their bottoms to be cumdumps. If that makes you uncomfortable, then you need to talk to him about that. If he wants you to take risks that you are not comfortable with, there are problems in your relationship. 

     He has been specific about me only being his.   I'm ok with that he specifically said that he doesn't want me on prep   I'm neg and he's poz undetectable   he told me he doesn't want me on any pills. I'm ok with that bc I think he believes that if I was on prep I'd be putting out.   It's his way of keeping me in line for him.  At least that's what I thought.   He said he'd only let me get fucked if he was there and approved it

  6. 2 hours ago, Doccer19677 said:

    I’d suggest you bend over and take his cock. You can then go home and your partner won’t need lube to fuck you. He will find it hot. 

    I'm afraid he'll get jelous.     Am on the fence about this I'm not on prep as requested by my daddy  so I'm nervous 

  7. I was working out at the gym the other day and this masculine top daddy Black guy started chatting with me.   I think he noticed that I was a beta sub bottom boy because he immediately started to tell me that I was cute and asked if I was single.  I said no and that I was loyal to my top daddy breeder and that I don't want to cheat but he has been been very persistent to the point where I feel submissive and seduced by him.  I feel weak around his presence.   Is that normal.    I don't know what to do

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  8. So I have a question for you top daddies and bottom boy's.   Is it normal for a top daddy to have sex with another sub bottom boy and then come home to you and act like he was running errands and then when it's time to be intimate he makes you suck his dick and it smells like he just got done fuckn and breeding another ass.?  I had my top daddy call me the other day saying that he wanted to hang out with me, so I went to his house and when we were in bed and I was sucking him I could taste fresh cum and the smells of another ass.    He's a total alpha Daddy 30 yrs my senior.    I'm loyal to him since he took my virginity but I know he or has his boys, rightfully so but is it normal for him to come to me and still be horny and make love to me and taste other bottoms ass.   I don't play around with anyone else but him for the last 15 years.  I love him and he knows that but he fucks around and is always horny so I can't expect him to not fuck around but he has been smelling like fresh cum and ass everytime I sucked him.    I'm just curious

  9. My first cock to experience was a uncut cock I just sucked him. It was good but I never been fucked by a uncut cock.   The first man to take my virginity was an older man in his 50s.  I was 19 and he was cut. Ever since then I have never had any other dick it's always been daddy mike with his cut 8.5 inch.   So I wouldn't know the difference but as far as sucking an uncut.   I'll say its different but juicy

  10. Never been fucked. But let a local top daddy black man near me on Adam and I eventually built up the courage to go to his house.    He was naked and I stroked his cock and sucked it a few hours times. Then I got nervous and left.  I don't want my reg top daddy to find out bc he'.dont like sharing me.  But I'm thinking about going behind his back and fulfilling my cravings

  11. On 2/7/2020 at 11:52 PM, TotalPig said:

    Yes you need to be on PREP everyday if having unprotected sex with a poz man.  He may say he us undetectable but he may not really be at any given time. Don’t be stupid and protect yourself

    I trust him.   We've been intimate for like 15 years.      Do u think he'd still lie?     

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