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I enjoy my nipples being tweaked, pinched, nibbled and am disappointed when guys just lightly brush or lick them softly. A tiny bit of pain works wonders.

Arrived at the cruise club, stripped off and entered the cruise area. I was immediately pulled aside by a Latino guy with tattoos and we slipped into a room. After he had sucked me  he had me lie on my back as he plowed my ass,. A good start to the afternoon.

i headed down the corridor where a short sexy young Asian guy, saw my hard cock, grabbed me and guided me into the dark room. He was lubed up and had me fuck him raw for 10 minutes surrounded by other guys. &nbsp

I washed my still hard cock in the bathroom and noticed the guy at the next sink also washing  but then relubing his asshole with a small bottle he’d brought. Obviously looking to bottom. He was hot and covered with traditional tattoos on his arms, legs and torso. I headed back down the corridor but stopped by an empty room with a fuck chair expecting that he’d head along there in a minute. Sure enough, 30 seconds later he headed along and stopped by me staring at my cock. We hustled into the room which had an angled barber’ chair to sit back in. After sucking me he mounted the chair face down and I fucked him doggy. After a while we paused, he cleaned my cock in his mouth, then laid on his back and I fucked him a while longer. He was very complimentary about the girth of my cock and its “flaired shape” (his words ) starting thin and widening towards the base.

i spent some time watching groups of guys fucking in a big room with a large king zipped bed. When they left one guy stayed, he’d been eyeing me up for a while. He asked if I was bottom, told him I am versatile which he turned out to be as well. So after he’d fucked me for a while with his thick cock we flipped and I fucked him too.

I remember when I was 11 in the changing rooms at the school swimming pool being the last to leave in the class but one guy. He was Indian and had jet black skin and I was fascinated to look at his naked body. I was wondering if some parts of his skin, like a bikini line or his cock, might be white. (They weren’t.)

When I was at high school, all boys, I was always terrified of changing for swim class as I was afraid I’d get a hard on. I never did but the fear remained that it would reveal I was queer.

Later in my 20s at university I visited the basement bathrooms which had both toilets and, in enclosed locked cubicles, showers. I was thinking of cruising and on a whim took a shower even though I had no towel and didn’t need a wash. I had noticed the adjacent shower continuing for an unrealistic time and my instincts were right as I ended up sucking and being sucked under the partitions.

My best bathhouse visit for quite a while.

I arrived about 11.45am and headed for the steam room. I was sitting alone in the steam with a semi when a guy entered and sat down. It is a large room with limited visibility with the steam and typically a second guy will go to the opposite side and sit down but he sat near me. A good sign. So I took my cue and reached over and touched his thigh. No flinching, a green light. He was soft with big balls and a growing cut cock. I leaned over and put my lips on what was clearly going to be a big thick cock. Soon he was hard and I was enjoying a good mouthful which in turn was making me rock hard. He was jerking me and licking my nipples when another guy entered the steam room and stood next to us. He had a big thick cock quite like the first guy. The first guy turned his attention to him and began sucking the new guy while I sucked him. Then the new guy started sucking the other guy, at first seemed like I was going to be cock blocked. I stood up and the second guy stopped sucking and moved to work my cock with hands and mouth. He was bent over so I touched his ass and he didn’t flinch but encouraged me. I started rimming him, pushing my tongue in his hole. I then stroked my cock and pushed it against his asshole and then in. It wasn’t easy without lube but the dampness and my saliva helped. I fucked away while he kept sucking but after a while the first guy left. With all the heat I suggested we move out of the steam to a room and I followed him upstairs where we found a room. He stopped me closing the door and I continued fucking him when the first guy rejoined us.

i left the bathhouse for a quick bite to eat and on return used the  hot tub before trying the steam room again. I sat next to a young Asian guy, just my type. Slim, smooth with a very hard cock I started playing with while he played with my cock. I thought we’d be fucking before long but noticed that he seemed to be jerking a guy on the other side. The visibility wasn’t good with the steam when I realised he was actually fisting the guy on the other side. Ambidextrous and enjoying himself so it was disappointing when he came and left.

after that frustration I headed upstairs to a semi darkroom with a fuck bench and was pleased to be joined by another fit young Asian guy. I cupped his cock through his towel and slipped to my knees to suck him. He dropped his towel and I found a completely smooth shaved semi and balls and started working with my tongue and mouth soon had his long but thick cock rock hard. I bent over the fuck bench and he needed no second invitation and he slid his cock in and started pounding away. He was fucking for quite a while and a friend joined him who was reaching under to play with my balls. He said to his friend that I was a great fuck before he came in my ass. I didn’t change position as his friend switched places to fuck my newly creamed asshole. His cock was a loser exactly the same dimensions although I never say his young friend. After that an older guy with a thicker, but softer, cock stepped up to continue fucking me.

afterwards I headed to the gloryhole booths. A guy in next booth sucked me the positioned his asshole for me to fuck him which I duly did for a while. I signalled for him to join me in the booth and soon I was joined by a tall Joubert guy with tattoos. I had a better position to fuck him standing in the booth. I then asked if he wanted to fuck me, he did so we flipped several times till we were both exhausted.

Headed off at 3pm, an excellent three hours at the bathhouse.

I went to the local gay bathhouse. Last time I was there I had spent 20 minutes rimming a guy in the steam room with several guys watching followed later bottoming for a guy with a rock hard and thick cock. It’s funny how much more painful a rock hard cock is, no give or sponginess, just really solid.

this time at the sauna I sucked a guy in the steam room and then sucked another guy, with most of his torso tattooed, but otherwise it was looking likely to be a washout. I lay down on my front with my ass upward in a room with an open door. This was not a very successful technique at this bathhouse generally so I planned just to rest then take a shower and leave. I was pretty pleased therefore when a guy came into the room, climbed up on the bed, lay on top of me and pushed his hard cock into my ass. I never saw who it was and he pumped away for 10 minutes or so. He left the door open and I was aware of another guy watching who then reached beneath me to massage my balls and cock. Made for a fun session.

I had the same gay man doctor for 30 years before he retired. I first met him at a gay support group when I was coming out. I was always fully candid with him which was essential for various STIs and getting on PrEP. Occasionally I spoke to him about my partner’s behaviour. When he retired he arranged for a young gay doctor, who had occasionally acted as locum for him, to take over the practice. So he’s been my doctor for several years now including getting on DoxyPEP.
I feel fortunate both having a gay doctor and someone I know and trust. I don’t think I’d have had a problem with other local doctors or a woman doctor but it’s particularly good to have someone who knows exactly where I’m coming from. Also because the practice many other gay patients and both doctors have been active in HIV support work he’s right up to date on new protocols relevant to gay treatments etc.

It has been interesting to hear of others’ experiences, internationally, reminds me that I feel fortunate living in an urban environment in a gay friendly country and where I can choose my own doctor. I recall living for 2 years in the UK and telling my assigned doctor I was homosexual in order to be eligible to get a hepatitis vaccination. Later I was referred to a specialist at a local hospital regarding a simple skin condition (turned out to be psoriasis). The first thing the specialist said to me, no small talk, was “oh, your doctor tells me you’re homosexual “. It didn’t really endear me to either English doctor.

I’ve only done it once, a few months back. It was with a buddy who frequently spent the night in my bed but who was ambivalent about fucking and sometimes I made do just with sucking. Sucking is usually just a warm up for me but to satisfy him I would get him to cum in my mouth. I usually swallowed but once I had a sudden inspiration to surprise him with a passionate kiss with a cum filled mouth. I enjoyed his reaction but he clearly wasn’t into eating his own cum so I didn’t do it again.

I can think of several occasions off hand, and remembering them makes me hard. All were in foreign countries, perhaps I’m more uninhibited there or the other guys were. The first two were travelling in the States on my first big trip when I was in my 20s. One was in a DC restaurant where space was limited and I had to share a table, after chatting I checked out of my hostel to stay in the older guy’s bed. The other was after leaving a dance in a NYC community centre. About 50m  up the road a guy had followed me from the dance and started talking. Foreshadowing the slut I was to become I checked out of my sleazy hotel to stay in his bed. This was the height of AIDS and he explained in bed that he picked up young guys new to the city, usually at Port Authority as his way to keep safe. An interesting plan. I spent the next two years in Europe. I recall a guy in an art gallery in Germany eyeing me up and we slipped into the toilets to make out.

Much more recently in Hong Kong I was walking alone along a shopping street in Kowloon and my eyes met those of a Chinese man. We did the classic of slowing and checking each other out reflected in a shop window. Without a word - he didn’t speak English - I followed him up and down alleyways, through shopping centres, looking for a place to fuck. Remarkably it took 15 minutes but neither of us flagged. Eventually we found public toilets and, still wordlessly, fucked.

Good question, I have fucked with thousands of guys but I topped as much as bottomed and when I limit it to those that came in me the number drops again. Plus until I went on PrEP about 7 years ago I think, I used condoms. I’ve been taking about 30-60 loads each year in recent years but some of those will be from the same guys. So I’ll estimate around 200.

Hooked up on BBRTS with a pal who’d fucked me previously a few times at group sessions but not for a couple of years. He asked if I was into toilet sex which I clarified with him was fucking at the restrooms at a shopping centre near him. I hadn’t done that for some years but was up for it and drove across town to the shops. I had to get there by a certain time as he was bisexual and needed to sneak away from his wife. I messaged him when I arrived at the carpark and he said he’d be there in 5 minutes. I was unsure which restrooms to go to but recognised him and followed him into the restroom and the cubicle. I pulled down my pants and applied some lube. I noticed he wasn’t fully hard so sucked his cock. I bent over but first handed him my phone set up to video. He started pushing in the head of his cock then all the way in and started pumping. The rest room, which wasn’t all that large, had a squeaky door and what had been quiet when we arrived seemed to have a constant stream of people coming and going. I was sure they must have heard the slapping of his balls and body against my ass although otherwise we kept quiet, no moaning. He didn’t stop or slow down. I also was sure our shadows or extra feet under the doors were a giveaway but he seemed unconcerned, this was his local hookup spot. He came in my ass and then we carefully left made more tricky by the fact that the cleaner had arrived. Afterwards he messaged me to say he’d “forgotten how hot your tight hole is and fuck I was horny”. He explained he’d not cum for several weeks and so I’d got “one big mother load”.

I too have fucked or been fucked of guys of all manner of ethnicities and will continue to do so. However, I noticed a few years ago that I had, quite unconsciously at that time, been gravitating towards Asian men. Since I realised that I have tended to consciously seek out Asian guys on the apps and  by the choice of some of the cities I visit for sex. I still fuck with other guys whenever the opportunity arises but I always gravitate back. Some of my Asian friends have nicknames for me like rice queen or say that I have yellow fever. All that said I still fantasise about sex with black guys and Latino guys but I have very little opportunity. I don’t see my preference as a fetish and I don’t mention it on app profiles as I wouldn’t want guys to see it as either exclusionary or a fetish. I might add that Asian is a very broad category and there are lots of variations between ethnicities, regions and countries and I enjoy the diversity enormously.

I joined BZ 7 years ago when I decided to go on PrEP and only fuck raw. I’ve learned so much on the forums and have enjoyed sharing dome of my own adventures. So thanks for creating this space and happy birthday!

I lost two fuckbuddies in the last year but in quite different ways. One guy, who I had got to know very well stopped having sex with me regularly because we had become good friends. Go figure. The other guy I made an innocent remark which he took very badly indeed. I had postponed a hookup and said casually that he had a very tight asshole. He accused me of treating him like a piece of meat. I apologised and genuinely hated that I had made him feel so bad but there was no prospect of any more sex.

I have a few fuckbuddies in other cities and countries who I couldn’t count in the survey as I haven’t had sex with them in 6 months. Some I don’t get to see for a year or two at a time but I know are still hot for a fuck when I get into town. It’s great when you remember a hot fuck from 2 years ago and you hook up again and it’s even better this time.

i wasn’t quite sure whether to count as a fuck buddy a guy I have fucked 4 or 5 times over a few years at the cruise club when we happen both to be there. I left him off my list as it seemed so random but it seemed like a borderline case.

Yesterday I filled in a survey for a local HIV/Aids organisation and it got me thinking: what is a fuckbuddy and how many do I have?

The polling question I’ve asked is much the same as the one in the survey which required me to think about the guys I’d fucked and to categorise them. The survey question asked about “regular male sex partners” which they described as ‘long term partners, friends you have sex with and fuckbuddies’. In other words, your long term partner isn’t your fuckbuddy and nor is your friend.

I’ve both gained and lost fuck buddies in the recent past and I’m interested in how others count someone in or out of the category. I’ve wanted to build up my group of fuckbuddies as it is such hard work starting from scratch each time on the apps - how many fuckbuddies do others manage to have?

I had a mainland Chinese buddy who used to call it a rooster. I was never sure if he was being cute, using the local term or just using a translation app.

My young Japanese friend has been staying with me for weeks and has a few more weeks to go before he flies back to Tokyo. We sleep together in my bed. Over the last couple of weeks he’s been wearing his clothes to bed which I don’t like (I always sleep naked). The clothes made it difficult to casually initiate sex though I still managed it but he had to remove sweatshirt, long trousers and still had to get underwear out of the way. Finally I told him two days ago I didn’t want him wearing clothes in bed and offered him a laundered nightshirt. He complied but didn’t bother with the nightshirt but just came to bed naked but for underpants. I could have done without the underpants but can’t complain, it is major progress. He’s quite shy and so we tend to have sex between about 4am and 7am each night when he casually implies he’s up for it by throwing a leg over me or in some way reciprocating my sexual nudges. Although I’ve fucked him a number of times and he’s a self-declared bottom on Grindr he nearly always tops. He’s made it clear my cock is too thick for him (whereas I know it’ll fit) - yesterday when we were out walking he pointed out a piece of fruit he couldn’t get his hand around and said ‘just like your cock’. So the last 2 nights I’ve caressed his hard little cock, pushed the dog to the bottom of the bed and started sucking. I then straddle him and take his cock in my hole using only spit as lube. After 10 minutes of riding his cock I crouch down on the bed for him to do me doggy style. Took his load deep inside for the last two nights and hopefully more to come.

I’m letting a young Japanese friend stay at my place for two months till he returns to Japan when his 1 year visa expires. I met him through Grindr 10 months ago within a day of him arriving in the country. Within 24 hours he’d bred me three times so I’ve been pleased to have him as a fuck buddy over the year. He was 24 years old when I met him, shy and with limited English and I felt a kind of fatherly concern for him and helped him to find a place to live and a job and helped him to enjoy himself in a strange land. It has been great to see him grow in confidence, improve his English and find friends and a succession of boyfriends. It is sad to see his time coming to an end. In these final weeks we’re sharing a bed again which is nice. He has what he calls a boyfriend but I’d characterise more as a friend with benefits, so he slips off to him occasionally, can’t really call him a fuckbuddy as I understand they don’t fuck). He struggles to take my BWC so I only get to top him occasionally (I wish he’d let me teach him to take a thick cock more willingly, it would be a handy skill to return to Japan with) and I mainly suck and rim him then let him fuck me. He’s bred me a couple times in last few days.

I just had my first visit to Phuket having previously been to Bangkok a dozen times and once each to Chiang Rai, Chiang Mai and Pattaya.

I stayed at  Kamala Beach one night and the other 7 nights at Patong. Although I fucked every day I think it was a mistake tourism-wise to have stayed at Patong so long, I found Phuket town much more interesting but it was a 30+ minute hair-raising motorcycle taxi ride away.

Sex wise it was easy to find fucks in Patong. Although I had much the same experience in Bangkok. I used Grindr and Hornet with equal luck on both. BBRTS didn’t yield anything. Most guys did bareback. One guy who insisted I on a condom was happy to bareback a second time we hooked up without even raising the topic. 

I didn’t want to pay for sex. This was a problem in Patong especially as my hotel was in the heart of the gay area which mainly involved sex-for-pay whether on the apps or at massage parlours, clubs or bars. I tried to screen out money boys with a ‘no MB’ on my app but it was a constant battle to the satisfaction of neither party. I was happy to pay token travel money in a few cases. Guys looking for paid sex will have a good time in Patong but it is back to Bangkok for me next time.

On Phuket I stayed at the huge Royal Paradise Hotel in the tower block. No key card was required for the lift so could get guys up to the room no fuss. Most local Thai seem reluctant to come directly to the room and I met outside although one breezed in. Probably different for money boys (I wasn’t paying) who may have more confidence. The hotel room could have been used for an anonymous-type hook up although I just used it for regular hookups. 

Just missed you, arrived later in March.

On holiday in a beachside city. Had been bred previous evening in a hotel in a nearby beach but had just checked into the hotel I was to spend a week of vacation. Checked Grindr and was contacted by a guy who sent multiple photos leaving no doubt he was into barebacking. He was local, not a tourist, and mentioned he had a shop nearby where he sold beachwear and sexy underwear and fashionable clothes. While he was happy to come to my hotel suite I had a fantasy of fucking in the shop and he was obliging. Five minutes later I was walking into his shop, a customer left and he locked the door and put up the closed sign. My fantasy would have had us fuck near the picture window but reality, almost as good, had us climb stairs to his living quarters. When we chatted he mentioned he had previously had staff working on this level but moved them elsewhere so that he could more easily hook up with guys there. A slut after my own heart putting ass before profit. He had a practised routine and a special mattress close to hand was quickly in place on the floor and after some hot kissing and sucking I was soon on my back naked having my ass stretched before taking a big load. Took several videos as holiday souvenirs.

After a long flight arrived at my Phuket hotel about 9pm. Had a guy off Grindr there in 30 minutes breeding my hole. That should help with the jet lag.

I wish more tops would tell me specifically how they perceive my asshole when they’re fucking me as when they do it gives me a real buzz that is better than the encouragement I get from an ‘oh, yes’, ‘fuck that’s good’ or whatever. I don’t know why it’s good to hear it but know I’ve liked hearing it’s warm, tight or, yesterday, that it’s smooth.

Sometimes, I’ll squeeze on the inward thrust and am not always sure how the top perceives or appreciates this if they don’t say - years ago I assumed guys would like it until a guy with an especially large cock told me to stop as it was making me too tight (having a thick cock myself I came better to understand this in later years). So I sometimes ask tops whether they like this but often don’t hear what they reply if they reply at all, as they’re often in a kind of focused trance.

when I top I know I perceive guys’ holes differently. But I think it has to do as much with my own mood and hardness. I’ve become a little wary of telling bottoms after a bad experience with one fuck buddy when I messaged him to postpone a hookup as I would not be hard enough for his tight hole as I’d just come. The message was meant kindly, and I know of other guys being pleased to be told their hole is tight, but he described me as treating his body like a piece of meat. I admit my communication skills in email often come over as a bit cold but I was really upset that I had caused such offence at such a description (standing him up also annoyed him, but that was why I was messaging him in advance, but in the end I think I realised I had been a bit of a jerk).

These examples of hook ups that are set up then ghosted are so depressingly familiar. They drive me off the apps for a time, although I always go back. I’ve enjoyed reading these posts as these always leaves me wondering about the motivations (and vowing to be less gullible). Since we are unlikely to hear directly from these losers (or not believe them), perhaps some buddy of a serial time-wasting ghoster will reveal what’s going on some day!

I remember hunting through Penthouse magazines, and H&E nudist mags, at a secondhand bookstore when I was about 16 looking for pictures of cocks. I’d only buy the Penthouse magazines, and I got quite a stash, as I could pass them off as straight. They’d occasionally have raunchy letters having a bisexual theme or describing some young guy to get me off. Proper gay porn I only saw when I was about 26 by importing videotapes by mail order from the Netherlands. Boys in the Sand was one of my favourites.