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I’ve always had a good time in Bangkok. Been there so often that I now have some regulars to hook up with. Grindr has always been good with hornet as a supplement. Most have gone raw but I usually strike a few that stick with condoms.

My hookups may be a bit too regular to answer this question but I do recall something from a sauna in Montpellier in France. I was in the steam room and had just fucked a guy in the steam room. After we’d finished, he suddenly produced a latex glove and indicated he wanted me to do something. He didn’t speak English so everything was in gestures. It wasn’t long before it was clear he wanted me to shove my hand up his ass. This will be routine to many on the forum but I’d never fisted before (nor since) and had not come to the sauna to do so. After my polite indications that I declined, I reluctantly donned the glove and tentatively pushed my fingers in, he motioned for more, and in went my wrist. More and more was demanded. I must confess that it was a most unusual sensation to have up arm up to the elbow and I’m pleased I had the experience. But I doubt he found me much use, I wiggled my hand around but didn’t realise it was supposed to punch in and out or perform any other techniques.

Met this older Asian gay guy at the cruise club two weeks ago. He was great , his cock wasn’t that big but was big enough, but hard with nice upward curve. On that occasion we flip fucked and he bred me twice - it seemed he could cum and get hard again and cum a second time within minutes. 
Anyway, I encouraged him to exchange phone numbers and I’d been texting him a few times suggesting we hook up but without success. He answered after a day or two one of the messages and seemed keen enough but ignored the others. I decided I’d better stop texting or I might come across as a pest.

Out of the blue last night he suggested we hook up and I rushed to clean up.  He came to my place and we stripped and sucked each other. He took a turn to fuck me first. He had a bit of trouble getting it in at first and I moved to a better angle and he fucked me for quite a while before I fucked him. We switched again and he bred me. I brought his ass to the edge of the bed and slammed him balls deep for 15 minutes, while he had been squealing with it only half way in earlier, he was now comfortably taking it.

After we finished he confided that he’d been seriously harassed recently and had to leave his apartment and the police were still involved. He was on anti-anxiety meds which affected his erection. It probably also explained his reticence to text and hook up. His performance was great nonetheless so I’m hoping his problems get resolved and I get the chance to see him at his best.

Centurian sauna in Auckland, NZ, has a reverse gloryhole (there has to be a better name - ass-gloryhole, perhaps?). I finished an evening in it tonight and enjoyed taking a load in my ass. It’s a heightened sensation as I was in an awkward position with my legs in the air but only my ass visible to the standing top. I could see nothing. The guy who fucked me seemed to have a cock with great girth but not much length so there was some (enjoyable) pain as he forced it in my hole. I got the hardest erection as he pumped away although he could neither see nor touch my cock. He paused while he came then continued to thrust the cum deeper in my hole. It was fun although I have no idea what the guy who fucked me looked like.

I like Elbow Grease because it’s oil based and lasts well over an evening of fucking at the bathhouse even if I go in the steam room. It’s not condom friendly which is a plus. I think guys use it for fisting, which I don’t do, but it works for regular fucking. Unfortunately it’s a bit expensive for me so I just lube up my hole with elbow grease as deep as my fingers will go before I head out to the bathhouse and lube up guys cocks with whatever’s available but after the first fuck, and with the residual Elbow Grease, no more lube is usually needed.

A biopsy meant no sex for a week but after that a weekend arrived and I looked forward to visiting the local cruise club. I’d struck out there on some recent occasions but had my fingers crossed. I decided to head over on Friday evening and Sunday afternoon and it turned out great.
 

Friday evening started out a bit slow so I took a break for a couple of hours, headed home and returned on a pass out about midnight. I had a good session in the dark room. Two guys’ who appeared to be buddies, came in and there was some groping of cocks in the dark before my lubed asshole got noticed and I manoeuvred one of the guy’s cocks to the edge of my hole. He was rock hard, straight and quite long, 7” I’d say. He pushed it in which hurt a bit so I eased it out and reached over to add more lube. He started to say ‘no …’ as, in the dark, he must have imagined I was trying to roll on a condom. No way! Once lubed up he rammed back in and pounded me. Annoyingly, his buddy insisted his friend let him have a go. Disappearing his cock was not as hard and no more than 5”. Still I was happy to have raw cock in me. I expected the big guy to take another turn but the other guy hogged my ass for so long that he got bored and left the dark room.

The Sunday session was naked and much busier. I fucked or was fucked 11 times in90 minutes: topping 7 times and bottoming 4 times. The action started within 2 minutes of heading into the cruising part of the club. I cornered a guy with a thick cock, barely able to get my mouth around the cut mushroom head. We slipped into a room for him to fuck me and I was a little disappointed that he donned a condom. After a few minutes he went soft and pulled out. I switched to fucking him raw.

The highlight of the afternoon was hooking up with a smooth Asian guy with the cutest cock which was hard and curved upwards like a banana. Upward curved cocks always turn me on. We made out stand in a dimly lit room with various guys watching and grabbing us. He fucked me then we flipped and I fucked him. I suggested we go to a room as I wanted to try some other positions. In the room the guy fucked me till be came in my ass then I took over and stretched his hole with my cock. I fucked for a long while but didn’t come so we switched again as he was hard again and I got a second load. To cap off the afternoon we exchanged phone numbers so I’m hopeful we’ll be fucking again real soon.

Fun question. I had to download a list of countries and think carefully about. It was disappointing to become aware of how many countries I haven’t yet fucked in.

37 countries.

Australia Austria Belgium Canada Chile China Czechia Denmark Finland France Germany Greece Hong Kong Hungary Indonesia Italy Japan Korea Macau Mexico Morocco Netherlands New Caledonia New Zealand Peru Philippines Poland Portugal Singapore Spain Sweden Switzerland Taiwan Thailand UK USA Uruguay 

I can only remember being caught once and that was fucking rather than sucking (although I had earlier sucked and rimmed the guy). I had hooked up with a guy and he had walked me to his apartment. I was a bit surprised when he led me in to his room through a group of guys in the apartment. I found out later that he was visiting the city and one of his fuck buddies was letting him stay there and about 6 guys were sharing the apartment. Anyway I was fucking him vigorously doggy style in his bedroom when a guy opened the door and came in saying something, possibly asking if he wanted lunch. I am proud to say that I didn’t even slow down my thrusts with the interruption which was partly a shock and partly a thrill.

I’ve taken 56 loads in my ass so far this year. With a month to go I hope to better the 62 I took last year.

Really interesting to see the poll results and the answers. My first time I topped and I was expecting that would be most guys’ experience but in this poll the opposite seems true. I would have thought that it would be scarier the first time to bottom rather than top, and topping seems more instinctive.

My first time was in my early twenties. I had been sucking guys, and being sucked off, in public toilets a number of times. This guy passed a note on toilet paper under the stall to meet him outside. We spoke and he gave me his number. Two weeks later I got up the nerve to ring him and met at his apartment. It’s many years ago but I’m hard remembering fucking this muscular hairy guy on the floor of his living room. Afterwards he kindly said I had done well and may have given some tips but I recall coming reasonably quickly.

For the first few years I thought I was a top although my first boyfriend was a top and insisted I always bottom for him. That was good experience as I found I was good at that and am really versatile. Over time I tended to top and bottom about equally although these days I mainly crave guys shooting there loads into me, I get more satisfaction from that than topping guys but will do whatever gives my partner most satisfaction. Flipping is best of all.

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Went to the sauna hoping to get bred but ended up doing all the fucking myself. I only came once in a muscular white guy after a long rather mechanical fuck. I couldn’t immediately place his accent, he’d only grunted a few words, but he eventually told me he was Russian.

I should probably have gone for ‘it makes no difference’ as I suck anyone but since I mainly seek out sex with Asian guys I went for Asian. I was surprised it was a minority choice. No matter, more hot Asian cock for me.

I’ve only done this once but it was fun. I had a mouthful of cum, unusual for me, and I quickly kissed the guy, who was quite surprised. I think it was called a snowball or something.

I’m a bit ambivalent. 

At a venue I usually refuse where a bottom asks me to wear a condom and pull off a condom where one of those annoying men tries putting it on me without asking. They either relent or I go looking for someone else. However, if they’re cute I’ll try to fuck them with a condom although with a rubber I often lose interest or go soft if they can even get the condom over my thick cock. When I’m bottoming I discourage condoms but with often relent just to get the cock in my hole. But I find them uncomfortable and will ask them to remove it which often works once the guy has fucked me for a little while and is worked up.

On a hookup it’s a bit different. The guys who fuck with me have usually read my bareback only on my profile so it’s not a problem. However, if they insist I go along with it as I can’t lose the fuck. However, I usually find guys are persuadable to go raw when I explain I’m on PrEP and they’ve seen my hard cock. 

I went to the new 357 at its new venue on a visit to Sydney a few month ago. It was very disappointing. No better than bodyline which had deteriorated as a place for sex over the years. Far fewer guys, far fewer Asian guys. The 357 website implies some improvements to the place but it seemed exactly like bodyline to me. It was supposed to be lights out night at 7pm and I searched and thought I had the wrong night. In fact it was just a small part of the top floor. I did manage to fuck there once but it was nothing like the blackout at the former venue which was really hot and would have me top and bottoming many times in an evening. I was so upset at the loss of the original 357 so soon after the loss of Bangkok Babylon, my two favourite saunas in the world.

The bathhouse was very poorly attended on Wednesday afternoon. I was there for 3 hours and nothing. I got a pass out and headed home for a bite but returned at 7pm to see if things had improved. It was no better in fact down to 5 or so patrons. Still I managed to catch a young Asian guys eye and followed him into a room and locked the door. He lay on his back and I bent over to suck his smallish but hard cock. I mother along the bed so he could suck me at the same time. After a while his fingers moved to my lubed hole which signalled to me that he wanted to top. He hoped off the bed and I bent over and he slipped his raw cock into my asshole. He started thrusting and in less than a minute he was gasping and apologetically coming in my ass. It would have been nice to have taken a bigger cock and to have been pounded for longer but I was just glad to have taken a raw cock and been bred so the bathhouse visit was not a total write-off.

I like being fucked by big cocks but don’t get a lot of them. Used to be a guy who occasionally worked at my local cruise club with a very thick cock, I’d say about 8” girth and about the same in length.  Every time he was working he’d soon enough find me and without a word we’d go into a cubicle and fuck. I think most guys found him too big so he was keen to be able to find someone to take his load before his shift ended. He had a technique of always getting me to bend over the corner of the bed which presumably made it easier to get the massive tool into the whole. I was sad when he stopped working there. 

Just returned from a trip to Asia where I fucked multiple times every day for two weeks. Downside, on my return I had symptoms and found I had two STIs. Upside, I took the opportunity to ask at the clinic about DoxyPEP and got prescribed on the spot. It’s free where I live but the rule is that you must have had two cases (separate episodes) of STIs in last 12 months. I’d had a case last year so qualified. I’m still completely my 7 days of antibiotics from recent infection so haven’t yet had reason to start using it but think it will be part of my holiday kit for sex vacations.

I have little memory of sexual feelings at the young ages other mention but most run from puberty about 12 or 13. At that age I can recall being fascinated to secretly look at a tall slim naked black boy in the swimming baths changing room. I remember walking home from school staring many days at the back of a cute blond boy’s bare legs walking ahead of me with the faint blond hair leading up under his shorts. There was a small black and white picture in my French textbook of a boy dressed for ice hockey and I got turned on to see his cute face. These were genuinely sexual stirrings but I do remember a few years earlier at about age 9 or 10 going streaking naked several times with a group of 3 other boys including my brother and twice just with one of the boys. This wasn’t perceived as sexual at the time but simply exciting but we all nonetheless had erections and the older boys talked sometimes about jerking off and similar.

Sex is always on my mind when planning travel. Traditionally I’d book hotels with location of bathhouses in mind. Sometimes I’d actually stay at hotels at gay saunas such as Munich and Bangkok. Gay beaches can be good places to go like in Ibiza, Lisbon, Pattaya. With gay apps any city can be a worthwhile destination to fuck local guys though sometimes you need multiple apps to meet local preferences and occasionally a VPN like in Bali. On business trips I can recall times fucking with my boss in next hotel room, having a guy leave my bed as I head to business meetings and nipping back to hotel room during business roundtables for a quick hookup. Something I’ve tried for last few years is planning travel to coincide with city Pride festivals.

5 days 25 minutes. I’d met a guy at bathhouse a week or two earlier and exchanged numbers. He was working late and arranged to come over at 1 am. This slipped to 2 am then 3.30 am. Eventually I messaged I’d go to bed but would get up when he arrived. I could have cancelled but couldn’t get his long cock out of my mind. By 4am he was in my bed. We fucked then slept then fucked again and also fucked in the morning before he left for work at a second job. The sex was good, but not great as he was so tired, and neither of us came. So while he’d scored 9.5 at the earlier session at the bathhouse he only got 8/10 on this occasion.

I’ve not seen the sling over bed arrangement. There are public slings in both my local bathhouse and cruise club, both ceiling mounted. The one in the cruise club is awkwardly mounted as it requires the top to stand behind the door and close to the wall because the room is a little too small. So it is cramped if there is a line of tops wanting to fuck, which is often the case. By contrast the one at the bathhouse is in a large room, well positioned and nicely decorated with ceiling mirror and plenty of space for guys to stand around. No beds in either room.

On the first and so far only time I used Cialis I was pleasantly surprised to find it working not only at the bathhouse 2 hours after taking a tablet but also  23 hours later at another group sex event. I got a very mild headache.

I’ve used Viagra (a generic version) for years and have not been consistently satisfied in recent times and decided to try Cialis (again, a generic). Only used it once so far but was impressed over more than 24 hours but it is noticeably more expensive. I don’t need it for one on one hookups but use it when action may be extended over several hours or multiple group sessions over an extended period. One side effect I’ve found with Viagra is remaining rock hard on occasion but unable to cum.

I wondered what other guys found. I’m not so much interested in their medical effectiveness for severe ED but  their recreational usefulness.