I'm a white bottom in Brooklyn, into servicing Black and Brown tops. Recently I have seen dudes organizing local orgies where they rent a hotel room or suite. Everyone is supposed to chip in a small amount to pay for the room and drinks. I've dipped my toe in a couple of times, skeptical but hoping to find something legit. But in both cases the "organizer" kept coming back asking for more money, claiming that the numbers had increased and they had to get a bigger room, etc.
Fair enough -- I've been scammed worse. But this seems like such a simple thing, I feel like there must be legit parties like this. Should I continue looking? Any tips from successful attendees about how to recognize the real deal?