I am new to this site but have been involved in the online hookup scene for a while now. I am sure the lack of success I am having now is due to my age (61 yo) more than anything but I do wonder.
For me, the best times were back in the days of AOL chat rooms. I used to travel a lot on business and most cities had one or more chat rooms for M4M. It was easy to go in their, post what you were looking for and then engage in private chats to set something up.
One thing I have noticed over the past few years on Craigslist, before it changed, and other sites is that there used to be more guys looking to get sucked than there were guys like me who wanted to do nothing more than give blowjobs. Now, it seems to be the reverse and there are far more men looking to suck dick than get theirs sucked. I don't know why that is but it used to be easy for me to find a guy on AOL or the phone chat lines and get together to suck them. It was easy for a while on Craiglist but that seems to have changed a few years ago.
But as I said before, I am sure my recent lack of success has more to do with my age than anything else.