To each his own, but in my case I want a boy who's submissive and a total bottom. To me, the intense heat in the daddy/boy connection comes from the dichotomies, both physical and spiritual: daddy/boy, older/younger, hairy/smooth, dominant/submissive, aggressive/affectionate, mentor/student, top/bottom, cock/boyhole and so on. The connection between man and boy is natural and older than the ancient Greeks (for the record, I'm talking metaphorically here; not interested in or condoning pedophilia in any way). When I seed, I want the moment of ecstasy to be the culmination of an magical, ethereal daddy/boy connection - I want to look into the boy's eyes and tweak his nips and see unadulterated hunger and total and unquestioning devotion to daddy.