polyglutton

I'm sorry for the loss you experienced. 

Some of my thoughts on this topic:

We did not evolve as a species for internet socialising, and apps are generally not been designed by people who are good at socialising. Context collapse and social surveillance is something still very unsettling and new for us. Cultural norms in online communication are in flux. Social anxiety is at an all time high. 

Young people go through a lot of growth and change and it's natural for people to move on. Not all friendships or associations can or should last. Significant age differentials present extra barriers to longer term associations. 

Ghosting or blocking can hurt, and in an ideal world we'd have more answers, but ultimately we have to accept that is the end. 

Ideally we'd all be good at using our words, but many of us aren't up to the task much of the time, and blocking is so easy. It's true that too many guys are unable to handle a simple no with grace, and that is a disincentive to making the effort to respond at all. I also think the proliferation of chatbots and scammers erodes our resolve to be humane to one another. 

I'm a fan of preemptive blocking on apps as a filter to save both parties time. Blocking mid-conversation is inhumane (unless someone is being creepy). If I'm not interested in someone I will try to say it, and then will block a few days later so that it's kinder. Some people use the gay apps as a community, but I don't, as I'd rather save that for in person socialising. 

On 9/13/2023 at 9:06 AM, PigBoyDallas said:

Hooked up  with the scrawny white trash boy last night after work. Had been messaging in the morning and he wanted it before he went into work, but I couldn't. He was mid 20s, inked, nice sized uncut cock, verse, open to raw, said he was neg. I told him after work could work for me. He lives in a pretty trashy part of Richardson, northeast of me and I was kind of leery going to his place. I was horned up at the end of the day and messaged him saying I was down, he was too. Headed to his place and when I got their he was outside saying his roommate was home and needed to fuck outside, in a car, or something. He said there was a safe place nearby we could walk to he'd used before and I was kinda worried I was gonna get jumped, but went for it. It was an empty overgrown lot, no way anyone could see us. Clearly he's done this before and I'm guessing he's taken more than a few cocks.

We both undid our pants and started jerking each others cocks and he let out a "damn" looking at mine remarking at how thick and big it was. He asked if I wanted to take him first and I said I was and braced myself against a wall with my ass to him. I could feel his spit hitting my ass and felt his cock head against my ass as he entered me raw. I had no problem taking him and he got a nice rhythm going, saying nothing as he fucked me. I told him how good his dick felt and that I wanted his load bad. He said nothing and kept stroking, soon enough letting out a muffled groan as he unloaded inside me. He slid out and let out a "guess it's my turn" with a half laugh, taking his place against the wall and telling me to take it easy.

He clearly was open to raw as he said, not asking about condoms or pulling out to cum and I can only guess he gladly lets guys breed him raw. I spat on his ass and my cock and started forcing it in him and could hear him hiss and groan as I did, cursing and saying how big my cock was, but truthfully it didn't seem like his ass offered much resistance. If I had to guess he'd probably taken cock recently and soon enough I was balls deep in him, stroking pretty hard as he moaned. A couple times he asked if I was gonna cum inside him, which was weird. I said I was and I wasn't sure if he didn't want it that way or it was his way of asking if I was close. I wasn't about to say I was going to cum and instead shot my load in him saying nothing. He let out an excited "damn" as I came, so clearly he could feel it. I was kind of flattered and asked him "you like that boy?" and he said he did and that it felt good. I told him there was more where that came from and kept stroking inside him. If he didn't want my seed inside him it was too late as I was churning it deep inside him now. He was now moaning about how bad he wanted it and I loved that this dirty little slut was desperate for my load. I had no idea if he was gay, straight, or what. There was no gay look or feel about him, yet here he was taking cock raw, letting me breed him.

I blasted my second load in him and he said he was about to cum again and asked if I wanted to suck him off or get fucked. Trashy boys like him usually have nasty tasting cum, so I told him to fuck me and he had me up against the wall frantically fucking me, but not lasting long before he shot in me again. I was absentmindedly looking around and could see empty beer cans, liquor bottles, underpants, and drug paraphernalia and could tell this place is regularly used to fuck. I'm guessing this boy has been bent over and bred more than a few times here, getting bred by random guys. Honestly, it kind of turned me on as I've hooked up with guys in places like this before. He slid out and pulled his shorts up saying he was done and thanking me. I did the same and said it was fun and that I was down to do it again. He apologized and admitted his roommate doesn't know he hooks up with guys but was glad I was cool to do it here. We worked our way back out and it was the awkward parting, no kiss or gay shit like that. I just said to message me again when he wanted to hook up. 

So hot that you both came twice flip fucking

Soo hot! 

Wonderful writing. Bravo!

I was able to get away from my small town to a mid-size city last week. Because I was staying with a friend, I couldn’t host, which made it difficult to hook up. But late last night I got a text from a hot 21 year old otter. He was direct and polite, enough for me already to want to meet but then his pics were really hot with a great-looking cock. He asked to see my ass, and as soon as he saw my hairy hole, he replied “I want it”. He couldn’t host either, but suggested we fuck outside the suburban house he was staying in with his gay friends. He said we’d have to be very quiet and we only had 30 min. I’d already tucked myself in for the night, but happily got up to pop my contact lenses back in, and drove the 6 minutes to him. 

He greeted me in the dark at the gate on the side of the house, and was charming as he whispered that he wanted me to bend over a chair he’d pulled out. I offered him lube but he said spit is hotter. I asked if he wanted some head first but he said he really wanted to get into my ass, so I pulled my shorts down and bent over, in plain sight of the next-door neighbour’s front door just 3m away. He wasted no time in gently fingering me. I am a natural moaner, and men always like it, but my mission was to be as quiet as possible, so I closed my eyes and concentrated on the sensation of his virile cock teasing my hole. I had been fucked a few hours earlier by another guy with a 7” cock, so he was able to get in without lube without any discomfort. 

He bottomed out as soon as he slipped in, and it felt so good, both because of the dimensions of his dick, but also because he was so cute and sexy. He fucked me slowly and rather deliberately for the first 5 minutes or so, then began to pick up speed. It was novel and a bit odd to be fucking so without any sounds from either party, but in a way it allowed me to focus my mind and body on his cock alone. He’d been fucking me faster for another 5 minutes or so and then he whispered he was going to cum and sunk in balls deep. He had a pretty intense orgasm because he was shuddering and still fucking me for another minute or two after he loaded my ass. I squeezed my ass around his cock a few times to show my appreciation, and tightened as he pulled out so that none of his cum would escape. I knew he’d blown a big load because of how wet it felt, and this made me quite happy. 

He was genuine and sweet, saying it was great and thanked me. I did the same and in the dark I thought he was reaching out to shake my hand, but then realised as I clasped his fist that he wanted to fist-bump. We quietly chuckled and I made a rock-paper-scissors motion. It was a bonus to see his cute smile and quiet laugh at that. We wished each other a good day and just as I exited the gate I almost walked into a guy walking his dog. It was hot to think that that guy had now idea he’d almost just walked past two guys fucking. 

Once I got back to bed, I fingered myself a bit to get a whiff of his cum. It turned me on so much to smell it as I stroked. Turns out he shot so deep I could only get an essence, but the volume was considerable deep beyond. I kept it in all night and by the morning, I'd absorbed it all. Big turn on for me, thinking I carried a piece of him in me 🙂

If only I had a fuck buddy like him in my town!

Hot! Great writing. 

Sounds like an excellent time. Good on you!

Such a hot story

Excellent

After a few months of only having intermittent access to this site despite not living anywhere near the states with bans because of my IP randomly bouncing between Mississippi and Louisiana, I finally broke down and got a VPN subscription. Sigh.  

I'm unlucky in that though I live far away from any of the states with bans, inexplicably my IP address hovers somewhere between Louisiana and Mississippi, a part of the country to which I've never even visited. So now my access to this site is intermittently blocked and I have no idea how to fix it. If I have to get a VPN, I want it to be a good one. Please if anyone can recommend a quality service?

On 8/4/2023 at 9:34 PM, Loveitraw said:

To be honest I've never counted. I know it is lots and certainly enough to raise the eyebrows of all good, decent, god-fearing folk. But I've never really been interested in keeping any kind of score. Just so long as I can keep on scoring that's all that truly matters.

I also never counted for the same reason. 

Sooo hot

Such a hot story

I very much appreciate this site, but I would like my access to anything in this section and the chem sex sections restricted. I appreciate it. 

Damn. They could have at least warned us? 

On 5/20/2023 at 10:08 PM, Nowwhat007 said:

Please please write more of what happened, if you guys ended up meeting up some more. Went through your posts.. they're 🥵🥵🥵  thank you for spending time and sharing them

Very hot and well-written. Thank you. 

Curiosity is a precursor to empathy, learning, and growth, so that's something to look out for. 

It's good when people show that they have self-awareness, can ask for what they want, and can say what they feel. I try to avoid people-pleasers because it can belie other problems (inauthenticity, codependency, repressed emotions, possible proclivities to manipulation)

Being able to laugh at oneself is a good sign. 

Respect for boundaries and the ability to express them. 
 

1 hour ago, Marlin said:

. I was so turned on having a cheating dick in me. I went home with two loads in me.  I went to the bars that night and saw them out together, his sperm still in me. 

This is super hot. Good for you!

I'd been sexually frustrated the last two weeks, so when tonight a guy hit me up to meet in the park to fuck, I said yes. It's been a while since I've hooked up outside.
 

I followed his grindr pin down a path through the dark until I saw his phone light. As my eyes adjusted, I saw a slender older Asian guy. He was sat atop an isolates low boulder in the middle of a large expanse of turf. There weren't any trees, shrubs, or structures to give us privacy, only the lack of illumination, but there were streetlights and pavements in 30m radius surrounding the spot. There was also a figure off in the shadows lingering.

He unzipped his fly and pulled out his cock. It was bigger than it looked in the pic he'd sent, and I went to work deep throating him until he got nice and hard. He had a great cock and I was enjoying it. He leant far back giving a show to the figure in the dark, but by now I'd lost sight of where he was. 
 

He pulled his cock out of my mouth and said he wanted to fuck me, so I lubed up his cock, pulled down my trousers, and placed my hands against the boulder. It felt great to feel him instinctively find my hole with the head of this thick cock without any finger searches. As he pressed into me, I began to feel really horny. Then that other guy appeared behind me to see the action up close. 
 

The top started fucking me in earnest, apparently excited by the new guy, whom he encouraged to take a turn fucking me. The other one responded that he "just wanted to watch and only wank".  He repeated this when I offered to suck him.
 

The top let it rip and hammered me. He asked if I'd take his load, to which I quietly moaned "fuck yeah". He busted a huge load and I could feel it expand around his cock, pouring out as he slowly pulled out and walked off. My entire body was tingling. I thought that'd be the end, but I stayed there enjoying the moment longer. Suddenly the other dude started fingering me and then began to fuck me. His cock was half the size as the first guy. He grabbed my shoulder and gave rapid, hard thrusts. His chubby body was bouncing off my ass and he came pretty quickly. 

I finished my errands with a cummy arse and a smile on my face. 

On 1/4/2022 at 10:03 AM, BreedMeBro said:

It took me some time to move from reading about bending over to take loads uncritically to actually not caring what a guy looks like as long as the dick’s hard and his fucking is skillful. Over the course of a couple of years I gradually looked over my shoulder less and less until at one point I realized how liberating it is… To be able to enjoy sex without the hindrance of taste in men, or the social norms dictating who is acceptable to be seen having sex with, and without the modern day built-in restraint and demands we impose on ourselves and others before allowing ourselves to truly enjoy sex for what it is: a joyful sharing of our bodies and lust with others. To me it should be as casual as enjoying a sandwich together or bonobos fucking all day as a social practice. The darkness of darkrooms only serves to remove the last remaining inhibition, removing all social interaction and norms from sex, reducing it to just body heat, mouths, hard cocks, asses, grunts, hands, cum…

Though it’s not the only way in which I enjoy sex, I’m grateful for being able to relish this sexual abandon and feel enriched by it in comparison to all those who follow more repressed sexual lifestyles. Funny how those people tend to feel similarly vice versa.

(I do however push away groping/fidgeting trolls with limp dicks, which in my city seem to be in the majority)

This is so well expressed. I agree 100%. I wish there were more of these. In my ideal world, it would be a public service venue, like a library or a post office: it would be a fulcrum of society. 

On 2/2/2023 at 3:53 PM, Openmouthpolicy said:

Yeah it just doesn’t feel like that on this site. 

Most of these are here as a safe place to explore their fantasy for a deeply stigmatised and broadly derided fetish, and adding explanatory disclaimers kills the buzz.

On 3/11/2023 at 6:36 PM, marriedsub said:

Probably has to do with survival of the species primarily.

You're conflating strict heterosexuality with bisexuality.
 

In social species, homosexuality greatly contributes to survival through prosocial mechanisms.  

I believe it is. The scientific data and historical sources portray a majority of humans as bisexual. 

While it ultimately matters how the top is doing the action way more than the size does, I have only been hurt by a few smaller-than-average guys, but have never had lasting pain from hung guys. I think it's because a longer dick will fit in parallel to the angle of the rectum, but a shorter dick can end up hitting against the rectum walls at an acute angle if the top is not lined up right.