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I do not want to bias anyone, but am curious to see what type of responses we get.

27 minutes ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

Maybe only bottoms have read it? I know from previous posts you’ve made that you’re not looking for bottoms to second guess what’s going on inside a top’s head, so I keep stumm when you ask these sorts of questions.

I love you @ErosWired but I have to second this. I don't know if you will get an "answer". I tend to think most guys who actually go through with doing something as you described don't understand it themselves...and probably would be hard pressed to offer a meaningful insight as to "why".

Besides who wants to (or would be willing to publicly) admit to being a cruel, heart-less, psychopath?

It sounds fairly unanimous. A hard cock is preferred for getting fucked.

Personally, for me. The harder the better. I usually want to know what it is that turns a guy on so much that his cock gets bigger and throbs harder than it ever has. So, yes - super hard cock is my all time favourite.

19 hours ago, Bttml00king said:

There are countless times when I am ass up at the ABS or gay sauna, guys would keep playing with my cock, espcially when I don't wear my jockstrap. 

When I am ass up, most of time I just want to get fucked and get bred. I get turned off by those guys who keep playing with my cock or even try to suck it and totally ignore my ass. 

When I top a guy who is ass up, I focus on his ass. I rim, finger, and make sure he is awarded with my load. 

I made a poll and am curious what others think? 

Reading your post provided me with better insight into the question. If or when I am in 'bottom mode' and particularly in anon bottom mode where the idea is typically and specifically to get bred being the focus...then no, I am not interested in having my cock played with.

I get that some top guys may play with a cock because they like when you clench down or squeeze their hardon and react to some touch...but I do not want to cum. When I bottom, I become insatiable and just want to accept any horny hard cock that needs a delicious sexy hole to unload into. If I cum, I'm usually done for a while...but having said that - I usually don't tell a top no. wink

My 2 cents:

compliment 1 - he inserts himself bare to properly introduce himself

compliment 2 - he leaves me with his juicy nutt as evidence of his primal need to breed

who needs more than that??

So, if you managed to actually get the guy to show up at your hotel/motel for an anonymous, head down - ass up scenario....I think everything that needs to be said was already said. He showed up didn't he?

If you feel compelled to say anything (I agree with @ErosWired) then I would beg for that hard cock and cum. Keep him focused on the mission.

On 2/15/2023 at 9:07 PM, Qilly55 said:

I just keep thinking I am going to love it and won't be able to stop.

What do you all think?

I think you already know what is going to happen.

If you have learned anything from reading through these forums, it should be that. This is akin to opening Pandora's box.

The risk is up to you. It's a slippery slope. Good luck

Why do we attempt to codify something as natural as sex? Dogs don't have a code of conduct for fucking...why do we need one? Am I missing something?

If people want or expect a specific type of interaction then I would think that would be left to the institution or the bricks and mortar facility to codify the rules of their membership. Humans would then have to find a corresponding "club" that promotes their shared ideals. Otherwise, it's sex and whatever happens, happens.

Thanks for clicking on my post! If you might be interested in having me make an appearance at your next "game day" with the boys down in the man-cave (your motel room, or wherever you're hosting) -- then please message me!!

I am an enthusiastic and #funcheerslut who knows how to bring the sideline performance to you. Great for keeping the boys entertained.

xoxo

Great replies! Love 'em. Keep them coming.

Hello BZ'ers. I noticed everyone having sleazy sex in sleazy places. Wink. I love you guys. 

What about the more distinguished or nice places you happened to have a load or two?

I really don't have any stand-out places I can think of other than a nice yacht in Catalina bay off California...but no penetration sadly.

Not knowing your status does not make you STI negative. It makes you ignorant.

There is nothing wrong with having a brief moment of panic followed by a moment of reflection in order to talk ones-self down. I share @Cumming4u´s concern about not wanting to "shit where one eats". When you want to maintain a low-profile and not raise any local eye-brows these are the types of precautions one takes.

From the way in which you describe the event, I can see why other responses are reassuring you and encouraging not to over react. The points presented are valid. This man is an adult, he consented, and it sounds like you gave him exactly what he wanted. As such, I think it is prudent that you give this some thought. He will likely hit you up again, as it isn't always easy finding a good Top.

There are so many "what if" scenarios that could play out; however, perhaps you could casually probe this concern with the young man further...

1. Perhaps you could let him know he seems familiar and ask him if you know one another, let him piece it together for you? Then confront it, tell him you want to continue getting together, but not if it will be a problem, etc. and you are counting on him to be discrete.

2. Ignore the elephant in the room and continue to have fun...just impressing upon him you want to keep this discrete and hope you can trust him.

3. Any other ideas guys?

Good luck!!

I can relate to most of these responses. For me, I truly enjoy being used to help a guy achieve his best possible orgasm (or any orgasm - doesn't have to be their best one - and sometimes the best one is the one you can get easily "now").

It becomes like an insatiable appetite (like many have described); for me the more I "help" the more I want to help [a guy achieve orgasm]. I love men. I really love men who present me with their cock they need managed. So which comes first? The slut or the bareback bottom? LOL

21 hours ago, hntnhole said:

It seems that a lot of guys have gradually altered what used to be fairly clear definitions:

1.  "Top" means (or used to) a guy who will only fuck.  Active only, nothing passive.

2.  "bottom" means (or used to) mean a guy who will only get fucked.  Passive only, noting active.  

3.  "Verse" means (or used to) a guy that potentially will both Top and/or bottom, depending on the scene.  

When the above turns into an alphabet soup, the meanings are rendered moot. 

Point:  Less talk, more Breeding.  Less endless time-wasting on the cruise apps, go to where the pigs are, shuck your jeans and jump in.  

There is no mention of cock sucking - which I find extremely relevant. I wish those that are not interested in penetration [for whatever the reason] would have the courage or confidence to just say so (thank you to whomever came up with a "label" for these men to use = SIDES) . It would help the sorting process that we all naturally go through when looking for someone to connect with.

The above descriptions refer to penetration. I think that is germane to this discussion. You either want to be penetrated or you don't, or in what I find to be very rare instances there are guys out there (myself one of them) who loves fucking so much that you don't get if you are giving or receiving or both at the same time (flipping). If you want to do the penetrating, but you suffer from something that prevents you from being able to actually go through with the penetration. It is sad and we all feel for you. If modern medicine doesn't work I will lend you a shoulder to cry on. However, please please please consider that you should not advertise as a "Top". But then what are they supposed to advertise themselves as? Do they become SIDES? Has anyone updated that weird gay social hierarchy GIF I saw on here?? This is also why labels are troublesome and "needs" should be more front and centre.

I also agree with much of @hungry_hole ´s post. Very well said.

Here is where it all goes wrong. How do we have more "needs" based honest dialogue? It seems nearly impossible. In my experience what men think they WANT versus what they NEED is how wires get crossed, shit goes crazy wrong, and people just end up either ghosting or flaking. So...is there any light at the end of this tunnel?

On 1/14/2023 at 10:50 AM, BootmanLA said:

Oh lord, where to start.

My sentiments exactly. Is it possible to discard labels and boxes and to find and love someone for who they are? In my experience it is having open and honest communication that will help any relationship withstand the test of time. People change, circumstances change, but if you go into a relationship expecting a specific type of change you will most certainly be let down and disappointed.

Work on developing an honest and sincere rapport where you have no secrets and keep no secrets from one another. This makes honest dialogue possible if not easier. If you can do that - then the guy is a keeper.

On 1/15/2023 at 7:03 AM, faggot4play said:

....i am whatever they need me to be....

best response ever...I will second this response. Simply because when they ask - they aren't looking for a serious response. They are looking to be let off the hook for what they have just done. Fuck off! Oh and take responsibility for your own actions.

Happy 2023 Everyone! I am still interested in meeting up with an interested guy. Please message me!

Happy New Year!! Please message me if you'd like to connect.

14 hours ago, ChargedLoadLover said:

If I could gang bang myself with multiple me's lined up to fuck me in a sling at a bath house even better.

You just took this next level - love it. I need multiple clones of me now. LOL

On 12/3/2022 at 3:16 PM, funpozbottom said:

When I was a teen, I wished I had an identical twin I could explore with. We'd have the same fetishes, kinks, and desires, and the same level of horny lust. So, yes, back then I definitely would have fucked myself. As for today, I'm still looking for my twin.

When I was in university I had the fortune of teaching gymnastics with two very sexy twins. We hung out a lot together over the course of that year. I was trying to get in the middle of twin sandwich, but sadly not much happened.

Oh well. I still fantasize about them fucking me and each other - having a twin could have been great. It could also be the opposite and entirely frustrating.

I tend to agree with the guys who generally appreciate a hardon which can get the job done. Regardless of size.

I have literally masturbated to pictures of my own ass. Especially framed in my slutty fun little skirts. So hot...wink.

Fellow BZers, I searched and searched the site to see if anyone had bothered to ask the question, "Would you fuck yourself?" before, and I only got one match or result. It was from a fellow BZer who was talking about his gym routine and his personal threshold for keeping his back-side looking fuck-able.

I created the poll to see how many others would fuck themselves IF they could. It's obviously a hypothetical question...but would you?

IF I could clone myself and use myself as a fuck toy - I would be in heaven. So count me in and among those versatile users that could not get enough of my own cummy asshole.

Seriously!! This sounds like an ideal relationship. I hope it lasts for you both.