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5 hours ago, CumDumpBttmJokATL said:

It’s natural, I’m wired 100% to be a barebacking load whore, and I like feeling as though I’m providing an essential community service for any man that needs to get off

It is basically this. Well said @CumDumpBttmJokATL because it's not about the size or duration of the fuck or any of the hang-ups most people get stuck on -- it's fundamentally about helping a horny man get his sexy hard cock off in a satisfying way. The way nature intended...raw and rutting. I mean isn't there a poll on here already about a guys favourite way to cum? Isn't it mostly to rut it out balls deep? I just want to provide those holes to enjoy when you need them fellas.

On 6/18/2021 at 1:40 PM, Close2MyBro said:

This is a debate I can never win. I used to shave it only to run into guys who wanted a hairy ass, so I stopped. Then i started running into guys who wanted a shaved ass. I don't shave it anymore but i do keep it trimmed.

Okay, @Close2MyBro and the rest of the community (thanks all) have helped me figure this out. I was perplexed because I have my favourite 21 y/o tall brown stud who loves to breed me, but wants it shaven. I am not interested in that, but I believe we are gonna be able to reach a compromise as long as the hair doesn't "get in his way" so TRIMMED is the happy medium.

On 4/16/2019 at 6:13 PM, Spunkinmyarse said:

Oh dear.  I’m going to stick my head above the parapet here.  I don’t shave.  Never have. Hairy all the way- just as nature intended.

Actually, I’m just lazy.  It seems to me that for every top out there that likes ‘em smooth, there’s one that likes ‘em hairy.  So I don’t bother: I don’t think shaving would land me any more cock.

But it seems to me from some of the other responses to this topic that a lot of bottoms shave simply because they prefer the look/feel of it themselves.  And I’m all for that- it’s as good a reason as any to go to all that effort.   But for me- well, I guess it’s just not my thing.

Thank you @Spunkinmyarse. Well said. I couldn't agree with you more (so thanks for sticking your head above the parapet here).

Gay culture can be limiting and narrow. I am re-reading through all of these responses because I am looking to understand the issue of maintenance and re-growth and management. This is where I find I too am LAZY.

On 3/18/2014 at 12:26 AM, chipygmalion80 said:

As far as smooth or hairy, there are some fuck buds I know who demand smooth. I think it's much rougher on my cock to fuck a shaved ass then a hairy one. Even bottoms that are "freshly" shaven still haven that sandpaper effect that only gobs and gobs of lube will diminish. So keep it natural eitherway.

Thank you @chipygmalion80, this resonates a lot with me. I have a few guys who want my hole completely shaven and I am thinking why? I have a sweet blonde asshole. I could understand if it were a hairy mess and you couldn't even find the asshole - or even it was only partially hairy but coarse and abrasive -- but my sweet blond hole is neither of those things. I refuse to shave - mostly because of the discomfort I suffer during re-growth. 

P.S. Most guys who want me shaven and then fuck me anyway - will concede that while it may not be smooth - it's totally not sand paper, not abrasive, and still very hot.

Love this review!! Thanks for sharing...I also consider it good news.

Count me in here too....I am actively working on my two top candidates. I hope I can figure out how to make it all work.

My most unusual, which isn't that unusual - was behind an elementary school under a big tree in the grassy-knoll so-to-speak. It was after dark and not during school hours.

On 11/11/2015 at 11:39 AM, gay87 said:

level 3 - will do raw with anyone who claims they are neg

level 4 - raw with hook ups that seem 'safe' from your own judgement, without discussing status (for me ill assume, students, and some professions, I know it sound dumb, oh well)

level 5- raw with anyone, except sauna/orgy party with knowingly poz personnel

level 6 - take ALL loads

 

Fascinating!! I was actually curious about something similar to this. Thanks for putting the thought into the scale. I appreciate the incremental steps in terms of managing or mitigating risk. I guess the challenge is that when the condoms come off - all bets are off too.

3 hours ago, Bmann55 said:

I would love to get fucked by truckers!! Have a truck stop not that far away and always get hard when I see some of those hunky truckers. Does anyone have any good pickup lines to use on truckers??

I totally second that @Bmann55!! Please suggest some pick up lines or techniques for how to get the right attention. Thanks!!

3 hours ago, Phallarchist said:

They're probably concerned about disease, of which there is plenty in faggot mouths. Just be grateful for the seed.

I think @Phallarchist has hit the nail on the head. STI's are not desirable by anyone except for bug-chasers...

Hey guys!! What's new? Horny? Wanna let me service you while you watch your favourite sports? Please message me! Thanks.

Great question. Generally, I operate under the assumption that most guys prefer or most enjoy cumming in my mouth balls deep (whenever possible) and I could totally be wrong as I did not say everyone but it is my default assumption. Having said that, I usually ask the guy what his favourite way to cum is and then I generally enable that to the best of my ability. wink!

Short answer = YES.

I find that I cannot even look at sexy photos or images without triggering my sexual alter ego. It's rough. LOL

Can we please re-boot this topic? I have so many questions.

1. What is cum control? Is there a standard or commonly recognized definition?

2. Can anyone learn to better control how or when they cum? Or is it more along the lines of - you can either control it or you can't?

3. Does cum control and edging go hand-in-hand? Why?

4. What is the pleasure centre or desire for cum control? Does it prolong ejaculation?

Based on the LACK of responses to this thread I also have to wonder how NICHE this is?! Any ideas?

I hope that no one discourages any type of a "regular" hookup. These can be very fulfilling and rewarding as above responses indicate.

I can also appreciate that most men want to (forgive the South Park reference or expression but they want to) "TAME some Strange".

I actually had a "couple" looking and when I was declined I was just curious why...and the response was "one of us has met you already, and we are looking for a 'new' guy". My question to these guys is the following...

Is the thrill of the hunt for a new hole, better or more satisfying than actually being able to connect with and enjoy a familiar hole??

On 3/28/2022 at 12:48 AM, ErosWired said:

I remember a guy who came to use me anon once when I hotel hosted - he was really into it, and when he came in me he kept cumming and cumming for an unusually long time. But when he was done, and starting to put on his clothes, he said, “What am I doing here?” like he couldn’t believe he had just found himself in a random room in a sleazy hotel fucking a free-range whore, because he wasn’t that kind of guy.

I had him sit down on the bed next to me, and we talked about it for a while, me letting him know that I was safe, and normal, and there was nothing wrong with tending to his natural needs, that’s why I was there in the first place, etc. (I find I end up acting as an ad hoc sex therapist on occasion.) I was just struck by how sharply he had experienced the sense of suddenly being a different person than the one who had just bred me.

Wow. This is one very stark example of "post-nut clarity"

My hat is off to you @ErosWired, for knowing how and when to bring out Dr. Ruth (sex therapist inner voice) and help this guy not end up hating himself for giving into this carnal desire. I hope we can all be that kind in that type of moment.

Great topic, love it. I have several pet peeves - the ones listed above are on-point.

My personal pet peeve is people who think or claim they have NEVER had an STI when they have never gone for testing...? I guess no symptoms means you've never had something? Whatever...ignorance is bliss I suppose.

This is typically where fantasy and reality collide. Spoiler-alert, reality sucks. The previous responses are spot-on...it requires a constant dialogue and keeping ones-self in check. If you get greedy and start to take advantage...it can quickly become a slippery slop.

Good luck guys.

On 3/13/2022 at 3:38 AM, ErosWired said:

I’ve never understood how this sort of thing happens (outside of a bathhouse/sex club venue) where the masseur could be serving clients who are straight more often than not, and would run a risk of a negative reaction to any kind of sexual advance. How would he know that the client he’s working on was a candidate for ‘special attention’?

I totally agree with this observation. Also, most of the "professional" massages I have received were conducted by a female therapist. So it was never gonna happen...

Having said that, I own a massage table - and I LOVE giving a relaxing and sensual rub. I am not an RMT, just an amateur who has been told that I have a very good touch, or good hands - to which I reply - you should try my mouth and sweet ass. I am also very slutty and have no problem taking it "all the way". If you have never had a slutty cheerleader rub you down and encouraging you to slide your excited man-hood up under the cheer skirt - then come see me...we will have a great time.

On 3/3/2022 at 12:33 PM, Daddyslut4use said:

I've become partial to anon breeding sessions either walk in, door open, spa or sex club because I've become partial to taking multiple loads and offering up a sloppy used hole to those tops who have a certain fetish for this.  Trying to arrange friends or acquaintances schedules is just not practical to get the number of loads required quickly enough to be the dripping hole I love to offer up.

This resonates most with me. Well said @Daddyslut4use!

In response to the OP, I do find that if I could have my choice of any type of sex (on repeat) it would be the anonymous variety. For all of the reasons that each of the responses has outlined. I agree with the sentiment of each and the benefits of just enjoying letting a hard horny man get his nutt out.

My favourite anon fantasy would involve being blind-folded and in the locker room of any sports team (insert your favourite) where they use and pass around my horny holes to enjoy and get off into...yum.

On 2/28/2022 at 1:13 AM, rock-cock-jock said:

Are you still attracted to the same type of guy or has your type changed? If not a particular physical feature, is there anything else that you tend to go for? Has your minimum threshold for agreeing to fuck a guy changed? What do you think is the main force behind your current standards?

My "type" is the guy that actually fucking shows up when he says he will. Wink.

13 hours ago, ErosWired said:

You never know what you’re going to get, but in my experience, when you do get one who’s got a thing about dung, he’s got a thing about it. It’s far better not to take a risk, and just avoid any unpleasantness by cleaning out. The key, and one you really only pick up from personal experience, is how much to clean out for a particular activity.

Amen, @ErosWired, this is so true.

Many men with this aversion are usually going to avoid anal altogether - so hopefully it reduces the number of guys who shame a bottom when the accident happens.

The challenge is for the guys who are averse to shit or shit-smells and yet ALSO want to fuck ass...I don't know what to tell those guys, except to man-up and deal with it.

Tell her you are a pig cum-slut and let her make an informed decision.

On 2/17/2022 at 10:27 PM, Ieatcumholes said:

I realized more than a few years ago that I'm not really "Relationship Material".... That hasn't stopped me from trying, but every time a relationship ends that little voice inside me says, "But you already KNEW that!"

So, I've come to the conclusion that the perfect relationship for me would be with a Cumdump. (Note my screen name.) Not only would he be allowed to sleep with as many other men as possible, he would be encouraged to do so on a regular basis in order to bring me a cumhole to enjoy! I only have two rules for such a relationship:

1. Your cumhole is always available to me
2. When you get a cumhole, you bring it home for me to enjoy

I don't think either one of those is too onerous. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Over the last 6 years, I have had serious talks with three different guys about entering into such a relationship. And in all three cases, the guys disappeared for weeks or months only to resurface after I had already moved on. The first guy lived on the East Coast of the US (and I'm on the West Coast). We had gotten to the point where I was ready to fly across country, rent a U-Haul and drive him and his stuff back to California. Then he dropped off the face of the earth. Turns out he had reconciled with an ex and was exclusive to the point that he couldn't even contact me to let me know what was going on. 

By the time he realized they were exes for a reason and the ex hadn't changed his spots, I was talking to guy #2. He lived in the southern part of the state. We had gotten to the point where I was ready to fly down and visit him and if everything was as good in reality as it appeared to be through conversations, I would've relocated to his area. He disappeared. Turns out he had gotten really sick, was hospitalized and almost died. By the time he resurfaced, I was in a (non-cumdump) relationship.

Last December I talked to another guy from the southern part of the state. He has family in this area and was coming up for the holidays anyway, so he was going to spend that first night with me with an option for spending the whole weekend together if we hit it off. Didn't show, and no contact for 3 weeks afterward. (I actually think he's a catfish if he's even male-identified. But that's another story for another thread.)

My general rule of thumb (applied to many different situations, not just sex) is that once is a fluke, twice is a problem and three times is the Universe sending me a message.

Is a relationship with a cumdump just a pipedream that I should give up? Has anyone had such a relationship that was successful? Would self-identified cumdumps be interested in such a relationship? Or should I listen to the Universe's message that I shouldn't be in such a relationship?

In this case, I think you could make it work. You seem like an idea partner for a cumdump. It's always about finding the right "fit" with any relationship. Good luck!!

My answer depends on the scenario. It's not necessarily that I always go to the same "spank bank" of material etc.

I try to live in the moment and express my satisfaction to each sexy hard cock presented to me and to thank him by being the most accommodating and horny slut possible for him to rut it out into. After all, it is about helping him to achieve his best possible orgasm and my "reward" is his hardest, biggest, horniest, deepest, nutt.