PozBearWI

When I try to relate; I cannot imagine my parents even coming close to that sort of dialogue.  Not a complaint, just an expression that I am struggling to relate to that as something parents that I knew might have come close to having with me.  

One of the delights is how my cock smells when I roll back my foreskin

Thanks guys.  Indeed, it most likely is a combination of all three.  Fortunately there is a big part of me that at least recognizes interest; even if MrHappy doesn't care to join me.  

I am puzzled how since I had cryptosporidium infection; and subsequently started HIV meds, my libido is just gone...  A part of my mind remains interested, yet a part of me still is just sort of yawning at that which would have been something I was always ready to enjoy.  WTF just happened?  Is it the massive political noise that fills every waking hour?  Was it a side effect of the crypto?  Does Dovato contain libido suppressing medications?  Is it simply my 78th trip around the sun I am on?  

I experience it as cognitive dissonance - back to a "who am I" time.

I've long taken the position of voting for whomever I find to be the "least worst".  If all of us did that more often than not each election will have the "least worst" voted in, regardless of other attributes.  

5 hours ago, Hungryforbbc said:

Nothing hotter than when I hold my breath as he pushes my head down to the base with him all the way down my throat and my lips pressed against his pelvic bone. I have a technique where I can work his dicl with my tongue and throat while he’s balls deep down my throat that keeps em coming back lol 

Taking a dick deep is easy for me, as long as I am the one sucking it in.  I don't respond well to being forced.  

I think "cheating" is simply lying about who we really are.  And while for many our social training would suggest that's what we need to do; life becomes so much better once we aren't hiding an ugly secret, but finding a mate whose thinking aligns with ours.  

What a terrific description of what is a fairly familiar "gay self" coming of age.  Quite similar to my own start although I wonder how things would have been different had I also started as a younger teen rather than a 20 year old guy?

Things are definitely a mess still.  But it's interesting as it won't take very many R's switching to I to dramatically shift the prevailing political winds.  

Why in this day and age would we want to stop barebacking?

Indeed Randy, truly enjoying that oral is a lot more than just a dick in my mouth.  And it is always a bit different for each man I suck off.  Being sucked off is it's own pleasure.  And for many, exchanging roles is a longer and ultimately more intimate time.  As the old song goes, love the one (we're ) with.  

4 hours ago, RandyCubby said:

Pretty sure I'm a sex addict. 

Truly?  Is your day to day life out of control?  Or do you enjoy an enviable supply of dick and the other parts of your life are working out OK?

Commedians:

David Nihill

Chad Daniels

Mark Normand

Sam Morril

I don't think me always saying "you know I'm poz right?" makes any good sense.  Especially being poz and on meds.  TasP was proof enough that we do not pose the risk in the raw sex time, at least regarding HIV.  Before I started meds; yes that made some sense to tell them they're taking a risk.  But I question anymore whether we really have an obligation to say that.  If we care enough about it we should bring it up.  If we don't care; it isn't like infection is likely.  When we kiss, do we make sure we say "you know it is flu season right?".  

I understand why back in the 80's that made sense to put an onus on the poz guys to inform.  There wasn't a good "poz and on meds" going on back then.  But HIV manifests in society now in massively different ways than then.  And certainly the onus should no longer be on the poz guy.  

I got my PA now about 15 years ago.  Pretty much reflects my own experience although back then they just would not start me at a 6; so that's pretty cool to just start out there.  But indeed a lot more damage in the bigger hole; so it makes sense you bled for a couple of days; obviously less over time.  

Starting at a 12, the bleeding was very little and just for a couple of hours.  Upsizing of course takes time.  I probably pushed that envelope a bit too aggressively, and don't recommend anyone else do that.  

Jewelry though didn't start to get comfortable until I got into 8g.  Over time I got to 0, and then eventually settled on 6 as comfortable all the time.  Each cock will find it's most comfortable size.  

1 hour ago, Pozguyinchi said:

Oh they wouldn’t work for me. I like to be piggy when it’s hot.

If we ever meetup there, I'll make it a point to keep you warm...  ☺️

True @Pozguyinchi, my most piggy fun was at the Island House "video" room with the convenient big bed, sling.  There is only one way to warm up at Kenosha; room temps aren't going to do it...  Skin on skin a survival requirement there!  😀  

1 hour ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I have only ever known it as steamworks. It has really never changed.

Before it was named Steamworks, it was known as The Unicorn (club).  I never heard the word "club" when we talked about it, but I'm sure it registered as a business as The Unicorn Club.  

From our POV @bikerarmpits; as we aren't privy to the actual conversation or gestures between the to guys; we really can only conjecture.

Further, even if the poz guy is viral and the neg guy is not on PrEP; the one who wants to know has an obligation to ask.  If neither asks then they've consented by default.  To your fine what-if question, infection from that bottom is pretty slim.  But risk I don't thing comes into play.  So one tried to increase his pleasure by coaxing the tops load, so what?  Except to them, it doesn't matter; and if our sex mate doesn't ask; it isn't our job to change the conversation from a hot sexual encounter to one having to educate the other on HIV risk is it?

Yes, I do see that uptick.  The whole focus on BBC, or Hispanic cock, etc.  I've enjoyed men of all stripes and honestly, it's the man not his race that make a difference.  

41 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

Midtowne Milwaukee was always good for me when I was working in Milwaukee.

Indeed, while not the best place, it was pretty good and I always had a good time at Midtowne in Milwaukee.

My last load was mine, into the palm of my left hand which I licked clean.

I love steamworks, but it wasn't the first bathhouse I went to.  That dubious honor goes to the very grungy Kenosha Baths.  

@RandyCubby much the same Randy, and indeed craps count as bugs.  The one I hate the most....

Adams apple, beard shadow

Indeed @norefusal; the backroom isn't granted to newbies.  One gains some experience on the site; and the site with the new member before backroom is granted.  Unless something has changed...  I'll grant it's been awhile for me so perhaps entry is a little different?  Mods?