PozBearWI

PIck up some aloe vera at the store, or in your yard if you live in an aloe friendly climate.  The gel inside is a really good lube.

Some years ago a fellow in a company business meeting cruised me from across the conference table.  Directly propositioned during our coffee break.

I've only met one who wouldn't.

and often in our minds we overstate the risk.  that HVL poz load might have as much as a 2% chance of infecting us.  True, a chance.  But a 98% chance it won't.

@Heir2012 any particular one you find better than others?

Thanks @SomewhereonNeptune.  Whether I have something nasty in my balls is subjective.  I rather love knowing my cum contains HIV.  I don't think of that as nasty at all.  Infections from fucking certainly happen, but it is definitely the exception and not the rule.  And; if the guy I fuck or fucking me doesn't want to talk about it, I should?  

I have a play party I am going to on the 16th. I think I'll just play and not fret it.  

@Naive man you're doing a fine job brother.  Please continue.

Intriguing setup.  Please continue, mystery and sex???  Sweet!!!

5 hours ago, Slipitupme said:

 

Thanks for the comment. I also haunted some toilets when I was younger and loved taking cock and sperm in my bottom. I might write about that soon

My thinking when I read this was driving through Wisconsin on 2lane roads, typically on my motorcycle.  Back then there were frequent rest stops.  Places to pull off the road and pee (or more if that's the case).  While Wisconsin is even still a pretty state to drive through; it was particularly nice then.  Green hills and forests...  Twisty turny roads.  And roadside stops.  Some with messages written on the walls.  In fact, often with messages.  That was part of my fun.  And every so often an unexpected guy to get off with.  More like pee and unload stops in that case.  

Wisconsin highway department has largely eliminated those to fewer and farther apart.  I know of only one southbound on I43.  And nothing on the two lanes...  Ditto going N to Green Bay, just the one stop on I43.  Similar with I41 and I94.  Easier for state police to patrol.  And I am pretty certain monitored on cam now.  

In today's scene, I don't know how play happens at those stops.

I am still blocking myself.  On one hand, everyone can control whether or not they infect and still enjoy raw sex.  So perhaps as an unmedicated poz guy I should just stop thinking about it???  Maybe if they bring it up, great, else focus on the sex?  Feedback appreciated.

TBH I would rather an in-person demonstration than a written account.

39 minutes ago, Erik62 said:

Subversive speech💬 😱!!! There is no doubt that Disturbed Donnie will be sending you to Alcatraz. We'll keep answering your comments 😂😂😂👍. 

Yep, I 'spect so...  

1 hour ago, PupBoiRapeSlut said:

You’re only too greedy if you stop trying 

my first toy was an 8” as well that I found abandoned outside

Found items that were likely in/or on another guy's body are particularly hot.  I like knowing they were used by another before me.  

Following the US Constitution, regardless of the meaningless words spoken at ones oath of office, seems to have gone by the wayside.  Obviously we're great again.  The great lawlessness of the 1800's when our 100 year old nation was stumbling again.  How often do we have to repeat until we learn that we can run a thriving society.  

I'm obviously not on donnie's side, and I'm aware this may now land me in a Central American lockup, without a trial.  My ilk hasn't hit yet, but our dictator has decreed home growns are next.  

Bottom line, there is absolutely no certainty about any of our futures.  Enough of us are going to have to convince the sitting Republicans that continuing their current path won't get them relected.  And then we have to work to make sure a 2026 election even happens and is recognized.  

On 4/29/2025 at 11:47 PM, Pozguyinchi said:

I have commented on this before but I think it’s worth nothing that to be a true bottom you need to expect that you are a receptacle for anything that a man wants to put in you. I just got back from Europe and found I have chlamydia again. This is the second time this year. I expect I will have it at least once again. The down side is that I am out of commission for a couple of weeks. Not ideal but it happens. Over the years I have had countless STI’s they don’t always show themselves the same each time so it’s good to recognize the symptoms when you have them. Bottom line is that men are men and this happens. 

This is where doxyPEP can help.  Take it when needed, not daily.  So unless we're living at the baths, in which case a monthly STI panel makes sense, it deals with that stuff without the weeks of downtime.

There are a lot of ways we can speak truth without crossing lines.  BUT, I agree everytime we put arbitrary rules of "you can't say that..." we inhibit free albeit inappropriate perhaps expression.  But rather than grapple with the inappropriate words we prohibit them.  That might not be our best path....

I never kept a journal.  1,000 would not be unreasonable.  10,000 probably would be unreasonable.

2 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

Thanks to the progress of medical science, we're alllllllmost all the way there.  One of these days, condoms will be a thing of the past for us.  

The only guys I know wearing condoms also wear masks...

4 minutes ago, Falls727 said:

Exactly. I’m perfectly average at 6” and it gets hard and cums buckets of semen. I’ve never had a complaint from any guy I’ve fucked. As a bottom, I don’t want a pole vaulter’s pole up my ass. I’ve had some very big guys and it hurts a lot. I want to feel the guy close to me, deep inside and hitting all my good spots. Everyone has their definition of a perfect size and they are completely entitled to their opinion. I simple want the connection between me and the guy and a huge dick does not always allow for that. 

And it would be a delight to enjoy a three way flip fuck with both of you.

My all time best fuck ever was from a U+ guy with a modest dick.  We're still friends even though he moved to Atlanta. 

@hntnhole indeed good guys on here.

12 minutes ago, ErikRaw said:

Having suffered chicken pox as an adult, along with multiple poison ivy outbreaks, I recommend a blow dryer for the itching in between baths and showers.  Much better than scratching!

Interesting.  Something we might try if we have to.  I'm immune to poison ivy.  Maybe it just got tired of trying???  LOL  Still I wear gloves and do wash up when I come inside.  I wonder if that technique would apply to shingles (should that occur)?

11 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

Once you have done the course of treatment (usually penicillin injections, either 1 dose or 3 doses at intervals) your RPR titer (quantitative RPR test that gives you a number rather than positive or negative) will level off or start going down. A stable or declining value indicates no active infection. It's a fairly lame test and I don't know why they don't have a better DNA based test, but I researched it a bit and couldn't find any such thing. Might be time to get access to a university library.

That sounds like the same theory with mGen.  Treat, will always be poz for it.  Seems like something our researchers left behind...  Clearly we could do better...

I'm of the same mind @Bokkierob.  Although I am unlikely to send anyone to prison in a foreign country if they don't.  Just that I am in the no condoms no exceptions camp.  I am fine if a guy wants to move onto someone else if he doesn't agree.  

12 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

Those questions are definitely things to ask your doctor.

Syphilis varies in infectiousness depending on the stage of the disease. As I understand it, it's typically more contagious when there are skin lesions.

Contrary to @Electricterror's comment, doxyPEP is fairly effective against syphilis. The only trouble is that people often don't know they have it, so you are in the dark about whether you need to use it or not.

Your syphilis antibody test will always be positive from now on. Your RPR test may or may not return to negative (mine sometimes is and sometimes isn't). You have now joined the club of people who get to wonder whether they have been reinfected or just have antibodies from before. Sadly, the available tests are not great at distinguishing that. C'est la guerre.

Thanks brother.  I would think doxyPEP each time one has raw play should keep it from reinfecting.  I'll have to discuss this with my HIV doc when I see him next month.