I've had a similar problem when I whore out my boys and I no longer allow them to be selective. It is indeed much work putting gangbangs together or even pulling a few guys in off bbrt with a quick connect ad. Unfortunately, If I post a party ad on bbrt in advance, the dumphole can see who will be attending making it more difficult to control, but I found a solution. I just block him so he can't see the ad at all. I have bigger etiquette problems from the top breeder guests attending. I'm always blown away how so many of these guys are clueless and disrespectful. I've learned that if this is for a large gangbang with advanced notice, I do not post the bottom's profile name otherwise a lot of these guys try to contact him separately. Generally, if the description I give of the boy isn't good enough for them, then I decline their invitation. On some occasions, I may email a pic at my discretion, but only if you mind your manners and are respectful of my control. This is MY boy and it's still not a free-for-all...My boy is taking loads for MY pleasure and I choose who loads him. I will only post the boy's profile name if he is there with me and it's a quick connect ad where I can monitor both our profiles. I also only put together groups at a sleazy motel or at the boy's house if he wants. If at a motel, I only give out the room number when the top contacts me from the parking lot so I can manage crowd control. At motels, I only do dump & go's and don't want guys hanging around...don't want a raid. I don't do group gangbang sex parties unless at the boy's house. I welcome any thoughts.