How to become a better top

[thick]

Learn to rim like its your last meal. spank their ass when your fucking them. take dik pills so u stay rock hard. grab their head when they blow u. talk dirty to them. end of story

[hungry_hole]

Learn to rim like its your last meal. spank their ass when your fucking them. take dik pills so u stay rock hard. grab their head when they blow u. talk dirty to them. end of story

Very good advice...don't forget to talk dirty, especially when you are getting ready to shoot your load.

[slobbtop]

Learn to keep fucking and stay hard after you cum. That way it doesn't matter how fast you shoot.

[tallslenderguy]

a purposeful fuck makes me crazy with desire. i usually go for anonymous and like to have things planned out ahead of time so there is no talking when a guy comes over, he just finds me naked, ready and waiting for his cock and load. I like to feel his desire. I can always tell when a guy is totally into ass vs. a guy who is copying something he saw on a cheap porn movie. love it when a guys cock is an extension of his whole self. and, speaking for myself, it doesn't bother me at all if a guy cums quickly. after all, i want his load and his cumming fast means he was turned on by the hole experience. i think what a couple of the guys have said is generally true, bottoms are often pleasers and get off on knowing that the guy that fucked them really wanted and enjoyed.

[kpig]

i'd say quit thinking about it so much, don't worry about the bottom that creates performance anxiety. don't get to involved with technics( create your own ) if its a good true bottom than it should be one of the very few things in life where you can feel its all about you and not feel guilty aqbout it.relax,and enjoy yourself

[huntingcub]

i wouldn't be worrying about it! as the bottom is there serving you your in charge of the destiny of the outcome! you technique and drive or performance is totally in your head! as a bottom you know what you like so try that but also don't be afraid of pushing the guys limit as it is what he is wanting! so to be fair just get in there and don't worry pump the guys arse full of juice and move on..

[Whitebutt]

Personally, I think it's all about communication and reading the sexual energy that is shared between the 2 guys. I've never understood "I have to bottom to be a better top" or vice versa. For me, it's all about the energy.

I totally agree with this. While I've been fucked very well by some versatiles, the total tops have been at least as good. It's all about communication, both verbal and body language. Being a bottom with lots of experience I "listen" to the tops needs and also communicate what is good for me. That makes the sex that much hotter.

And yes, stay away from those poppers, they kill the sex for me.