[Billy Twee] The Wonderful World of Robby Mendez

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'The Wonderful World of' was/is a construct of the 20th century...the media slipped into the wonderful world of this or that, everything short of psoriasis was described in terms of a wonderful world, e.g., The Wonderful World of Rice Pudding. I prefer 'The Strange World of...' but that is for another blog. Today, I'm using this outdated phraseology to describe the status of porn star turned entrepreneur pornographer Robby Mendez. You know Robby from his association with RawStrokes, where he superby played the role of submissive Latino sex toy for a series of megahung, aggressive black tops. That was the formula: LA barrio boy gets stuffed by big black banana dicks. Robby is short with a thin build and a buzzcut, a flaco and we didn't see much emotion coming out of him, but there wasn't a big cock that he couldn't take, and he was fed a steady diet of massive ebony love, to be sure. Robby is definitely a member of my own personal Bareback Bottom Hall of Fame.

Robby has launched his own website with blog, calendar, videos and some free teaser video previews of sex parties he's hosted at this home in Los Angeles. I advise you to check it out and you'll see what a charmer Robby actually is; a revelation apart from his subdued performances documented by Rawstrokes. Robby's promoting his parties through barebackrt's party listings, and there's one scheduled for this Saturday. And if the past is any clue, there will be a couple of live sex shows featuring Robby and featured guest tops. These parties are open to barebackrt correspondents, but he says nobody under 21 or over 42 years old. Such a weird cut off date, Robby, but it is your wonderful world and you're entitled to design it the way you want. Hung tops and sizzling bottom bois of a certain age, like me, will have to content ourselves with joining the website and watching the action from our laptops. Trust me, Robby, you are making a mistake!!

Anyway, some of his website is free, including his bi-lingual comments on contemporary sex culture, so enjoy Robby in any way you can. That's wonderful, for a start.

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[HungLatinDom]

mmmmm

Big disappointment. Ageism really, really, turns me off. Big time

[seaguy]

Having seen scenes from his first party I recommend.

[Hotload84]

mmmmm

Big disappointment. Ageism really, really, turns me off. Big time

Good point, HungLatinDom. The energy and competence on display at sex party scenes on Robby Mendez's website is impressive, but you're right - the arbitrary age-cutoff is utterly inexplicable. My experience is that sexual attractiveness and competence is not a function of age.

[FelchingPisser]

Good point, HungLatinDom. The energy and competence on display at sex party scenes on Robby Mendez's website is impressive, but you're right - the arbitrary age-cutoff is utterly inexplicable. My experience is that sexual attractiveness and competence is not a function of age.

I didn't hit my sexual stride as a really good top until my mid 40's.....his loss.....

[seaguy]

He just posted this on Facebook today:

[h=5]Robby Mendez

"Real talk" To my older and out of shape guys. Single or partnered. Get in shape, love yourself, and be happy of what you have:

Love can be very difficult. Most of the gay world is about looks and age. I don't really know you, but I have to be honest with you. Try to get in better shape, everything is possible if you really want to make it happen. If you don't want to do it for that reason then do it for yourself. I don't mean you to have a six pack, but at least slim. Open your heart to people around your age. I seem so many clients friends trying to hook up with younger guys. Nothing wrong with that, but that's not love. Meet friends, hang out with people who loves you. Remember love doesn't has to be sexual. Having a partner could be very nice and most of the times very difficult (the reason I'm single now) try to be happy with what you have. There's nothing you can do if guys don't love you back. Be real, be honest to yourself and you might find happiness even if its with yourself."

Edited November 29, 2012 by Hotload84

[Hotload84]

He just posted this on Facebook today:

[h=5]Robby Mendez

"Real talk" To my older and out of shape guys. Single or partnered. Get in shape, love yourself, and be happy of what you have:

Love can be very difficult. Most of the gay world is about looks and age. I don't really know you, but I have to be honest with you. Try to get in better shape, everything is possible if you really want to make it happen. If you don't want to do it for that reason then do it for yourself. I don't mean you to have a six pack, but at least slim. Open your heart to people around your age. I seem so many clients friends trying to hook up with younger guys. Nothing wrong with that, but that's not love. Meet friends, hang out with people who loves you. Remember love doesn't has to be sexual. Having a partner could be very nice and most of the times very difficult (the reason I'm single now) try to be happy with what you have. There's nothing you can do if guys don't love you back. Be real, be honest to yourself and you might find happiness even if its with yourself."

Thanks, Seaguy, for providing Robby's Facebook posting. Robby's remarks are clearly not intended to be hurtful, and may contain medical advice, but I get the impression he's sticking with his guns, so to speak.

[Guest pozbtm1967]

that is of course if you are like so many older poz guys that suffer lipodystrophy from old HIV meds and that 'getting in shape' clause is rather difficult. If it wasn't for those individuals and what they went through in taking older meds and dealing with the side effects the newer meds wouldn't be out there... it's absolute lack of consciousness on his part.

[TustinBB]

AZT was a stone cold bitch. Unfortunately even it arrived too late to save many of my friends, I went to 13 funerals in 1 year. I got pozed in the early 80's. I'm 52 now (hell, I never thought I'd see my 30's) and am still discovering odd side effects, low/lack of appetite, low endurance, difficulty putting on muscle and a flat ass that I am having a hard time getting rid of. God I miss my bubble butt. I know some guys from "the old days" who have no padding in their ass at all making it difficult to sit for any length of time, although there is now some padded underwear made specifically for them.

[RobbyMendez]

Sorry guys. I just wanted to apologize. Like any other group I was trying to keep my selective group happy. I'm human and I make mistakes. Last year I decided to open my parties to everybody. In Los Angeles area with a membership card (everybody is welcome after becoming a member) and actually I'm having two pool parties at CCBC in Palm Springs on May 4th and 5th and yes everybody is welcome. June 8th and 9th for fistorama.com weekend at CCBC. I noticed nobody complain when I open my parties to the public so I welcome you and sorry to hear about the lost of your friends and love ones. It makes me sad. I want to say thank you for making this world a better place. Hope to see you soon guys. I love you all. Muah!

[Guest pozbtm1967]

I can see that Robby... I admire your work, as a fellow bottom, and your openness in doing what you love. I have thought about going to fist o rama myself...