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Oldest Barebacker on here?


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Hope its okay to ask, I certainly am not ageist, love the older guy.

Just curious as to who would be the oldest barebacker on here, maybe a guy in his 70/80s?

Would love to know what decade they first barebacked in and what sort of environment it was in and how they got or gave loads in that not so open time.

Hope on-one is offended, just curious on my part.

Thanks.

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Getting closer to 60 than I wish I were... Hopefully that doesn't make me the oldest. :)

Most of us in my age range started before AIDS/HIV became the topic of our community. So we really didn't think twice about bare. After all, we weren't going to get pregnant. And the contact (that all of us on this site love) of skin on skin sex was "normal".

I never went through the condom phase. I tried once, absolutely hated them and never looked back. The 70's were surprizingly open, more than most understand. We weren't on TV (in a positive light) nor much in the media at all except for gay rights. Even in early 80's, when AIDS was new and not much was known, most didn't leap to condom sex as a solution.

Now, as all of us here know there are some who think we're nuts for bare sex. Condom sex has become the "norm". But, the resurgence of sites like this and others seem to be taking "action" away from the mainsteam "safe sex" sites. It will be interesting to see how our community evolves as more and more return to skin on skin sex....

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I am 71, and have barebacked since sometime in the 70's . AM still taking it raw, occasionally someone will want to use a condom but I usually refuse them and most times they will take it off. As to where I got my contacts, I dont see it as much different then today. Bars, now more elaborate and called clubs, and known places of gay cruising, parks, bookstores, and theaters (sex ones). There were also the precursors of todays baths and the like. Was in the military and had several contacts inteh 60's and 70 but very discrete, and the claim of being drunk and what the hell did we do last night. Often led to future contacts with less alcohol involved. I had my first bareback at a very tender age from a 33y/o man, now deceased, not from HIV but a motorcycle accident. He was 3 times my age but I was very much more endowed that he was. I matured very early in life, in fact so early that I was taken to physicans to be checked out to see if I was "normal" which I wasnt. To day they have a medical diagnosis for and the name slips my mind. 3 inches hard was not difficult for a preteen to take. At that time I was shaving everyday, and had many other chances to get meat but was shy and scared and lived in a very small town with puritanical ideals. I am still taking it bareback, in fact I just came back from Houston this AM where I was for 3 days and got used 4 times. I probably could or should be called a pig or slut. Cant be a whore as I dont charge for it. Will take a dick anytime or day.

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I'll be 51 soon and when I came out was on the cusp of the age of AIDS, so just as I was learning about sex and how to enjoy it things became complicated very fast. Since I was in a relationship from 21 to 29, it was a open relation and I did have a time of trying to play safe when enjoying some extracurricular activities. However, there were slips now and again where I ended up with some strangers load up my ass.

After the first the stress and anxiety were so bad I ended up with stress eczema, though I thought it was scabes until I saw a dermatologist because the usual cures weren't working.

As my relationship began ending in my late 20s, these slips became more frequent and less accidental.

When it finally ended when I was 29, I said to myself "fuck it" and became a confirmed barebacker. If I was in the closet about anything, it was the bug chasing. This was now 1991 and it was simply not discussed about the barebackering community, though that seems to be a very important word for a bunch of horny pigs fucking the day lights out of each other in a porn theater.

When I got my first Internet and AOL accounts around '93/94 I quickly began to discover there were others like me and I soon had terms to describe the things I did like "bareback" and "bug chase." It was still clandestine, but every once in a while I'd meet someone who not only would do these things but discuss them. The first other bug chaser I encountered was in an AOL chat room...a bear bottom from Texas...and I remember him asking if I was into "fun cum."

Now that a younger and even more connected generation has made things much more open within the online sex community.

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I'm 58. To quote Toby Keith, "I ain't as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was."

Whatever sexual deficiencies I may have I think I make up for in stamina. I can fuck hole literally for hours. I have plans to keep on doin' it. The sooner the better.

The bottom's age is unimportant to me - except he be of legal age. The youngest man I ever fucked was 24 and the oldest 81. Both were great.

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Great interesting reads Gents, many thanks for taking the time to post.

I am so curious as to the past decades, the sort where people may have to have been ultra discreet, Cottages were open 24/7 etc.

Just a feel for the excitement moreso i guess and i should not be watching Joe Orton 'prick up your ears' and the 'naked civil servant' films.

Love to hear some of the past decades stories and encounters fellas.

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I went to a fetish piss party at a guys house (maybe 20 people) once and there was an older man there that had to be around 90, he was slim but you could just tell the way he moved and how he looked that he was very old. God bless him for being out there, I gave the old guy some piss.

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