BabyBobby Posted May 25, 2013 Report Share Posted May 25, 2013 Yes keep him in chastity, his cock might try to get hard but it won't. Get the smallest device you can fit on him. I keep myself locked up. For me it is all about the top. I do take it off if a top wants to play with my cock or of course when I am the top. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sublondon Posted May 30, 2013 Author Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 any drugs / hormones that could work on me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrotherDeposit Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Hey sub. I once had a CyberMaster. He was good about getting into my "head." Once you have someone in your head, they can train you psychologically, ONCE you give in to the process. For me, it was about finding someone who could get into my head and (subsequently) train me to do what he wanted. I think it's possible to remain soft during sex BUT you have to have someone who can get you there >> psychologically. Understand? any drugs / hormones that could work on me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dickluva Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Electro bands. shock the shit out of your cock & you won't get hard for a day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbBetapup Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 at least you can get it up when you get fucked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearbandit Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Isn't it kinda disrespectful wanting to stay soft while getting fucked? The message you're sending is a big yawn and hurry up and get it over with. Compare that to getting a raging hardon while getting fucked. Shit this man is pushing so many buttons in your head - he cums, you clean him off and he leaves. Which is the more humiliating? Which tells the Top more about you appreciated his attention? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whoai Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Isn't it kinda disrespectful wanting to stay soft while getting fucked? The message you're sending is a big yawn and hurry up and get it over with. Compare that to getting a raging hardon while getting fucked. Shit this man is pushing so many buttons in your head - he cums, you clean him off and he leaves. Which is the more humiliating? Which tells the Top more about you appreciated his attention? I know not everyone feels this way, but I couldn't agree more. I don't want a uninterested, limp-dicked hole to fuck. If I wanted that, I'd just use a Fleshlight. A bottom that gets and stays hard while I fuck him, maybe even cums from getting fucked is so much better. I like the feedback, the human contact. Then again, as far as guys in this forum go, I'm touchy-feely. I have no problems giving a reach-around or, even better, have the bottom sit on my cock facing me so he can cum on me while I cum in him. Sex, for me, is about human to human contact, not top to more-or-less inanimate object contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearbandit Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Thank you, Sir! I can think of no higher praise from a man than to have the cum literally fucked out of me. To do that to another man is such a rush of power and trust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbsam Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 I'm a bottom and there sometimes seems to be no logic to whether my cock stays hard or soft when i'm getting fucked! It's like my dick has a mind of it's own, sometimes i'm rock hard and sometimes totally limp. However, if I am soft it doesn't mean i'm enjoying it any less. The sex feels amazing (most of the time!) and I will usually get hard and cum at some point. I also quite enjoy the humilation aspect of getting fucked while soft. There's something quite demeaning about my limp, little dick flailing around wildly whilst i'm getting pounded and I also get off on seeing this in porn sometimes. I guess when I am soft, it just feels to me like i'm a totally submissive fucktoy who is there only for the pleasure of the top. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrotherDeposit Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 I don't think it's disrespectful for a bottom to be soft when he's getting bred. More and more I see blog posts and stories about raw bottoms that DELIGHT in not touching their cock during sex, wearing a jock during sex etc. The idea is to concentrate on the pleasure of the TOP! Isn't it kinda disrespectful wanting to stay soft while getting fucked? The message you're sending is a big yawn and hurry up and get it over with. Compare that to getting a raging hardon while getting fucked. Shit this man is pushing so many buttons in your head - he cums, you clean him off and he leaves. Which is the more humiliating? Which tells the Top more about you appreciated his attention? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deaner Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 I think it was Sean Storm that said, "I really enjoy chocolate cake, but I don't get hard every time I eat it... sometimes there are easier ways to tell if I'm enjoying sex than whether I've got a boner or not" In my own experience, I've seen guys get hard and even cum while still managing to seem completely bored, disinterested and lifeless. I've also seen guys be incredible fucks -completely enjoying themselves and their partner- without ever getting hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KptNLine Posted July 11, 2013 Report Share Posted July 11, 2013 Chastity has worked great for me in terms of limiting my ability to get hard or even get erections at all. My Top and I have used a combination of chastity, CBT and orgasm denial to focus all my sexual energy away from my cock and towards my ass. When I am unlocked (which happens only very rarely), I almost always stay soft. Occasionally I will get a start to get a weak semi-erection, but a quick slap to my balls from my Top fixes that. I have learned to experience anal orgasms during sex, which occasionally make me ejaculate. When I cum this way, I don't "shoot," but the cum simply dribbles out in a slow steady stream. This type of orgasm is fantastically satisfying, but usually leaves me feeling just as horny as when I started. My Top loves my constant craving for His cock, and I love knowing that the pleasure I experience with Him has absolutely nothing to do my cock. For me, being locked or soft doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it. It just means that my little limp dick has nothing to do with my pleasure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokocreams Posted July 11, 2013 Report Share Posted July 11, 2013 (edited) A chastity device should do the trick...prevent that pesky erection. I use it to good results!!! I am a total sub bottom and hate getting an erection...all pleasure should come through sodomozing my anus or nipple stimulation. The first time l achieved an orgasm and cum oozed from my caged dick, was a huge milestone. I am not a man in bed, l am a submissive pussiboi...l am meant for breeding. My dick is and should be a nuisance and afterthought. Chastity helps me achieve this soft state. I would think a cock cage would prevent an erection. Initial investment depending on the type you purchase but you'll have a very long time and the way it keeps your dick it isn't possible to get an erection. Maybe if you wear it long enough you naturally wont get an erection anymore. But you would proably need a key holder so you couldn't take it off yourself. Edited July 11, 2013 by kokocreams Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cumfilledbottomboi Posted January 10, 2014 Report Share Posted January 10, 2014 I don't think it's disrespectful for a bottom to be soft when he's getting bred. More and more I see blog posts and stories about raw bottoms that DELIGHT in not touching their cock during sex, wearing a jock during sex etc. The idea is to concentrate on the pleasure of the TOP! This would be me. I love that I can cum (often in jock or thong) without touching myself while being bred. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpozdad Posted January 10, 2014 Report Share Posted January 10, 2014 Your hard-on is mental, so just think of your mommy giving you an enema in your ass -- concentrate just on the anal sensation --- and you dont wanna get hard for your mother, do you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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