Straight Guys

[Blueyedsoul]

That's fucking hot!

[cougkdc99]

Quote from my straight roommate this morning, prior to him taking my hole again before work. "I don't know dude, I'm not gay, but when I see your ass, my dick takes over, and for some reason I just want to pound my nut into you!" He bent me over the couch, pull his dick out of his zipper and fucked till he nutted. I love it when I guy stays clothed while he fucks-its always a rough hard fucking;)

[fieldpussy]

My straight roommate (who fucks me regularly) said it like this, "its so much easier to fuck a guy, you don't have to warm a guy up, a guy knows how to suck dick, a guy knows how to rim, a guy has a tighter hole than a chick, you can't get a guy pregnant, a guy can take it longer and harder than any chick, and a guy is always horny as fuck!" This was after he brought home a chick that he had to take to dinner first, watch a chick flick, wrap his dick in a condom prior to fucking her for 10 minutes in which she exclaimed that his dick was too thick and it was hurting her, he didn't even get off and spent 4+ hours and $60 for dinner. Completely frustrated he came into my room got an 30 minute blow job, got rimmed, then bred the hell outta me twice, the first time lasting over an hour....and it didn't cost him a thing and he got satisfaction.

I can nothing but strongly confirm that. I had quite some fuckbuddies who were just so pissed and fed up from these issues that they rather took my ass instead - even though many of them had to close their eyes and think of pussy to get hard or to cum, some even had to watch straight porn while they fucked me.

I once had a roommate who knew that I fuck girls but that I also like to get my ass treated. When he had been single for a while he came over to me asking for a fuck, because he was short of money and couldn't take a girl out. I agreed, cuz I was horny and knew he had a nice tool. But I could feel that he was not really comfortable in encountering with a man. He didn't touch me more than necessary.

Anyhow, many guys have certain attitudes regarding things like anal and even blowjobs. Many straight guys consider the role of giving head to be humiliating, and receiving dick anal is even worse of course. They really get off by talking about girls who suck dick, swallow cum, and take dick into their ass. I know some guys who played that role on me too :-)

[GermanFucker]

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]I love straight guys' date=' but when there dicks are buried in man ass and all they can think about is depositing their nut juice, are they really straight and what are they thinking?

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If a man who usually sleeps with women, is willing to put his dick into a man's ass or mouth, he isn't straight, he's bisexual. Period. Simple as that.

Depending on where he falls on the (Kinsey) spectrum, it is possible that he enjoys fucking a guy even more than fucking his wive, but sticks with her due to social conventions. Or it can simply be a matter of a combination of horniness, alcohol and the availability of a male ass and the guy fantasizes about wet pussy the whole time while pounding manhole. Sexuality is indeed fluid that way. But if someone is "really" truly heterosexual (i.e. he falls into the very heterosexual end of the spectrum), he wouldn't fuck around with guys.

So when you talk about "straight" in this context, what you are talking about bisexuals who are either (at least slightly) more into women, so that they usually have no need to seek out sex with men, or whose lives are dictated by social pressure to conform.

I'm always amazed (or should I say amused?) how in the US heterosexuality is more of a social concept than a sexual reality. To quote Tony Kushner's "Angels in America": "Because what I am is defined entirely by who I am. [i am] not a homosexual. [i am] a heterosexual man who fucks around with guys." I believe this indeed has to do with the fact that the traction the fundamentalist notion that you can choose your sexuality has gained traction within the public discourse. It's the other side of the same coin. Just as fundamentalists believe that being gay is a choice, they are willing to accept that you're straight as long as you declare that you are, so that they don't have to concern themselves with the somewhat more complicated and murky reality.

[Deaner]

Why the discussion of whether he is straight/bi/gay??? Does it really matter?

In the end, the only things that really matter are: is he horny? Is he hot? Does he have a cock? Is he willing to fuck?

I don't think that any of us spend any wakeless nights being concerned that Adam Levine is straight, yet we've all thought about having sex with him.

[GermanFucker]

In the end, the only things that really matter are: is he horny? Is he hot? Does he have a cock? Is he willing to fuck?

Well, agreed. It's just sex. Fucking around should be fun and not burdened with reading too much meaning into it.

However:

Why the discussion of whether he is straight/bi/gay??? Does it really matter?

It matters when someone's sex life is a lie wrapped in a delusion inside a deception, when someone is pretending to be things he is not and aspects of his double life begin to have a negative impact on others. It's not ok to be a bugchaser while pretending to be faithful to your wife. It's not ok to be an asshole to your children just because you have problems accepting you're bisexual.

As with everything: It usually doesn't matter - within reason.

I don't think that any of us spend any wakeless nights being concerned that Adam Levine is straight, yet we've all thought about having sex with him.

Speak of yourself, dude. I'd rather fuck Nick Jonas (well, I'd fuck Nick Jonas, period). Sure, Adam Levine is somewhat doable, but not someone I'd fantasize about.

[jcklvrga]

Germanfucker, do not assume that you know what is inside another man's life .... "It matters when someone's sex life is a lie wrapped in a delusion inside a deception, when someone is pretending to be things he is not and aspects of his double life begin..." It's not your job to judge another. This so called man of deception that you portray, may have integrity that you do not see.

There are bi men , who are married, who have integrity, who treat their children and wives more decently than you would ever imagine... I am one of those men, who by life circumstances, background, and god given desires, daily work out the delicate balance of responsibility and love for my family with desires to be with men too... You have no idea, whats in another mans life.

Don't judge.

[bbzh]

Interesting comments here. To me if you're only attracted to men and only seek them out for sex, then you're gay. If you're only attracted to females and only seek them out for sex, you're straight. Many men fall somewhere along the continuum. I think there might be a third axis here, which is how one self-identifies. I have never had sex with a woman but am occasionally interested in it. If I were to fuck a woman, it would not mean for a second that I was bisexual in my opinion. And I think the same would apply to a (straight) man who experiments with gay sex.

I do believe a lot more men than we think would experiment (with both sexes) under the right circumstances. I have slept with guys who have fucked my brains out but would never in a million years admit to having slept with a man. I've also run into guys that would fuck anything with a warm moist hole and will tell you so. I also have a fuckbud now that seems to switch with almost no effort between men and women.

I guess in the end I don't really care as long as I get what I want. Of course I wouldn't want to date and fall in love with a man who didn't self-identify as gay, but to make a long story short, as long as he is fucking me or bending over for me, I really could care less what he says or thinks he is when he is clothed.

[GermanFucker]

Germanfucker, do not assume that you know what is inside another man's life .... "It matters when someone's sex life is a lie wrapped in a delusion inside a deception, when someone is pretending to be things he is not and aspects of his double life begin..." It's not your job to judge another. This so called man of deception that you portray, may have integrity that you do not see.

There are bi men , who are married, who have integrity, who treat their children and wives more decently than you would ever imagine... I am one of those men, who by life circumstances, background, and god given desires, daily work out the delicate balance of responsibility and love for my family with desires to be with men too... You have no idea, whats in another mans life.

Don't judge.

You misread completely. I didn't judge. At all. My statement was in response to the question if there's a need for discussion. If you look at the echo Lee Daniel's recent statements had in the media, there sometimes can be such a need. As I said, it usually (as in "in most of the cases") really doesn't matter. Not to me or others. However, there are exceptions. And I listed two examples of criteria (there are others), when it begins to matter.

If these criteria don't apply to you, you needn't identify with them.

As to integrity: In the end there's isn't much difference between cheating on your boyfriend or your wife. Being bisexual doesn't make one morally superior or more acceptable than the other. What makes it forgivable is the fact that we're human. Men are cheating horndogs. Pure and simple. I've cheated on partners. With other cheaters. Bad, bad me. But it was hot. As I said: Most of the time I really, really don't give a flying fuck.

If one however strives for total integrity, that demands total honesty. It also means giving your wive / partner the same chance to look elsewhere. Which can end in open marriage or divorce. Because as long as there are lies involved, we either have to chalk it up to human fallibility. Or we are indeed living delusions if we keep pretending to be morally unassailable. One has to live by the standards one sets for oneself or else the self-deception will fuck one up in the end.

[Guest FinalDL2021]

On 8/25/2013 at 8:32 PM, bearbandit said:

Turn it round the other way: if I fucked a woman I'd just be thinking "Wish this was her husband/boyfriend" There's a difference between the orientation and the act. To paraphrase Gertrude Stein "a hole is a hole is a hole" which seems to be the level it works on in male male sex between a gay and a straight man. It's many years since I've done it, but I used to get the feeling that I was there to do stuff the wife wouldn't, like suck and take it up the ass. Pure physical release... you're just a better wank toy than he can get from the store.

I feel as though I  have gone full circle; I always labeled myself Bisexual for the sake of arguments, yet over the last couple of months, I have even been questioning that.  Since I moved back to the SF Bay Area, I  have fallen into a comfortable routine of going to the Baths, renting a room, then putting my ass in the air for whoever walks in.  This is the lowest common denominator of getting, what I truly want, my ass fucked and filled. Outside of that, I live a predominately straight lifestyle. I am separated, yet amicable with my wife, and we might be getting back together again. I don't like to kiss other men, or show any types of intimacy with men, they way I do with women, I just enjoy receptive anal sex.

[bibearbtm]

11 hours ago, Futile2Resist said:

I feel as though I  have gone full circle; I always labeled myself Bisexual for the sake of arguments, yet over the last couple of months, I have even been questioning that.  Since I moved back to the SF Bay Area, I  have fallen into a comfortable routine of going to the Baths, renting a room, then putting my ass in the air for whoever walks in.  This is the lowest common denominator of getting, what I truly want, my ass fucked and filled. Outside of that, I live a predominately straight lifestyle. I am separated, yet amicable with my wife, and we might be getting back together again. I don't like to kiss other men, or show any types of intimacy with men, they way I do with women, I just enjoy receptive anal sex.

I can totally relate. I feel like I’m bisexual for sex and straight for love. I feel no emotional connection with men, just women.  I love the connected sex with women but I also love taking it up the ass and getting bred by strangers. I’d love to be a no loads refused cumdump at a bathhouse sometime.  

[Guest]

I’ve started fooling around with a few “straight” guys at work.  As in they have  been fucking me a few times a week. 
I agree who cares about labels. But i’d be a liar if I said it didn’t turn me on so much that they identify as straight. 
 

[Pnpguyny]

On 8/30/2013 at 12:26 AM, cougkdc99 said:

I think my roommate has a VERY high sex drive. He's been working out more and more over the past 2 months and as he has gain more muscle there is more testosterone floating around which makes for a high sex drive. Most of our encounters have been right after he works out. Tonight for instance he worked out for 3 hours, came home, ate some protein, took a shower, then came looking for my hole(s). I blew him for about 30 mins, then tongued his ass (he loves that), then he railed me for about 45 mins (face down ass up), shot a huge load, now he's watching football;) High Sex Drive!

Life can't get much better then that 

[breedmypiggycunt]

I’ve been with a few straight guys in my time. In fact, for a long time, I described myself as a straight guy who enjoyed getting fucked by other men. In my case, I just didn’t want to be gay or bisexual and resisted the idea but pursued the sex because the act having another man take control of me sexually fulfilled me in a way that sex with a woman couldn’t. The reverse is true too though.

Aside from those who don’t want to admit to themselves that they’re gay, I’m convinced there are at least two other types of straight guy who have sex with men:

1. Blokes for whom a hole really is just a hole. @cougkdc99‘s housemate sounds like one of those guys. The question, I suppose, is whether they’ll realise as they get older they’re deceiving themselves and that they have an innate need for sex with other men. I’ve known a few who, many years later, seem the same. I know they believe it and I honestly think it’s true, especially if they just like BJs from blokes. The disqualifier here is if they’ve ever bottomed or been on the verge of doing that. I have friends who argue there are some straight men who enjoy anal play; I don’t see that in my experience.

2. Blokes who’ve had an especially intense relationship with another man and it’s spilled over into a sexual relationship at some point. But their sexual desire for other men literally relates to that person. Ironically it was a much younger but sexually very experienced ex who convinced me of this. He knew he was homosexual at a very young age but described his sexuality as “homosexual in every way except emotionally heterosexual”. That resonated with me at the time because I’d come to regard myself as physically bisexual (ie I enjoyed and needed sex with both) but only capable of an ‘emotional’ relationship with a woman.
 

There is, I believe, a third category: guys who, at one time or other, had sex out of necessity, ie gay for pay. To my mind, they’re usually reformed drug addicts or found themselves in situations where they felt they had no choice. Because it can be so difficult to tell after the fact where their mind was while doing it, it’s just not worth guessing (or fair to try to lift the lid off the top of that particular bottle).

[Guest]

I don't know if I am adding much to this conversation or not.  The way I see it is if a man does anything sexual with another man, he is not straight.  He could be bi but not straight.  Some of them will swear up and down that they are not gay.  I have had a lot of "straight" guys before.  No question that they are often Alpha masculine, and that's my type all the way. 🙂