Bottoms who don't get hard

[Grunt]

I have found it sometimes difficult to piss or cum when my hole is filled tight, like when I have a large butt-plug in. I think it presses against the plumbing and blocks it. Just an observation.

[MAIKOL20]

Gruntraq has it right. All of the bottom's energy should be directed toward those cunt muscles and milking the load out of the Top

ABSOLUTELY boycunt. That's what I do and love to do, use my cunt muscles and milk the top. I'm going for your challenge of 5 in an hour. Let's see what happens.

[Guest cardoc49]

Hi bnabottom: you are perfectly right: a hard bottom is a distraction to me, so please keep keeping yoru dick out of the picture:-)

[MAIKOL20]

gruntraq has it right. All of the bottom's energy should be directed toward those cunt muscles and milking the load out of the top

sooo right man !!!!

[Guest pumpndump]

i prefer to stay limp, i am busy enjoying the raw dick in my ass -that is how i get pleasure. It is my job to make the top cum, if i cum first i am done. and that is not fun if i haven't gotten the load yet

[MAIKOL20]

Gruntraq has it right. All of the bottom's energy should be directed toward those cunt muscles and milking the load out of the Top

I agree 100% with you boycunt. I just love to use my cunt muscles to get a great load. Makes the top want to use me more and more. Become one of his favorite breeding holes.

[PhoenixGeoff]

Heck, a raw cock pounding my ass is practically fucking guaranteed to get me hard and make me want to blow.

That can be a real problem when I'm the middleman, fucking a bottom and getting fucked by a top. It can be really hard to keep from shooting my load up the ass I'm fucking before I really want to.

[PhoenixGeoff]

I agree 100% with you boycunt. I just love to use my cunt muscles to get a great load. Makes the top want to use me more and more. Become one of his favorite breeding holes.

Yup. One of the best things I learned as a bottom was how to use my ass muscles to pleasure that raw cock pounding me. Every bottom should work on that skill (lots and lots of practice <g>) Course, from time to time, I'll piss off a top that shoots too soon because I milked his dick with my ass. Fortunately, that usually means a real grudge fucking as soon as he gets hard again. I'm not exactly sure why tops think that's something I won't enjoy even more...

[Slut4anyload]

I think the bottom bois have it right, of course. I used to be hard when fucked. Now, I'm generally not, yet my need for cock in my hole only ever increases. For the bottom the major sex organ is the asshole. That's our pleasure center, also the means to sexual fulfillment through pleasuring the cock and the load that is our reward. So get working on the ass muscles bois, cos you need to know how to milk a cock right.

[bnabottom]

Just bumping this to see if anyone has anything to add

[PhoenixGeoff]

It's really interesting reading how many bottoms here don't seem to get hard and have all their pleasure centered around their ass, not their cock. I really enjoy a good hard pounding myself, but I've always assumed that the best barometer of a guy's pleasure level is how hard his cock is, whether he's a top or a bottom.

I wonder if one of the things going unsaid here is that from what I've seen, a lot of the really intense barebacking power bottoms out there also use t, which turns the sex drive and craving to get fucked up to 11 and annihilates any inhibitions but also kills most guys' erections. That's certainly been my experience whenever I got fucked up. I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off my cock, but it wouldn't do me any good

When I do top, unless I'm really tearing him up and hurting him, or hitting somewhere inside him at just the wrong angle, I almost always get the bottom hard too. In fact, trying to put my cock in a guy before he gets hard can be difficult...if he's not turned on his hole is probably also too tight. On the other hand, the guys I fuck who don't get hard often look and act like they're high.

I also gotta say that I do like it when a bottom blows his load while my cock's buried in his ass. Even if he's really opened up well and been fucked for a while, most guys will clamp down pretty hard on your cock, which can be fun. I had one bf who would always squeeze me out of his ass as he came, even if I was buried to the hilt and braced for impact. He'd squeeze every last drop of cum out of me that way...that boy had obviously found the ass muscle machine at the gym!

I'd be interested to hear from bottoms who don't use any drugs and still don't get hard. Was it always like that? Do you still get hard under some circumstances, just not while getting plowed, or is your cock not a sexual organ to you at all (no JO, no cumming, nothing)?

[submissivefaggot]

I don't use drugs yet still have huge issues getting hard at all. Not unless I jack my dick really hard, whilst watching porn that really gets me off will I have a chance of getting an erection. The problem I have is that I cum quickly and always have done. I normally don't last long enough to cum whilst hard, which makes it even more embarassing. Several tops who've fucked me have actually laughed that I'm small, impotent and prematurely ejaculate, which only serves to deepen my sense that I'm only good as a bottom getting my hole torn up.

[SethChase]

I bottomed for a shoot (for BarebackPlace.com) earlier this week (something I really never do, bottoming that is) and was hard throughout most of it. The guy fucking me was Kyle. Something about knowing he was going to shoot his load up my ass really turned me on & kept me hard for most of it.

It's pretty normal for a bottom to not get hard while being fucked. However, there are few things hotter that when I'm fucking a guy and he blows his load at the same I'm shooting mine up his ass. With that said, I honestly don't care if the bottom is hard or soft. It's probably a bit selfish but when I'm topping someone, it's more about be shooting my load up their ass, them taking my load...

[bnabottom]

It's really interesting reading how many bottoms here don't seem to get hard and have all their pleasure centered around their ass, not their cock. I really enjoy a good hard pounding myself, but I've always assumed that the best barometer of a guy's pleasure level is how hard his cock is, whether he's a top or a bottom.

I'd be interested to hear from bottoms who don't use any drugs and still don't get hard. Was it always like that? Do you still get hard under some circumstances, just not while getting plowed, or is your cock not a sexual organ to you at all (no JO, no cumming, nothing)?

I don't use drugs. I can and do get hard in a lot of situations and often while being fucked but over the last few years I have consciously tried not to get hard. It is a distracction and might lead to cumming before the top which is a bad thing. You can definitely be turned on without being hard

[Ajinnyc7]

Good poll! I have to admit I was very curious about this one. I have been asked a few times why i wasn't hard or didn't cum. I certainly don't want the top to think he was no good! Lately i haven't been getting hard while getting fucked or even maintaining a hard on during sex. I'm not sure if its a middle age thing or perhaps meds I take. Traditionally my favorite way to cum is while riding a guy, especially if he has already or just about to cum. Riding a dick is the easiest way I have found to milk the tops cock. ! love looking into a tops face as he is coming or looking at each other. For one thing I like to seeing that expression on his face, but also to show him the appreciation on mine for letting me get off with his dick in me. (I also love when a top cums while I'm on my back, again so I can watch that pleasure on his face my ass is giving him) Glad to see how this poll is trending so far and hope there will be more respondents.