Going all in...

[versgeek]

So I'm debating going to cumunion in SF this weekend. I went once over a year ago and had amazing sex, but didn't take any loads. I'm neg and now on PrEP, but I'm still a little sheepish about letting guys cum in me. I know that if I do go I'll be leaving full of cum, and most of it will be poz. I'm not really a big chaser, but the risk does turn me on a little.

Has anyone taken this plunge? Gone from sheepish about loads to full cumdump? Any advice?

[firefighter]

For some reason I was always a cum lover, but that aside I do understand where you're coming from, I would be the same with slamming and drugs, I don't think I would ever bring my sexual escapades to include those things. I will say this to you though, you will have no better sex. I do believe there is only one way to enjoy it, and that is bare. You seem to be prepared though, so sit back and enjoy the ride.

[Rookie69]

I went to the Berkeley Steamworks about a year ago, and it blew my mind. I want to go back, but am still nervous about going. I used protection while i was there, and came away without catching anything, but know if i went back i'd probably turn into a pig and bareback bottom multiple guys. I've been really fantasizing about trying T and going one night. I'm sure if you did some partying before you went it would ease your nerves about going all in.

Good luck. Let me know how it turns out.

[rawTOP]

I'm sure if you did some partying before you went it would ease your nerves about going all in.

Don't ever use drugs as a crutch. Just be the pig you wanna be. If you have to use drugs to do it, then you probably shouldn't do it (yet).

[Rayne]

Don't ever use drugs as a crutch. Just be the pig you wanna be. If you have to use drugs to do it, then you probably shouldn't do it (yet).

I have to remind my fuck buddy about this as well. He loves how slutty he gets when on T, but he doesn't like the after effects he gets, so I have to keep him sane about it. I'm probably going to go end up taking him to a bathhouse for his bday in a couple days, but I don't know how he's going to handle it without the drugs, as he wants to have a full-on gangbang.

So, my little slut buddy is kind of in the same position as versgeek- does he take the drugs to help out, or does he take them to get over the fear? I don't know if vers is going to consider the drugs, but I think he should at least attend to see if it's for him. If you need the drugs to let loose, then I say make your choice based on this: if the drugs are what make you pig out, then don't use them; but if the drugs just make things more enjoyable, and you would rather do it with the drugs because they make it more enjoyable, then go ahead and consider it... but definitely weigh the pros/cons for yourself.

Then again, vers didn't say anything directly about the drugs, and everyone else has lol.

[versgeek]

Yeah, I should say that I'm not interested in Tina or GHB or anything outside pot, alcohol, or poppers, and if I go I'll probably only be hitting the poppers that night (helps loosen me up in a more practical sense).

For me the decision here is bit less "Should I bareback" and a bit more "Should I let my risk escalate to the natural conclusion." It feels inevitable but I'm still nervous about it.

[Rayne]

Sounds like you're on the right track. The right mentality, and definitely the best attitude to approaching it. Hope you go and enjoy yourself! If you're okay with the risk, and are willing to accept the drawbacks if you happen to catc anything, then don't over think it.

I'd go all out as a bottom pig if it were my thing lol.

[drscorpio]

If you are taking your PrEP meds on schedule every day, then you should be better protected than by using rubbers. Getting fucked multiple times by poz tops does increase your risk, but when it is so minimal to start with, it still won't amount to much.

Go for it! Have a blast!

[versgeek]

I decided to go after all. It starts in about a half an hour. I'm cleaned out, lubed, and I've got my poppers ready. Hopefully it's a good time. I'm still nervous as fuck.

[Guest btnman]

Good luck versgeek. Tell us how it goes

[Rayne]

Definitely interested in how it goes. Hope you enjoy it!

[drscorpio]

Can't wait to hear all about it!

[Guest JizzDumpWI]

I decided to go after all. It starts in about a half an hour. I'm cleaned out, lubed, and I've got my poppers ready. Hopefully it's a good time. I'm still nervous as fuck.

how was it? all you thought? more?

[versgeek]

Hey guys, sorry it's taken a couple of days to respond. I had a busy-ish Sunday and worked today.

I went and had a good time, though I'll say that I had built it up in my mind more than it turned out to actually be. I went with some viagra in my system and a bottle of poppers in hand and got there fairly early. It was still pretty empty but I quickly ended up fucking my way through numerous hot bottoms. There was one who I kept running into and he kept taking my dick until I was almost ready to cum and I'd pull back. Damn he had a fine furry ass.

Really I was there to get myself fucked and I knew if I'd cum I'd probably be less motivated to do so. So I pretty much spent the majority of my time edging myself until I was ready to switch over to bottom mode. After a while I gave in and got fucked by a hot bearish daddy with a thick uncut dick and begged for his load. He obliged which was very nice.

There were some really hot tops around, but they were a bit popular and crowded, which led to me mostly avoiding them. Mostly the bottoms I came across were amazing and there weren't enough cocks to go around to fill them. I suspect if I was strictly a top it'd be heaven.

I found another hot older guy to fuck me after a pretty long while and I thought it'd be hot to get fucked in the sling. It was a good fuck until I did a hit of my poppers. The guy asked for some and I delivered, which was a mistake because he couldn't handle them and basically had to go lay down. Oops.

So I figured "Hell, I'm already in the sling." and I just stayed there and let anyone who wanted to fuck me in my ass. That turned out to be a chubby older guy who couldn't stay hard, a really young twink who I had fucked earlier in the night (he was cute, but not really my type) and finally a rather hot furry chested bearded daddy. At my request he shot his load in me which sent me over the edge and I shot all over my chest.

In truth I came out of there with only two loads in me. That is more than I've ever done at one of these types of things, but only by one. I think that I prefer just going to Steamworks on a weekend daytime or Truck on a Tuesday night over Cumunion in hindsight. There's still tons of bareback sex to be had but there's more of a social atmosphere at both places. Cumunion is just pure fucking, which seems good on paper, but I think I miss having the option of either grabbing a drink and chatting or chilling out in the Jacuzzi that those other two options offer.

Either way, I'm glad I went, and I'll probably end up going again sometime. I'll definitely be less stressed about doing so. If I had a versatile fuck-bud to go with, I also think that would be a significant draw.