wow4761 Posted January 31, 2015 Report Posted January 31, 2015 I don't know what to make of this. Over the last 3-months or so, I have increasingly been only able to enjoy sex if it's rough, degrading, and lightly painful. So with a highly dominant top (or submissive bottom). I even discovered, by chance, that I bust bigger loads and more of them the more sadistic I get as a top. Discovered when a bottom begged me to be rough and inflict some pain on him. Wtf? Is this a sign of some sort of psychological issue? I'm too embarrassed to ask anyone in person. I worry ... there are times when I can cum just envisioning a rough scene! xD Quote
Moderators drscorpio Posted January 31, 2015 Moderators Report Posted January 31, 2015 You could be just discovering a new kink. As long as everything is consensual, I don't see a problem with rough sex. But if you are disturbed by the situation, you might need to unpack it with a therapist/counselor. I'm not sure we know you well enough to judge. Quote
wow4761 Posted February 1, 2015 Author Report Posted February 1, 2015 Well it's always consensual and stops when either one of us, or someone if it's s group, says stop. Dunno. Maybe it is a new kink/fetish ... I'll admit sex used to feel so damn boring until this discovery. Quote
Leather69 Posted February 2, 2015 Report Posted February 2, 2015 Your sex life seems to be evolving.. no-one goes through life without change. You seem to be enjoying the change and as you said it's consensual and you stop when asked. Enjoy... Quote
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