First Time Fisting Soon And...

[highwindcaleb]

ok. hi everyone!

I have a few quesitons about the realities and health consequences of fisting. i can take any cock i want without too much pain (not talking about super hung, just the normal to above average). I also have two butt plugs, a medium and a large. 
Medium: 5.25 inches tall and 1.5 inch diameter.
Large: 5.5 inches tall and 2.25 inch diameter.

i can ttake the medium one inside me easily but always need prep for the large and pulling it out sucks after ive cum. 

Im chatting with a guy who wants to fist me and wants to train me to be fisted by his friends. I am totally ok with that but im wondering what should i be doing to prepare myself for this. special diet? start taking the large BP more often? 

Also, what are the potential health consequences? i know i can google and i have. but i figure that this community has some practical knowledge as well that can be of assistance.

PLEASE AND THANKS

[Bttm2go]

Some thoughts. Make sure you can trust him. Don't use drugs. Take his fist sober. You need to feel what your hole is telling you so you don't get hurt. Take it slowly. It may not happen the first time and that's fine. A small hand is good to start. Use LOTS and LOTS of lube. Make sure you have time. This is not a pump and dump situation. Listen to your body.

Being fisted is amazing. Take your time and have fun. Fisting another guy is also a LOT of fun. If you have questions, pm me.

[LKMike]

Hi Bttm2go, i have had 2 guys try and fist me, both failed. They got to knuckles, but just could not get past that. I bought an inflatable butt plug to try and get me ready. Every time i get it to a large diameter i always end up bleeding, but getting there. What part of being fisted is amazing? i so want to try it and can not help but think when a fist is in me it will feel great (i have been knotted and that must feel similar), but is the entry and exit just as exciting?

[Guest ff-whole]

Training at home first with large and larger plugs and anything you can find to stretch comfortably... Some pain (no pain, no gain) is okay but absolutely no tearing... Go slow... If you trust the guys, let them work you very very slow. Otherwise only at home with toys... And also train to relax and get tight again... It's a bummer if you need to wear diapers because you are slack in training to close your hole again... A fart can than mean an ugly accident. Not something you want happening at work or on the train or in a shop... I have written several posts about training... It's a mindset to relax beyond what you think your ass is capable of. With me, my limit is my bonestructure of my pelvis, which is narrow... Still i can manage small to medium-small hands...

Good luck and don't forget to have fun and lots of pleasure.

[C10H15N]

What you need to know about fisting is here: http://winternet.com/~redright/newredright.html

Several of us here are experienced/advanced fisters and will answer your questions.

Edited July 14, 2015 by C10H15N

[Cuirpig]

Red Right mentioned earlier is an excellent source of FF information. You might also check the forums on Asspig.com.

 

One thing to keep in mind before FF play is to master your preparation techniques. Preparing for fucking vs getting ready for handball is very different. Guys into handball understand their body and digestion cycles. I always tell guys starting out to develop a good cleanout method. When you know you are good and clean you can focus on the play without worrying about accidents.

 

A good fisting top will be patient. It's all about the connection and trust. I always ask the bottom what they are trying to achieve - depth, width, etc. You will know when you are ready to advance. It took me years before I could take a fist to the elbow.

[fukkmenow]

I got fisted for the first time this week and i now know that its 90% mental (for me anyway). I have been trying to get fisted for years (probably 7 or 8) and have had many guys try and many fail, always getting to that last little bit, that i always assumed was the knuckles, but it is actually the thumb knuckle that is the stumbling block.

 

You also need to have trust with the other person who your playing with. Anything that doesn't feel right will translate into a tight sphincter. On saturday my first play was a little bit tight, but on the second session everything opened up and things just worked and it popped in. and popped out just as easily, and that was my other issue, i used to think what if i get it in and it wont come out, but it does and its a great feeling if you do it properly. 

[cumslut23]

Before I got fisted for the first time, I used lots of plugs and dildos. There is actually a plug which has the shape of a hand. Play with your ass, relax and take your time. Wear plugs for hours and suddenly your hole can go another inch. Some blood is normal, however if you are bleeding heavily I suggest getting it checked out. There might be something in your hole that shouldn't be there. It is an amazing and filling feeling to have a fist in you, but defnitely not one of a drugfucked random guy from the street. 

 

It recommend j-lube or fist powder. It is a bit messy, but to me that is another turn on. I also recommend buying one of the lube pumps and filling your hole with some lube. I was surprised how much that helped.

[BareInMissouri]

I got fisted for the first time this week and i now know that its 90% mental (for me anyway). I have been trying to get fisted for years (probably 7 or 8) and have had many guys try and many fail, always getting to that last little bit, that i always assumed was the knuckles, but it is actually the thumb knuckle that is the stumbling block.

 

You also need to have trust with the other person who your playing with. Anything that doesn't feel right will translate into a tight sphincter. On saturday my first play was a little bit tight, but on the second session everything opened up and things just worked and it popped in. and popped out just as easily, and that was my other issue, i used to think what if i get it in and it wont come out, but it does and its a great feeling if you do it properly. 

Gotta say the second point about trust is a good one. Being comfortable with your top will go a long way towards you being able to loosen up. First time I finally got a guys fist in me was only after I'd known the guy for a while and knew he was experienced enough I could trust him not to push me past what I could handle. 

[Top2Bottom42]

What you need to know about fisting is here: http://winternet.com/~redright/newredright.html

Several of us here are experienced/advanced fisters and will answer your questions.

I was just about to post that very same link (and also to not go into the brown scatsite links unless they have strong stomachs).

That site has information that has helped me from being a handball novice (having been introduced and instructed how to top by an expert handballer and getting the interest in being Verseatile to a much more advanced (I call it intermeadiate advanced) level and have repeatidly taken someone in me to 2" from elbow and I can get into slightly more depth, but still not the elbow on others.

I get others whom state that they have fisted before and within a few minutes of them being in my hole, I can tell that they are complete novices. And I then start their education.

I send that link to anyone who has any interest in fisting me...or whom also might want to get fisted. I prefer a verse handballer (or top only) as I also like to take as much as I give. And the opposite is also true...

I will consider myself to be into expert range, when I've gotten an expert bottom, whom will be able to allow me to start the post elbow holeworking techniques. And expert leveling bottomwise when I get past my first elbow in my hole, too.

And you know what, An occasional reread of that site helps me better refine my ff/assplay game over time, too.

Trust, communication, lube, more lube and did I say, more lube...

And that trust, coupled with feeling someone's pulse from the big aorta that runs down the back to the pelvis and know the feeling of how that trust and what you could do, if you did not know what you were doing and how seriously that could be hurt, and you know that you are not, that they will enjoy giving that trust and then go to town and make them your handpuppet... very heady rush all by itself... and then hoping that they have the same rush when they do the same to you, too.... OINK!