ruiicostta Posted August 3, 2015 Report Posted August 3, 2015 Hello, Beforehand I would to apologize my English, since I am foreigner. I just stumbled with this forum yesterday, and I'm looking around for some advice. I'm into anal play (Alone) for a around 6 months, I read a lot for the first steps. Currently now when I'm very relaxed I can put until 4 fingers (In cone format). My old goal which I just reached was put some anal beads (With average size). But my main goal is to fist myself, which I think will take a time. But last weekend I was looking over some Fisting lessons, and I found things that made me feel concerned about this development, because I saw some "possible" problems related with Fisting, like: Prolapse, hemorrhoids, leakage and so on. I am reaching 30 years old, and I am worried with this in long term. Does anybody here had any of these problems when stretching their ass using hands or big dildos?
C10H15N Posted August 4, 2015 Report Posted August 4, 2015 No. Training your ass to open enough to take a fist and destroying your sphincter are entirely different things.
Guest ff-whole Posted August 4, 2015 Report Posted August 4, 2015 (edited) Yes, training, training and then some training... Stretching and relaxing... Getting your hole to close again... Training to work your musscles, inside and outside spinxter... But I must say that after years of stretching I now do get a little bit of leakage, also I have to be careful when I fart, because that is when you basically put pressure on your inside, where when you are having a dick inside of you and you need to relax to have him come deeper, you fart there is no dick, but you relax and when you have a small turd inside it will come out... Hahahaha Edited August 4, 2015 by ff-whole
ruiicostta Posted August 4, 2015 Author Report Posted August 4, 2015 But I must say that after years of stretching I now do get a little bit of leakage Omg that's what I was afraid to hear. I usually play once per week, but I don't know, it's fine now, but I'm worried about long term, and as I can see you have 50+ y/o and relating a problem that I heard that could happens around that age. Thanks for answering.
cumslut23 Posted August 4, 2015 Report Posted August 4, 2015 Look, I love lose holes. I love having one. For a couple of months, I was quite an active fistee. As a result, my hole was lose and I had trouble controlling it, especially when seriously drunk. It was easy getting four fingers in just when sitting in the bathroom. I had to turn it down for other reasons and am normal a bit more average in my consumption of fists. Haven't had that problem in a long time now which makes me kinda sad. But my point is, reducing will heal, so I don't see a problem if you just play around once a week.
AlwaysOpen Posted August 4, 2015 Report Posted August 4, 2015 As you continue to play your hole will open and relax more and more. Just as when you eat , your belly will grow and get soft and flabby. So, what do you do when you eat? You exercise and tone up the gut-- same trick to your hole- exercise it and work the ass lips and surrounding muscles- kegels are one exercise that can be done, clamping your hole and squeezing and then relaxing it. You might just discover that by working your ass muscles while sitting at work or home on the sofa vegging out in front of the TV, that over some time you will have a power hole that can open to take a fist, and then clamp down on a 6 inch pencil dick and still squeeze a load out of him. I am impressed by your flexibility, being able to work 4 fingers up inside- send some pics along when you are flexible enough and relaxed enough to get your own hand all the way IN !!
Guest ff-whole Posted August 4, 2015 Report Posted August 4, 2015 I used to be able to get my own hand inside, but I can't anymore... I'm just not flexible enough and the angle of my hand around my back or around my bottom/balls is just to awkward... But just because I have to pay attention when I fart or so, I won't stop enjoying myself. Live to short.
ruiicostta Posted August 5, 2015 Author Report Posted August 5, 2015 I had to turn it down for other reasons and am normal a bit more average in my consumption of fists. Haven't had that problem in a long time now which makes me kinda sad. Did you stop all anal play or only fists? After that your asshole got to normal again? But my point is, reducing will heal, so I don't see a problem if you just play around once a week. Yes now it may heal, but the problem for what I read is that usually as someone gets old, the asshole gets a bit loose because the age. And that's is the problem that I facing right now, the long term. I won't stop enjoying myself. Live to short. Yes I want to enjoy myself too, and please, I don't want to be that guy, the boring one, but I have this concern about the long term, and as you said, you have a bit leakage by now, and I'm afraid of it, and that's my current research. As you continue to play your hole will open and relax more and more. Can you tell me for how long you're a bottom? Thanks, Ruii.
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